posted February 07, 2025 02:50 PM            

1/29/2024
Pluto in Aquarius 0°. Conjunct my 1° Aquarius DSC. by 1°.

On this date I eloped with a man I had known for 12 months. He proposed on 7/4/2023 when Pluto was retrograde at 29° Capricorn. I felt the need to change myself for him and truly convinced myself (Pluto was conj. My natal Neptune by 0° here as well) that I could be his perfect image of a wife.

1/3/2025
Pluto exactly conj. DSC @ 1° Aquarius

I work in the wedding industry which involves the coming and going of many caterers, bartenders, dj’s, etc. I have worked several weddings with a colleague but on this night in particular, with moon conj. Venus in Pisces, we got to know each other deeply in a few fleeting moments. I got his birth date and read his chart. He is very plutonic. I went home with visions of him in my head all night. This shattered my carefully crafted world of the perfect wife — a perfect wife wouldn’t flirt with strangers. A perfect wife would not consider running away with someone. I had a near mental breakdown in the following seven days. I realized I had feelings for another man and that I very likely would be divorcing my husband by the end of this year.

1/10/2025
I told my husband I am rethinking our marriage and that I can’t have his children because I am not sure I can remain faithful to only him for the rest of my life. Chaos ensues.

1/27/2025
I begin my first session undergoing intensive therapy to deal with my underlying attachment issues and determine whether or not I should stay married to my husband.

UPDATE #1.

1.29.2025
Exactly one year after my marriage, with Pluto conjunct my descendant line at 1° Aquarius, I realize that entering into a marriage so quickly was not the best idea for me. I cannot trust myself to stay faithful. With that said, I still cannot stop thinking of my coworker, henceforth rederred to as E, and rarely does a day pass where I haven’t fantasized about him.

2.17.2025
Flirted with E. Told him about my dream In which he was on the front lawn of my childhood home and I was watching him from the top floor window. He wanted to come inside so I let him.
I got home and discussed divorce with my husband. — how it is the best option for me as an individual.

2.19.2025
On this day, my ex and I communicated via email for the first time in two and a half years. His Pluto opposes my sun and Venus at 0°, and trines my moon at 0° as well. Total Plutonian relationship.

3/2/2025
I told my husband I officially want a divorce. We will be filing by the end of this month.

3/14/2025
Transit Venus retrograde in Aries square to natal Uranus in 7H. I reunited in person with my ex after two and a half years. He confessed his love for me after all that time and took me out to dinner. We shared the most intense , emotional, passionate evening together I have ever known in my life. We decided to try again — this time knowing ourselves a little better. Looking back I should’ve seen the retrograde antics at play.

3.24.2025
transit moon conjunct Pluto 7H descendant @3° Aquarius
Had divorce papers notarized and filed today.

5.27.2025
transit Venus conjunct natal venus in Aries. official divorce date in court

7.5.2025
Pluto retrograde into 6th house. I saw a psychiatrist and was officially diagnosed with a mood disorder. Given the option to begin more intensive trauma therapy or medication. I chose neither for now. I’m not ready to integrate profound change in my life yet.

7.11.2025
transit moon conjunct transit Pluto on natal descendant in Aquarius. After 4-5 weeks without working (summer is generally too hot for weddings where I’m located) with or hearing from E, my crush that inevitably sparked my divorce, he emailed me totally out of the blue with his number asking me to call him. I called him that same evening because though I had divorced and gotten into a whole new relationship with my ex boyfriend, he still had my interest from all those months ago. We chatted for four hours about nothing.

7.19.2025
transit mars conjunct natal mars in Virgo at 18° square to transit Pluto. Decided to break up with the ex that I previously got back together with due to incompatibility (again).

7.22.2025
sun in Leo conjunct ascendant at 0°, opposing transit Pluto rx at 2° Aquarius. Today I got the call that my father passed away in his home unexpectedly from heart failure. This came as a deep and wounding sadness that plagued me greatly. The melancholy nearly sliced me. This was the same day that I was supposed to have my first date with E

posted February 08, 2025 02:37 PM            

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Originally posted by PlutoWasHere:
I’m not a Leo Rising but I just wanted to say you’re doing a great job with taking the opportunities this Pluto transit offers. Pluto is the planet of deep diving, confrontation, personal growth, psychology and defense mechanisms. With Pluto transit your 7th house, this means you are confronted with deep seated issues regarding relationships. Pluto isn’t bad, but keeping things hidden will make a Pluto transit more difficult. Writing in a diary and going to therapy, are very beneficial expressions of Pluto transit 7th house, working with Pluto and not against it.

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