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Topic: Eros in Scorpio 12H
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bluestskies88
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posted November 27, 2025 09:59 AM
  
Hi i need help with my relationship with my guy. he is dismissive avoidant, aspergers and has sexual abuse trauma. he has deep fears of intimacy and relationship/ closeness. i read that eros in scorpio 12H does that? [img]https://i.ibb.co/XfNPX2g5/Screenshot-2025-11-27-at-9-52-27-AM.png[/img] IP: Logged |
Aries23Degrees
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posted November 29, 2025 04:10 AM
Is the individual very religious?IP: Logged |
Belage2
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posted November 29, 2025 05:48 PM
I don't think Eros in Scorpio would be responsible for so much.Looking at your guy, he has Venus conjunct Uranus. That is the classic aspect of someone who needs his freedom and does not want to settle down. His relationships will be unpredictable... Date him at your own risk. If you can take things one day at a time, not plan for long term, and just enjoy the exciting ride... IP: Logged |
Belage2
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posted November 29, 2025 05:52 PM
You know what? I may take the previous comment back. I just noticed he also has Pluto conjunct his Venus. So that makes for a very intense guy, split between his Plutonian needs and his Uranian needs...IP: Logged |
girlwiththerainysoul
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posted November 29, 2025 07:22 PM
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Originally posted by bluestskies88:
i read that eros in scorpio 12H does that?
Could be. But he also has Saturn in 4th, Venus opposite Saturn, and moon in Aquarius. These alone could make a person withdrawn and avoidant and even depressed, if they're not going to be open to therapy. IP: Logged |
girlwiththerainysoul
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posted November 29, 2025 07:24 PM
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Originally posted by Belage2:
Date him at your own risk. If you can take things one day at a time, not plan for long term, and just enjoy the exciting ride...
Solid advice. IP: Logged |
girlwiththerainysoul
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posted November 29, 2025 07:25 PM
I do have to say that his Saturnian Venus, Scorpio rising and Aquarius moon could make for a person who can be loyal, but it may be a tough ride so don't expect too much too soon. If you see a future with him remember to take things slow. IP: Logged |
bluestskies88
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posted November 29, 2025 07:44 PM
thank you all so much!everything ads up. he is super avoidant, asd level 1 and has a hard time with feelings. he likes to take things slow its been a few years on and off and been chaotic yet very karmic for the both of us. here is our synastry! i am blue, he's red [img]https://i.ibb.co/Tx66wffd/IMG-4128.jpg[/img] if anyone wants to do a paid synastry reading please let me know thank you IP: Logged |
bluestskies88
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posted November 29, 2025 07:52 PM
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Originally posted by girlwiththerainysoul:
I do have to say that his Saturnian Venus, Scorpio rising and Aquarius moon could make for a person who can be loyal, but it may be a tough ride so don't expect too much too soon. If you see a future with him remember to take things slow.
it's already been a very tough ride lol its been almot 6 years on and off IP: Logged |
bluestskies88
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posted November 29, 2025 07:54 PM
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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
Is the individual very religious?
i am not sure. why?
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bluestskies88
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posted November 29, 2025 07:57 PM
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Originally posted by Belage2:
You know what? I may take the previous comment back. I just noticed he also has Pluto conjunct his Venus. So that makes for a very intense guy, split between his Plutonian needs and his Uranian needs...
what does this mean? IP: Logged |
Aries23Degrees
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posted November 30, 2025 10:31 AM
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Originally posted by bluestskies88:
i am not sure. why?
i ask because of the Moon opp Jupiter. Its important to see what effect the Moon (the basis of desires) feels when opposed by Jupiter(belief system/ethics). IP: Logged |
Aries23Degrees
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posted November 30, 2025 10:31 AM
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Belage2
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posted November 30, 2025 03:38 PM
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Originally posted by bluestskies88:
what does this mean?
Pluto and Uranus are very different planets with very different needs and ways to go about getting their needs met. Hence the conflict in his Venus as it is getting hard contact from both planets. ETA: I also read years ago that in a man's chart, Venus represents the kind of woman he is attracted to, while the moon represents his psyche, his emotional life and how it relates to love. He will be drawn mostly and stay with women that have a combination of Plutonian and Aquarian qualities. And since he already has moon in Aquarius, I would say the Uranian side might predominate in his relationships. While Pluto might crave intimacy and closeness, Uranus doesn't care for that, because freedom and remaining detached are more important... IP: Logged |
bluestskies88
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posted November 30, 2025 03:56 PM
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Originally posted by Belage2:
Pluto and Uranus are very different planets with very different needs and ways to go about getting their needs met. Hence the conflict in his Venus as it is getting hard contact from both planets. ETA: I also read years ago that in a man's chart, Venus represents the kind of woman he is attracted to, while the moon represents his psyche, his emotional life and how it relates to love. He will be drawn mostly and stay with women that have a combination of Plutonian and Aquarian qualities. And since he already has moon in Aquarius, I would say the Uranian side might predominate in his relationships. While Pluto might crave intimacy and closeness, Uranus doesn't care for that, because freedom and remaining detached are more important...
interesting! I am Aquarian sun and very plutonian lol did you see our synastry? We also have his venus conj my saturn IP: Logged |
Belage2
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posted December 04, 2025 03:43 PM
I just took a quick look at your synastry now.You two have some pretty serious contacts with your Saturn conjunct your North Node and his Venus/Pluto/Uranus. Looks like you two are bonded for better or worse... You being Leo rising, with Sun in Aqua, you are naturally drawn to Aquarian partners so all this Aquarian and Saturnian flavor in your relationship might actually suit you well. IP: Logged |
bluestskies88
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posted December 06, 2025 08:52 PM
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Originally posted by Belage2:
I just took a quick look at your synastry now.You two have some pretty serious contacts with your Saturn conjunct your North Node and his Venus/Pluto/Uranus. Looks like you two are bonded for better or worse... You being Leo rising, with Sun in Aqua, you are naturally drawn to Aquarian partners so all this Aquarian and Saturnian flavor in your relationship might actually suit you well.
hi what do you mean bonded like married? are you able to do a full synastry reading? paid IP: Logged |
Belage2
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posted December 06, 2025 10:27 PM
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Originally posted by bluestskies88:
hi what do you mean bonded like married?are you able to do a full synastry reading? paid
Marriage is one kind of bond. There are other bonds. Planet Saturn which has a ring around it, likes marriage, but eccentric Uranus would rather not get married in the name of keeping its freedom. However if and when Uranus decides to get married, it's going to be quite sudden and is going to shock everyone. I don't really do in depth synastry anymore, sorry. Perhaps other people can recommend a trusted astrologer, we used to have quite a few good professional astrologers here... IP: Logged |
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