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Topic: So my friend cheated on his GF...
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charlie
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posted April 07, 2026 08:45 AM
  
He cheated with his ex because quote "we have amazing sex but don't work otherwise". Without judging him I asked why he thought he did it and in typical Pisces fashion, I got a mumble jumble of answer and something about his ex knowing which buttons to press and yadi yada. His current GF called his ex and is now also an ex..Anyhow, he has told me he was extremely (!) chaotic when he was young and used to fight a lot. Had an exceptionally good upbringing to a point where he doesn't fear romantic failure because his sisters and mom will take up the fall. Has also mentioned he can't handle "pressure" very well because it makes him aggressive. Still, I'm curious so what do you guys see? https://imgur.com/a/pduThHF IP: Logged |
Belage2
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posted April 07, 2026 03:33 PM
The first thing that went through my mind was to check if he has hard aspects between his Mars and Neptune, and sure enough, he has natal Mars at 0 degree Gemini opposite Natal Neptune at 9 degree of Sagg.Yes the orb is rather wide, 9 degrees, so he is not a habitual cheater. These particular cheating episodes were unexpected for him, that is why he is unable to explain it, because they occured as he is experiencing a transit of Uranus conjuncting his Mars. IP: Logged |
charlie
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posted April 08, 2026 02:33 AM
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Originally posted by Belage2:
The first thing that went through my mind was to check if he has hard aspects between his Mars and Neptune, and sure enough, he has natal Mars at 0 degree Gemini opposite Natal Neptune at 9 degree of Sagg.Yes the orb is rather wide, 9 degrees, so he is not a habitual cheater. These particular cheating episodes were unexpected for him, that is why he is unable to explain it, because they occured as he is experiencing a transit of Uranus conjuncting his Mars.
He does seem a little bit confused as to why it happened. He has slept around a lot through the years but never been a cheater. Either way, he blew it when he was finally in love and I find it slightly ironic.
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charlie
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posted April 08, 2026 05:54 AM
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Originally posted by Belage2:
The first thing that went through my mind was to check if he has hard aspects between his Mars and Neptune, and sure enough, he has natal Mars at 0 degree Gemini opposite Natal Neptune at 9 degree of Sagg.Yes the orb is rather wide, 9 degrees, so he is not a habitual cheater. These particular cheating episodes were unexpected for him, that is why he is unable to explain it, because they occured as he is experiencing a transit of Uranus conjuncting his Mars.
Now that I look at it, it does seem like a text book Mars/Nept with transit Uranus on top of that, doesn't it?!
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Belage2
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posted April 08, 2026 05:33 PM
^^^ Yep. He already had this as a potential in his chart, though he never or rarely acted on it since it was such a wide orb. But Uranus transit on this aspect is a reflection of him doing something he would not usually do. IP: Logged |
charlie
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posted April 14, 2026 07:21 AM
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^^^ Yep. He already had this as a potential in his chart, though he never or rarely acted on it since it was such a wide orb. But Uranus transit on this aspect is a reflection of him doing something he would not usually do.
Yeah. I *kinda* feel sorry for him because he seems so genuinely confused! But, we do what we do and pay the price. IP: Logged |
Librapurr
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posted April 15, 2026 12:28 PM
His whole chart looks like Uranian Neptunian mess plus Gemini. And the story matches the chart.
I have the opposite when a situation doesn’t match a chart.
I wonder how someone with Mars and Sun afflicted by Uranus/Neptune could be in couple long term relationships and manage to commit. Throw it here because too lazy to look for appropriate topic. IP: Logged |
charlie
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posted April 15, 2026 03:18 PM
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Originally posted by Librapurr:
His whole chart looks like Uranian Neptunian mess plus Gemini. And the story matches the chart.
I have the opposite when a situation doesn’t match a chart.
I wonder how someone with Mars and Sun afflicted by Uranus/Neptune could be in couple long term relationships and manage to commit. Throw it here because too lazy to look for appropriate topic.
HIs chart is a mess. He also has Venus sq Uranus and I know what that beast can do. I have a much wider square orb than him but boy has it done me dirty; or the other way around! I was a Uranus sq Venus freak between 2001-2013. Wild and completely unhinged. And yes, I cheated many times and couldn't have cared any less.
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