posted January 22, 2026 05:35 AM            

I still haven’t experienced any romantic relationships at 23 or even dated much. Only been on two in the span of 4 years. I’ve pursued people I’ve been into before, with a Mars-Venus Conjunction in Gemini 11th House as well, but I have a very bad time with that as they get with other women instead.

posted February 28, 2026 01:06 AM            

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Originally posted by k_mma:
Venus 29’21 and Saturn 15’49 in Gemini 11th House but they don’t aspect.

I still haven’t experienced any romantic relationships at 23 or even dated much. Only been on two in the span of 4 years. I’ve pursued people I’ve been into before, with a Mars-Venus Conjunction in Gemini 11th House as well, but I have a very bad time with that as they get with other women instead.

My venus and saturn fit the conjunctin description of being eternally alone but they don’t make aspect??

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23 huh? Last time Saturn was in ♊ was 2002. So you were likely born 29 May of that year when Mercury retro 9♊,Venus 29♊, Mars 24♊, Saturn 15♊,Node 18♊

If your Asc is in ♌(with Saturn in 11th), ♌ would be rising. Then Saturn would rule the 7th house ♒. That Saturn ruling 7th slows things down on the 7th house(partnerships) part.

Saturn is usually where we are kind of slow,underdeveloped or need to do something more than once(or thrice) before we get it right. Its not an area where things come together easily.

With Aqua 7th, relating to others in an impersonal way, is not an issue. It's when things get closer to heart matters or more one on one,that one feels out of their range, shy and even reticent.

Now if you are like Donald(another Leo Asc with Saturn in ♋ in house 12 conjunct Venus) you'll date a foreigner(12th) or someone you meet via business(Saturn).

But it'll still not save you from having to work on emotional connections with the people you get yourself involved with (whatever avenue you use to get them).

In other words,the emotional distance from partners can (over time) still be felt. And if you don't take care of this and you dont work on your awkwardness in terms of relating on a one on one basis with them, things turn cold.

With Trump, this lead to two divorces(also supported by natal Mars opp Dsc, Moon opp Uranus).And a third bizarre marriage that has no romance and is just for the public consumption.

You have Pluto 17Sag opp your Saturn and Node in ♊. This can make you come across as extremely intense and someone who is very serious about relationships. And these sort of people(ironically enough) don't tend to attract much romance into their lives. Why?

Because life tends to work in reverse i.e. It's when you don't really care for something on a gut level (not just on a surface level) , that it comes to you easily. But when you fixate on it, it escapes you and you feel like you are never within its reach.🤷🏿

Saturn tends to fixate. Add to this the energy of Pluto-which can make the situations connected to love and partnership a very BIG deal.

Venus is trine Uranus 28♒(co ruler of 7th for ♌ Asc). And Uranus is square to Sun 28(ruler of 1st house ♌ Asc).So relationships (by and large) are very awkward for you when it comes to one on one.

To top that off, if Moon is in ♍ to opp Uranus or be in square aspect to Saturn, even square Mercury, relating to others on a casual way, feels unfamiliar or uncomfortable for you. As you are not a "light banter" kinda person.

posted March 05, 2026 07:38 AM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
23 huh? Last time Saturn was in ♊ was 2002. So you were likely born 29 May of that year when Mercury retro 9♊,Venus 29♊, Mars 24♊, Saturn 15♊,Node 18♊

If your Asc is in ♌(with Saturn in 11th), ♌ would be rising. Then Saturn would rule the 7th house ♒. That Saturn ruling 7th slows things down on the 7th house(partnerships) part.

Saturn is usually where we are kind of slow,underdeveloped or need to do something more than once(or thrice) before we get it right. Its not an area where things come together easily.

With Aqua 7th, relating to others in an impersonal way, is not an issue. It's when things get closer to heart matters or more one on one,that one feels out of their range, shy and even reticent.

Now if you are like Donald(another Leo Asc with Saturn in ♋ in house 12 conjunct Venus) you'll date a foreigner(12th) or someone you meet via business(Saturn).

But it'll still not save you from having to work on emotional connections with the people you get yourself involved with (whatever avenue you use to get them).

In other words,the emotional distance from partners can (over time) still be felt. And if you don't take care of this and you dont work on your awkwardness in terms of relating on a one on one basis with them, things turn cold.

With Trump, this lead to two divorces(also supported by natal Mars opp Dsc, Moon opp Uranus).And a third bizarre marriage that has no romance and is just for the public consumption.

You have Pluto 17Sag opp your Saturn and Node in ♊. This can make you come across as extremely intense and someone who is very serious about relationships. And these sort of people(ironically enough) don't tend to attract much romance into their lives. Why?

Because life tends to work in reverse i.e. It's when you don't really care for something on a gut level (not just on a surface level) , that it comes to you easily. But when you fixate on it, it escapes you and you feel like you are never within its reach.🤷🏿

Saturn tends to fixate. Add to this the energy of Pluto-which can make the situations connected to love and partnership a very BIG deal.

Venus is trine Uranus 28♒(co ruler of 7th for ♌ Asc). And Uranus is square to Sun 28(ruler of 1st house ♌ Asc).So relationships (by and large) are very awkward for you when it comes to one on one.

To top that off, if Moon is in ♍ to opp Uranus or be in square aspect to Saturn, even square Mercury, relating to others on a casual way, feels unfamiliar or uncomfortable for you. As you are not a "light banter" kinda person.

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I encountered one bloke on a dating app and I hated that it didn’t develop naturally like out in the real world where expectations aren’t as high. Just no chemistry and more froendship vibes w him so I ended that

Another was in hs where I let him know I was into him and he acted quite awk. I didn’t realise why until I heard he got w another chick. They were hs sweethearts n I feel like that stunted my ability to openly tell someone I like them w/o getting rejected like that again. I’ve got Uranus & Neptune in Aqua 7h so that flavours these dynamics with on/off and quickly developing situations that I feel uncomfortable w due to wanting it to develop slowly (Cap 7h)

My Virgo Moon 1’30 1h Squares my Sun in Taurus 28’50 10h, loosely Squares Mercury Gemini 9’18 11h, Sextiles my Gemini Venus 29’21 and no Squares to my Saturn cuz of the degrees

I guess you are right. I am a Taurus Sun so I stubbornly wish to be further in life, or well, at the same place like my peers/friends with having not had a early first love in hs made me put more effort into wanting a career but the industry I’m trying to get into is very nepo overloaded. Have a cousin who’s had many dofferent kinds of bfs and is now getting married this year after having a kid w the same bloke last year, only one year older than me, so I feel some familial pressure to not be chronically single as well.

Do you know any upcoming and or lived transits that would help push my life into finding someone special? I had the transit Sun, Moon, Mercury, Mars & Venus in Cap in my 7h not too long ago and that didn’t make anything happen. I think my life isn’t full of potential relationships, like I don’t have any male friends or work with men either

posted March 05, 2026 07:49 AM            

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Originally posted by Belage2:
Not sure you can blame 11th house Saturn/Venus for that and besides they are not really conjunct. 14 degrees is such a WIDE orb!

I would look at your 7th house and your 5th house instead. These are the houses that traditionally tell us about relationships.

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I think my whole chart really gives off stunted potential in that department- I have Sag/Jupiter ruling my 5h & Cap/Saturn ruling my 7h. I do tend to have crushes on non-Australian men & women, but they actually live overseas or already in relationships.

Uranus in 7h Aqua 28’45 trines my Venus in 11h Gemini 29’21
Neptune in 7h Aqua 10’58 trines my Mercury in 11h Gemini 9’18 & my Saturn in 11h Gemini 15’49 which I feel is very important due to Saturn ruling my 7h and Neptune is in my 7h so maturity is important in partners but also I can tend to be projecting onto ppl I like and then that ruins the potential?

posted March 05, 2026 07:51 AM            

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