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Topic: How To Stop an Argument Which Each Zodiac Sign
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Belage2
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posted June 21, 2025 04:34 PM
  
I agree 100% with these recommendations. They are delivered with humor and jest, but they are very insightful! And they don't just apply to Sun sign only. These recommendations could apply to moon and rising signs too. The recommendations for Virgo, Pisces and Libra ( my trifecta, lol) were right on!  https://youtu.be/j8x5UU5_7AY?t=1 IP: Logged |
teasel
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posted June 21, 2025 04:50 PM
One way, regardless of the sign, might be to just say, "You're absolutely right" if you just don't care. If someone is trying to wind you up, baiting. I had a friend who did that on a website that was overrun with trolls, years ago. When my cappy sister was angry over something that wasn't my fault, but I was dragged into it, I was really calm. Totally understanding. She just got angrier. When I ended up showing some frustration myself, she started to back off. She's Cappy/Pisces/Pisces, with a Sadge Mars. Venus in Cap, opposed Saturn in Leo. She just wanted a reaction. I got a rare apology later on. I haven't finished watching this yet, because I'm anxious, and he was stressing me out, lol. Too much energy. I'm watching it a bit at a time. I'm Aries/Gem/Scorp, and I won't know that I'm over something, until I'm around you, and I feel good or bad. My Sadge mum once totally melted a Scorpio, by being understanding. We were new to the neighbourhood, us kids were little, but we made friends right away, with all of the kids there. Our house became the place to be, because my mum was great with kids. One woman showed up later in the day, enraged, because she couldn't find her children. Mum, rather than get defensive, was so understanding - because of course she was scared - that Lucy calmed down, and they were still best friends when mum died in 2016. Mum had Venus in Scorpio.
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teasel
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posted June 21, 2025 05:05 PM
Okay, I do get over most things easily. Most things aren't worth getting fussed over. If I'm still feeling resentment, there's a very good reason for it.Mum - Sagittarius - did used to say that she was always right. She could be cutting, and got her feelings easily hurt. Really easily. We once ended up in an argument where she thought I was taking my dad's side in something, and she didn't speak to me for three days. I got the silent treatment when I took food into their room, for one of the dogs. I got through to her via text message, and I heard her crying, and that floored me. On the other hand, she would be the first person to help anyone, even if they'd really hurt her. When it came to politics, she was the one to tell me maybe we should back off, and settle down, lol. Because my feelings were flying, and she was surprised. Even though she said I should have been alive during the sixties. She called me her little flower child. Gemini Moon: yes, LMAO. If I'm really pushed, I will get sassy, before I get really mad, unless I'm really triggered. You will not shut me up, until I'm good and ready. But I can also go the complete opposite way, and just stop talking. That's when either someone has really crossed a line, or I need time, and I need quiet, to settle down my nervous system. I'm not big on the silent treatment - I think it's mean, unless I know the other person needs to calm down. People generally don't like it when I get sassy, because it means I'm not as upset as they want me to be, or they see it as disrespectful. IP: Logged |
Belage2
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posted June 21, 2025 05:58 PM
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Originally posted by teasel:
I haven't finished watching this yet, because I'm anxious, and he was stressing me out, lol. Too much energy. I'm watching it a bit at a time.
Yes, he's got a lot of nervous energy and he talks so fast, I have to watch him by slowing down the speed of the video to 75 or 80. It's perfect for me then! IP: Logged |
Belage2
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posted June 21, 2025 06:05 PM
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Originally posted by teasel:
I'm Aries/Gem/Scorp, and I won't know that I'm over something, until I'm around you, and I feel good or bad.
Do you think you resonated with what was said about Aries, Gem and Scorpio? In my experience, my Aries and Scorpio friends and exes perfectly fit the description and suggestions he gave. IP: Logged | |
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