posted April 05, 2026 12:21 PM            

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Originally posted by Preppyarcher7989Wiff:
I can't wait until Mars goes into Aries. I'm tired of the tired energy of Mars in Pisces.

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I thought it would be awesome for you since Mars is in house 1(♓ Asc). Its interesting that you feel that way.🤔

posted April 05, 2026 12:39 PM            

Things peaked to a tense impasse. Only Mom's insistence for us to leave it and all the added commotion she made, squashed any resolution outside of having to forcefully detach from it(on my end).

I am not happy. I don't like tears in a disagreement, the problem is not solved. It lingers on in the background like a wound and collects an infection.

Its lead me to spiral down(or up) in my own thinking.It could be the transit or something else entirely that has long been there. But this situation has brought it all out.

Trans Jup 16♋ square Sun 15♈ sits on my T-square Merc/Moon and Mars. Many triggers there.

posted April 07, 2026 05:47 PM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
I thought it would be awesome for you since Mars is in house 1(♓ Asc). Its interesting that you feel that way.🤔

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It's because Pisces squares my Sun in Sagittarius! Squares, oh heck!

posted April 07, 2026 05:47 PM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
I thought it would be awesome for you since Mars is in house 1(♓ Asc). Its interesting that you feel that way.🤔

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It's because Pisces squares my Sun in Sagittarius! Squares, oh heck!

posted April 07, 2026 05:47 PM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
I thought it would be awesome for you since Mars is in house 1(♓ Asc). Its interesting that you feel that way.🤔

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It's because Pisces squares my Sun in Sagittarius! Squares, oh heck!

posted April 07, 2026 05:49 PM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
I just had a standoff with a sibling that started with an argument.Mom intervened because she was uncomfortable. And i just couldn't let it go.

Things peaked to a tense impasse. Only Mom's insistence for us to leave it and all the added commotion she made, squashed any resolution outside of having to forcefully detach from it(on my end).

I am not happy. I don't like tears in a disagreement, the problem is not solved. It lingers in the background like a wound and collects an infection.

Its lead me to spiral down(or up) in my own thinking.It could be the transit or something else entirely that has long been there. But this situation has brought it all out.

Trans Jup 16♋ square Sun 15♈ sits on my T-square Merc/Moon and Mars. Many triggers there.

This direct motion of Jupiter in ♋ continues to be dynamic. I hope i get a job and move from home. I don't think incan successfully live with family anymore. I am better loving them from a distance.🙌🏿

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Uranus is going into Gemini. Gemini rules siblings.

posted April 07, 2026 07:08 PM            

I was upset and frustrated for years, counting the days until I leave, but now I am just too tender. I don't quite know yet where the home is.

When Uranus entered Gemini briefly last year, I felt a sense of freedom, release - mentally. I felt in the zone, like I could fly! Then felt knocked down again during the winter. I suppose this is the final threshold. No more going back. Just not quite at the destination yet.

posted April 07, 2026 07:10 PM            

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Originally posted by Preppyarcher7989Wiff:
Uranus is going into Gemini. Gemini rules siblings.

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Uranus in Taurus is so heavy. Constant grind and clash with the material. I think it will be way more comfortable in Gemini.

posted April 08, 2026 12:55 AM            

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Originally posted by Preppyarcher7989Wiff:
It's because Pisces squares my Sun in Sagittarius! Squares, oh heck!

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posted April 08, 2026 01:09 AM            

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Originally posted by frida:
@Aries23degrees, interesting how you describe the dynamic of the whole family through transits. Hard to understand, but I think it can be a helpful tool

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I always track them to understand what's happening.

The last transit of Sun in Aries opposite my natal Mars and transit Mars square natal Sun, was a catalyst to the explosive standoff with a sibling.

According Google: "Anger is primarily "stored" or felt in the body as chronic tension in the neck and shoulders, the lower back and hips, and the jaw. It is often physically experienced as tightness in the chest and through digestive disturbances in the stomach. Suppressed anger often manifests as muscular or energetic tension. "

posted April 08, 2026 01:20 AM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
I just had a standoff with a sibling that started with an argument.Mom intervened because she was uncomfortable. And i just couldn't let it go.

Things peaked to a tense impasse. Only Mom's insistence for us to leave it and all the added commotion she made, squashed any resolution outside of having to forcefully detach from it(on my end).

I am not happy. I don't like tears in a disagreement, the problem is not solved. It lingers on in the background like a wound and collects an infection.

Its lead me to spiral down(or up) in my own thinking.It could be the transit or something else entirely that has long been there. But this situation has brought it all out.

Trans Jup 16♋ square Sun 15♈ sits on my T-square Merc/Moon and Mars. Many triggers there.

This direct motion of Jupiter in ♋ continues to be dynamic. I hope i get a job and move from home. I don't think i can successfully live with family anymore. I am better loving them from a distance.🙌🏿

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There is just a lot happening in the family. And part of what is happening, had me question where loyalties are at.

I don't trust this particular sibling. She weaponizes other people's vulnerabilities and uses them against the person. The disagreement i had with her was because of what I perceived was misplaced loyalties. And then she threw a curve ball that had me question what kind of person she is altogether.

There was no resolve to this because(as i said)Mom got emotional and i had to let it go.

One thing I felt however was that i need to draw some distance between me and her(sibling).We can still communicate, but I will not be sharing personal things with her anymore.

I have Saturn/Pluto opposing her Sun. And my natal Jupiter opposes her Mars in Gemini.

Venus/Jup in ♈ sqaures my Moon/Mercury. So there is a lot of emotional discomfort on my end there too.

Its interesting how her Venus/Jupiter conjuncts my Asc in ♈. But i feel no tenderness for her. As if i am blocked from that by my Mars ♎ opposition to both her Venus/Jupiter in ♈.

Venus/Mars opposition is severance in most relationships. And it did feel like the disagreement that day was a severance of ties on my end.

posted April 08, 2026 01:40 AM            

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Originally posted by Preppyarcher7989Wiff:
Uranus is going into Gemini. Gemini rules siblings.

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Our relations as siblings, will be affected very radically by this transit of Uranus in ♊.

It may be that we all drift further and furtherer apart(much to Mom's worst fears). But i think that that is inevitable.

We are different people. That is becoming clearer to me as we age. And as differing people, we have differing needs and attractions towards certain people and places.

I can't hold them to me as much as they cant do the same on their end. Its tragic. But that's life.

There is another sibling(youngest) whom I think this transit of Uranus ♉ is most reflective of i.e. she is on the verge of breaking away and seeking her own path. And in so doing, will be growing distant from us.

I think the concept of "family"- though noble, can also be limiting. As you can only be who they think you've always been in their eyes. You don't grow.

So seeking to be away from them or eventually searching for one's own path in this labyrinth of life, is not only essential but inevitable.

For instance, I feel "bound up" by family issues in my life that i seek freedom from. I think that could possibly be the manifestation of the Moon ♋ square ♈ Asc association(if indeed the Asc is Aries)

Its crippling to be in the position i am in currently. Like one can't get away from the obligations imposed to one by birth. Its suffocating.

I seek not to alienate them completely. I just want my own things. I don't want to be responsible for them and their well-being. I only can take care of myself. That is clear to me now.

posted April 08, 2026 05:44 PM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:

We are different people. That is becoming clearer to me as we age. And as differing people, we have differing needs and attractions towards certain people and places.

I think the concept of "family"- though noble, can also be limiting. As you can only be who they think you've always been in their eyes. You don't grow.

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Stories I hear sometimes, of families sticking together, siblings doing their life work together etc.. that must be really, really rare. It's far more common for there to be tension, and people have to go their own way and be their own persons. I think that can make relationships stronger and healthier.

It's painful, but there is no other way when you have to choose between yourself and others who can never make up for your loss if you lose yourself supporting them.

posted April 08, 2026 05:54 PM            

Tr. Venus is in Taurus now, approaching Chiron. I am sensitive anyway, but when the transits hit - I almost can't handle it. And it actually mostly plays out through music. I wept at choir practice because of one song, could barely sing it. I've had past events happen during transits to Chiron when a few notes and sounds shatter me, and I just can't keep myself together.

I feel it all too much. It feels way too vast and powerful. I think that's the Moon+NN in the 12th response. I think it will be healthier if I manage to incorporate it into a career, so it doesn't get bottled up or neglected.

posted April 09, 2026 07:27 AM            

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Originally posted by frida:
Stories I hear sometimes, of families sticking together, siblings doing their life work together etc.. that must be really, really rare. It's far more common for there to be tension, and people have to go their own way and be their own persons. I think that can make relationships stronger and healthier.

It's painful, but there is no other way when you have to choose between yourself and others who can never make up for your loss if you lose yourself supporting them.

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Indeed❤ I think the Venus in Scorpio showed its fangs the past few days. The question of loyalty and giving it all to family, became central i.e. would they do the same? And how much do i need to give before i start feeling resentful?

Both questions remain unanswered. But i am choosing to withdraw a little-this since I am not sure where loyalties lie right now.

posted April 10, 2026 02:59 AM            

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Originally posted by frida:
Uranus in Taurus is so heavy. Constant grind and clash with the material. I think it will be way more comfortable in Gemini.

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I actually agree. Uranus is all about change, especially sharp, and fast, change! Taurus is slow, and stable. So, Uranus isn't very happy in Taurus.

Uranus is quirky, fast, and erratic. The same with Gemini. Uranus is very happy in Gemini, even though it's not a home placement, or exaltation, or something!

posted April 10, 2026 12:37 PM            

so scared, already feeling controlling and breathing deep to try and let it all go.

posted April 16, 2026 11:48 PM            

I wonder what it means, or represent?

I mean from a collective view? With America, we are Sagittarius rising, so it's mostly in our 5th house, and some in our 4th house. Pride (5th house)? Childishness (5th house)?

posted April 17, 2026 11:57 AM            

Sun,Moon,Mercury,Mars,Saturn,Neptune and Chiron , are all in ♈.

I usually think thoughts of severance, living alone and seeking independence from others when Aries energy is strong in the heavens.

I had a consultation with a client on the 15th. It happened after trans Moon had ingressed to ♈. And it was great. I didn't feel depleted afterwards.

Oddly, I didn't feel I had sufficient to do it the day before(14th). So i rescheduled. I didn't think it would align to Moon being in ♈ too🤔

Transit Venus in ♉ was opposing my natal Venus at the time.

posted April 17, 2026 05:42 PM            

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Originally posted by Preppyarcher7989Wiff:
Tomorrow (April 17) is supposed to be filled with seven planets in Aries!

I wonder what it means, or represent?

I mean from a collective view? With America, we are Sagittarius rising, so it's mostly in our 5th house, and some in our 4th house. Pride (5th house)? Childishness (5th house)?

Unfortunately, it does spell war, at least possibly, in my opinion. The Aries stellium on April 17 probably just means a new beginning for humanity, probably.

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