posted April 21, 2025 11:02 AM            

Recently, I met someone who has Saturn sextile Venus in his natal chart.

Saturn in Aqua and Venus in Sag, unfortunately, I don't know the houses as the birth time is yet unknown.

posted April 21, 2025 02:28 PM            

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Originally posted by Librapurr:
He would be more comfortable with Saturnian qualities than average Saggy Venus and tolerant or willing to learn about Aqua love style though it wouldn’t be necessarily his cup of tea.
Depending on the orb and other aspects it would bring more coldness in fire Venus what is less harsh than with hard Saturn.

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Hi Librapurr,

Thousand thanks for the insight. I wanted to add that his Saturn is opposite Chiron in Leo (2 orbs) and his Venus is trine Chiron (this is probably too wide - 6 orbs)

As I have the same Saturn in Aqua, but it squares my natal Venus in Scorp and I'm on the asexual spectrum - can it be also a possibility that he might also be similar, but okay with it due to the positive aspect?

posted April 22, 2025 05:01 AM            

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Originally posted by Emsie:
Hi Everyone,

Recently, I met someone who has Saturn sextile Venus in his natal chart.

Saturn in Aqua and Venus in Sag, unfortunately, I don't know the houses as the birth time is yet unknown.

How can this manifest in a man's life regarding love and sexuality?

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Ok. I am going to be quite explicit. So excuse my language. 😶

But I feel it necessary in order to do this interpretation justice.Coz many online readings make this placement sound neutered, bland and tragic. And this is not the case (in my experience).

Men with Venus/Saturn are a bit of a slow burn. Lots of foreplay and sensual exchange is NECESSARY , before things can get fiery.

Saturn tends to conceal the fires of Venus-making the individual cool and controlled. Sometimes this can even appear as them being 'asexual', "chilly" or lacking in sex drive etc. This is especially so with air signs involved.

But Saturn- Venus is LUSTY. In that Saturn tends to contain Venus' passions for so long and so deep, that they eventually manifest as extremes or(for lack of a better word) "perversions" and "fetishes".

So there could be a love of all things "dirty" (Sat) or those deemed "unsavoury" by others. It is important that judgement be reserved when it comes to sexual expression- as these people already struggle with being able to accept their own sensual nature. Let alone satiate those appetites.

There could be a love of sniffing underwear (dirty), rimming, urinating on the lover, armpit licking and eating the 🐱 as opposed to just pure penetration etc.

Dirt plays some role in arousal I.e. mud wrestling, sweat , wet hair that looks untamed and messy. Included in that is also moisture I.e. wet t-shirts (shared also by Moon men), oiled up bodies and shower intimacy etc.

Saturn likes confined spaces and tight clothes. So making love or getting down and dirty in confined spaces/places I.e. in a car,in the shower, on a passageway, in a bathroom, on the toilet seat, inside a cupboard etc.may appeal.

These people tend to also be aroused by the idea of "getting caught ". So having sex in places that are forbidden or restricted, can also be appealing I.e. "playing" with you under the covers whilst watching a movie with company etc. Can be very arousing for them coz it's "bad".

Included in that is this fixation with tight clothes(as said earlier) I.e. figure hugging jeans can be sexy to them, as would be pencil skirts, uniforms, unbuttoned shirts to reveal cleavage, the outline of your butt when wearing clothes and tight fitting shirts/tops that make the breast area "pop out", can be very hot to them.

There could also be this thing of making love with clothes still on. 🤷🏿‍♂️. It can be odd. But its usually what they like.

In the courting phase, they love to let the sexual tension build up. These folks are kinda old-fashioned in this department (as Saturn is an old style planet).

So it's not about playing "hard to get" but really "saving the best for last"(as Ven-Sat Vanessa Williams once sang). Everything can be sweeter near the end so let them enjoy the journey to the slow unfolding of you.

When thinking of Sat-Venus, I often think about "Pride and prejudice". And how the sexual tension between Elizabeth and Darcy only got released right at the end.

That's how this aspect is. The final release is long in coming. But usually worth the wait.

These men can also be slow to get "hard" or get /sustain an erection. Or take long to ejaculate. So long stroke are preferred and lovemaking can last for hours ☝🏿

With Saturn, everything takes TIME. Remember that.

posted April 23, 2025 10:37 AM            

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Originally posted by Emsie:
Hi Librapurr,

Thousand thanks for the insight. I wanted to add that his Saturn is opposite Chiron in Leo (2 orbs) and his Venus is trine Chiron (this is probably too wide - 6 orbs)

As I have the same Saturn in Aqua, but it squares my natal Venus in Scorp and I'm on the asexual spectrum - can it be also a possibility that he might also be similar, but okay with it due to the positive aspect?

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It could be a learning experience to see how someone with different aspect with similar hard planets manage it. I was thinking a lot about it lately. Again, the other aspects and planets matter. Saggy Venus is more bold and shameless one.