posted July 05, 2025 10:13 PM            

Today, another woman I follow, asked people "What kind of friend are you?" after talking about a woman who listed her friends, and their strengths, when she needed someone to advocate for her. So, the person who might not be the one you go to for comfort (although, you never know), might not be the one you ask to go to the doctor with you, when you need someone to have your back.

I still don't know what to answer for either one. I'm an Aries, and there is a lot of cookbook stuff out there, that just paints us as people who like to fight, when that isn't true. But, I can step up and have your back. I might be anxious, and shaking, but I have been that person. It's much easier when I'm angry, and I've surprised people who seemed to think I never got angry, because I kept to myself, and wasn't that easy to set off.

I don't always know what to say. When my sister was upset, years ago, and she was away from home. She'd just fought with her boyfriend, and was crying so much that she was getting sick. My parents were on their way to bring her home from Canada, and I tried to distract her. That wasn't what she needed, and she got angry with me. I didn't know what to do, at a distance, and I need distraction, before I do the opposite, and wallow/cry/keep to myself. When she was here, I would vent with her, when she was angry and needed someone to bounce that off. Once again, she made up with him, after sending him angry messages, and I was up all night with her. But I was here, and I helped her.

I'm Aries, Gemini Moon/Venus, Mars in Pisces, Uranus conjunct Scorpio ascendant. She is a Cappy/Pisces/Pisces, with Sadge Mars.

posted July 05, 2025 10:22 PM            

She was *fun*. She would go partying with my cousins, or her friends. Everyone loved her, some hated her. But she was always there for people. She was also a therapist to everyone. There were people who would call when they needed a friend to talk to, and then they'd disappear until the next time they needed the same thing from her.

My dad will do whatever he can to help you. Taurus/Taurus/Sadge. Mars conjunct Mercury in Aries. Venus in Pisces. He will make sure that you're fed (Taurus cookbook astro there). He will help you with anything that he can. But do not ask him to sit on the beach with you. He can't sit still that long.