posted August 02, 2026 05:03 PM            

That one may need to revisit decisions made during these transits because of changing one's mind.

And that its advisable to hold off on making permanent changes in these periods. Or tying oneself up to long term commitments- as you may change your mind.

I wanted to examine this for the very 1st time and clearly with Mercury ♋ retro(as i missed the last pattern recognition with Mercury Pisces retro).

My initial experience of this retrograde was when Mercury ♋ transit was conjunct my 22 ♋ Ic(June 17). There was an uncomfortable but enlightening conversation(Mercury) with Mom.

I realized that her belief in how I should be(straight) vs. How I am(gay),caused some strain between us.

Due to my heightened emotional state at the time, I personalized this perceived rejection and felt angry. And it affected how i related to her since that day.

On July 13th, the retrograde Mercury ♋ hit was on my Ic again. The soft spot was triggered once more. And I realized that the same issue of sexuality came up. But this time, my response was more objective with her.

In the latter instance, I concluded that the issue is with her, not me. And that I can't make her comfortable. Not ever. So I released.

The current transit of Mercury in ♋ at 21 conjunct Ic(August 2nd) revisited this issue for the 3rd time. This time from a sibling. Another person who was clearly uncomfortable.

It was kinda unexpected. Especially since I have been extremely supportive of the latter.

But my response was surprisingly detached. I am not moved. I don't care for approval. I wanted her to be very clear on that☝🏿

# The lesson. There may be painful things that you need to deal with in transit retrogrades. Don't jump to conclusions or be reactive. This especially when in water signs.

No matter how tender or sensitive,allow for objectivity. Allow for detachment. This is important to note during ANY retro transit.

The reason for this , is so that you don't regret your actions/decisions made on an emotionally heightened state.

In terms of Mercury, Later in the year(Oct 24 to November 13) it goes retro at 20♏. It will cross my Sat 13♏, Venus 17♏ and cusp of the 8th house 19♏ three times.

In ♏, Mercury retro brings heightened emotional intensity, possible hidden truths coming to light, and a deep focus on shared finances or past emotional baggage.

Venus will go retro at 8♏(October 3 to November 13). It will cross my natal Pluto 1♏ (ruler of the 8th house) 3 times.

Clearly, the 8th house will be affected. How? Will have to see. As this house is unpredictable.