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Topic: How has been your experience with men who have Libra Moon or Venus in Pisces?
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Leo-Cancer98 Knowflake Posts: 2074 From: Toronto,Ontario,Canada Registered: Nov 2014
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posted September 12, 2025 01:44 PM
Feel free to mention the house placement and any aspects their Moon or Venus make.Also, since Decans modify things, it may also be relevant if their Libra Moon or Pisces Venus is between 0-10 degrees, 10-20 degrees, or 20-30 degrees. Especially 0-10 degrees for the Moon sign, since they may behave like their Vedic Virgo Moon. ------------------ Cancer Rising 2nd House Leo Sun 3rd House Leo Mercury 6th House Sagittarius Moon & Pluto 1st House Cancer Venus & Mars 9th House Pisces Jupiter conjunct MC. IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 218317 From: I hold a Juris Doctorate (J.D.) and a Legum Magister (LL.M.)! Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 06, 2025 09:26 AM
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93nov Knowflake Posts: 416 From: Registered: Oct 2019
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posted October 07, 2025 08:58 PM
I am a female and my Libra moon is at 21 degrees.The Libra moon men I've encountered are too feminine for my taste. I've only met one so far who was an exception to my 'rule'. They are very conflict-avoidant, but are usually the ones causing the conflict. It's better if they have Saturn aspecting it to ground that fickle emotional nature. Libra Moon men are very fun, charismatic, charming. They make great friends and usually have a best friend they are with all the time. They also have a wide variety of other 'distant' friends from different backgrounds unless other aspects interfere. The Libra moon men I've encountered also had squares to Uranus and Neptune.. so emotionally unavailable/ unpredictable, along with conflict-avoidant lol.
Regardless of aspects though, moon always shows women/ mother. Men sometimes express their moon through the type of women they attract/ have around them. So the mother and/ or other women in their life will also have these traits in some way. Libra placements in general are sweet and personable. We can read the room and adapt accordingly which most people find socially pleasing because it takes the pressure off. "The elephant is no longer in the room" lol. Us moons usually love children and children love us. Very soft and gentle with the babies. We are true to our sign! Balance. Balance. Balance. For every bad deed, we make up for it with ten good. Always balanced. Always fair. Unless other aspects/ transits disrupt the flow. I hope this helps.
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Belage2 Knowflake Posts: 1623 From: Registered: Jan 2025
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posted October 08, 2025 02:12 PM
I have noticed the following with men with Venus in Pisces:They tend to have addictions of their own (drugs, sex or alcohol). When they don't have addictions of their own, they tend to form significant relationships with partners who have addictions. So they are living through addictions vicariously. Or, they form significant relationships with people who have sob stories of abuse and rape in their past, or people who have gone through very hard times. It is almost as though they need to feel sorry for their partners. I guess a wounded partner brings out the exaltation of Venus in Pisces. When they are much older, they can become more discerning though. Also, they are happiest when their partners has some artistic talent or proclivity, because artistic sensitivity is pretty high with Venus in Pisces men. IP: Logged |
SleepyDiary Knowflake Posts: 1101 From: Registered: Apr 2017
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posted October 08, 2025 04:55 PM
quote: Originally posted by Belage2: I have noticed the following with men with Venus in Pisces:They tend to have addictions of their own (drugs, sex or alcohol). When they don't have addictions of their own, they tend to form significant relationships with partners who have addictions. So they are living through addictions vicariously. Or, they form significant relationships with people who have sob stories of abuse and rape in their past, or people who have gone through very hard times. It is almost as though they need to feel sorry for their partners. I guess a wounded partner brings out the exaltation of Venus in Pisces. When they are much older, they can become more discerning though. Also, they are happiest when their partners has some artistic talent or proclivity, because artistic sensitivity is pretty high with Venus in Pisces men.
I have also noticed there can be a difference between Women and Men of this Venus sign the Women might unconditionally love someone that is not good for them and treats them badly or the relationship is just very "unequal" and will have very weak boundaries for that person while the Men goes for the types you talk about people with "problems" but who aren`t necessarily bad people.
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Belage2 Knowflake Posts: 1623 From: Registered: Jan 2025
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posted October 08, 2025 08:56 PM
^^^ You are probably right. Venus in Pisces woman can be the long suffering type, who loves and sacrifices themselves...IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 218317 From: I hold a Juris Doctorate (J.D.) and a Legum Magister (LL.M.)! Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 08, 2025 08:33 AM
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girlwiththerainysoul Knowflake Posts: 3110 From: Registered: Jul 2016
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posted November 09, 2025 09:29 AM
I dated a Libra moon man (aqua sun and Scorpio rising). He was much older and one of my first boyfriends and my parents were very much against that. His moon was in the last Decan of Libra and made a square to his mars in Capricorn. Libras can be the whole package of beauty and brains, but it didn’t work out with us because he had this female friend who deemed me unsuitable for him, and he valued her advice a lot. Because of that I lost all attraction for him and stopped fighting for our relationship. IP: Logged |
Leo-Cancer98 Knowflake Posts: 2074 From: Toronto,Ontario,Canada Registered: Nov 2014
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posted November 09, 2025 12:33 PM
quote: Originally posted by girlwiththerainysoul: I dated a Libra moon man (aqua sun and Scorpio rising). He was much older and one of my first boyfriends and my parents were very much against that. His moon was in the last Decan of Libra and made a square to his mars in Capricorn. Libras can be the whole package of beauty and brains, but it didn’t work out with us because he had this female friend who deemed me unsuitable for him, and he valued her advice a lot. Because of that I lost all attraction for him and stopped fighting for our relationship.
Aww mann, why put an external party’s opinion above how he feels when is with you and how you treat him? What was his Sun & Venus sign? Did his Venus aspect Neptune, Saturn, Pluto, or Uranus? IP: Logged |
girlwiththerainysoul Knowflake Posts: 3110 From: Registered: Jul 2016
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posted November 09, 2025 01:23 PM
Lol I know, I thought it was strange too. But once I noticed that it was easy for me to switch off my feelings for him. It was a long time ago and I don’t exactly remember his year of birth but I remember he had sun conjunct Venus in Aquarius and Scorpio rising. I don’t believe he had any Venus/neptune aspect. IP: Logged |
Preppyarcher7989Wiff Knowflake Posts: 731 From: United States Registered: Jan 2024
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posted November 09, 2025 10:41 PM
quote: Originally posted by 93nov: I am a female and my Libra moon is at 21 degrees.The Libra moon men I've encountered are too feminine for my taste. I've only met one so far who was an exception to my 'rule'. They are very conflict-avoidant, but are usually the ones causing the conflict. It's better if they have Saturn aspecting it to ground that fickle emotional nature. Libra Moon men are very fun, charismatic, charming. They make great friends and usually have a best friend they are with all the time. They also have a wide variety of other 'distant' friends from different backgrounds unless other aspects interfere. The Libra moon men I've encountered also had squares to Uranus and Neptune.. so emotionally unavailable/ unpredictable, along with conflict-avoidant lol.
Regardless of aspects though, moon always shows women/ mother. Men sometimes express their moon through the type of women they attract/ have around them. So the mother and/ or other women in their life will also have these traits in some way. Libra placements in general are sweet and personable. We can read the room and adapt accordingly which most people find socially pleasing because it takes the pressure off. "The elephant is no longer in the room" lol. Us moons usually love children and children love us. Very soft and gentle with the babies. We are true to our sign! Balance. Balance. Balance. For every bad deed, we make up for it with ten good. Always balanced. Always fair. Unless other aspects/ transits disrupt the flow. I hope this helps.
To be more compassionate, Libras can be their worst enemy. They have issues making decisions. And they can't handle it when their problems pile up, from their many mistakes, and choices, over many years, then they run. ------------------ Happiness is easy to find. IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 218317 From: I hold a Juris Doctorate (J.D.) and a Legum Magister (LL.M.)! Registered: Apr 2009
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posted December 05, 2025 05:13 PM
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Leo-Cancer98 Knowflake Posts: 2074 From: Toronto,Ontario,Canada Registered: Nov 2014
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posted December 28, 2025 08:40 AM
quote: Originally posted by Randall: Bump!
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queenofswords Knowflake Posts: 77 From: USA Registered: Jan 2023
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posted March 27, 2026 12:40 PM
I have aries moon and I have dated 2 libra moons, 10-20 decan (opposite my moon) and both were annoying in ways they didnt take care of themselves. One was a drunk and had a beautiful house he just let it go, the other ignored he has had, still has bc it comes up from time to time...mental issues that are schizophrenic-like. For example, he believes everyone is out to kill him, even his friends. He was once admitted then all of a sudden hes ok again (but really not). His parents know about this and I believe are also in denial which just enables him. I had to block him because of his refusal of treatment.So both libra moons just do not take care of themselves and its so annoying to me. IP: Logged |
Aries23Degrees Knowflake Posts: 11571 From: South Africa Registered: Dec 2012
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posted March 28, 2026 02:09 AM
quote: Originally posted by Belage2: I have noticed the following with men with Venus in Pisces:They tend to have addictions of their own (drugs, sex or alcohol). When they don't have addictions of their own, they tend to form significant relationships with partners who have addictions. So they are living through addictions vicariously. Or, they form significant relationships with people who have sob stories of abuse and rape in their past, or people who have gone through very hard times. It is almost as though they need to feel sorry for their partners. I guess a wounded partner brings out the exaltation of Venus in Pisces. When they are much older, they can become more discerning though. Also, they are happiest when their partners has some artistic talent or proclivity, because artistic sensitivity is pretty high with Venus in Pisces men.
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Aries23Degrees Knowflake Posts: 11571 From: South Africa Registered: Dec 2012
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posted March 28, 2026 02:41 AM
quote: Originally posted by girlwiththerainysoul: I dated a ♎ moon man (aqua sun and ♏ rising). He was much older and one of my first boyfriends and my parents were very much against that. His moon was in the last Decan of Libra and made a square to his mars in Capricorn. Libras can be the whole package of beauty and brains, but it didn’t work out with us because he had this female friend who deemed me unsuitable for him, and he valued her advice a lot. Because of that I lost all attraction for him and stopped fighting for our relationship.
Yes. Something that I have to also watch out for as a ♎ Mars - as I tended to avoid dating people that those closest to me won't give their "stamp of approval" on. This even if my attraction to them persists. I think as ♎ energy *especially if ♎ Dsc or ♎ Venus* one tends to see their partners as extensions of themselves. And so this makes one want to choose someone who will be a BIG positive impression to others, so that they can extend that positivity to themselves(Leo DiCaprio has ♎ Moon and his choice of young women is a reflection of that). The one had 18♎ Moon that I was being pushed to pursue by friends, had ♌ Sun. I found him much too boisterous and aggressive. I was not attracted to that. He ofcourse was gorgeous and had a great style in dressing. But I felt he was too vain in essence and the type of person who would be quick to seek out attention and love elsewhere ( if I don't avail myself in the manner or swiftness that he wants me to at any given time). The other 15♎ Moon was a friend of mine. And this one had the tendency of not being emotionally available (which as a ♋ Moon , I found difficult to deal with). Very friendly on the surface. But not at all that engaged with me one on one(♒ was rising too).So our friendship got strained and ended. Be mindful that ♎ energy tends to be the type that wants to feed off of other people's approval.It really can make itself "loveable " to others but unlike ♓ (who is also very adaptable), ♎ is an elitist. So it won't bend over backwards for everybody. But only for those whom they consider "the right crowd " or "popular" to others whose opinion they care for. 17 to 29 ♎ people are ime, surprisingly aggressive and fiery. Whilst those between 4 to 17 are not. The latter are actually the type that fit neatly into the Libra stereotypes often. Because of Venus rulership, the tendency to be androgynous , "feminine " or even dabble in adding female clothes or "flowery" ensembles into one's attire (as a male) isn't unusual. Venus tends to endow elegance and refinement to these men in the way they interact with life and carry themselves. So don't expect crass behaviour (like farting or burping etc in the presence of others).Nor "manspreading" in public- as these people deem those actions brute and uncouth.So they'll reject those who display them.And any impetus within them to act in that way. The ♎ energy (whether Moon, Venus or Sun) tends to put pressure on you to perform to a certain standard when romantically involved with you. If you don't , they think its YOUR fault they sought comfort in the arms of another. Not theirs. As these people tend to always want a 'plus 1' to empathize with their needs and to do a contrast/comparison with in terms of the mate they already have (so some may be prone to cheating and infidelity).
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