posted January 23, 2010 11:47 AM         

Mine started 3 years ago, when I hunted down my Virgo ex boyfriend from when I was a teenager. We tried dating for 5 months or so, and it didn't work out, but now we are really good friends.
I also looked up another Virgo ex, and we went on 2 dates, which only served to remind me what a jerk he was.

I looked up a girlfriend that used to live with me in high school. I don't know what that solved, because she's become a recluse and is not interested in having any friends or communication. She said this in the nicest way possible. I'm okay with that.

But since the summer it has gotten REALLY bad, maybe it's the internet, and how FB and MS have made it easier to find people, I dont know. I found my childhoood best friend from waaaaaay back. Somehow that turned into a weird internet "thing" and he just disappeared, so what that solved I don't know.
Now, I'm involved with another ex on the internet. Still in progress.

posted January 23, 2010 10:25 PM         

Maby your right about all the social networks making it easier.I don't know why though this is hitting me so strong right now.
One ex a gemini has had real success im not suprised at that one.

But the cancer and i have reconnected twice in the past 2 years. It starts off alright but quickly gets really bizarre on his part and comes to a halt.

The friend who got real religious had a complete change in personality. i cant believe she is the same girl i knew.

posted January 23, 2010 11:49 PM         

Could be a sort of life review thing? when we get to a certain age? IDK.

I noticed alot of this 180 stuff on FB. Alot, whew, a bunch of my friends from school have turned ultra religious. I have no qualms with that, whatever gets you through the night, so they say.

And yes, alot of those people were very NOT religious in their actions, way back when.
I guess, somewhere along the line something happened to make them reevaluate their lifestyle and decide it wasn't working for them.
Also, alot of people that have ever had hard core substance problems tend to get religious through the 12 step programs.
Although, one of my old friends lost a son to Cancer a few years ago, and so I understand, in her situation she needed something to help her get through it.

IDK, like I said for me, alot of it is about closure. My relationships tend to end in weird circumstances in which there was no closure, so I suppose I would like to feel at ease by figuring out what went wrong, explaining my part in whatever, and moving on with a clear conscious.

In the case of men, well, some of them I never got over, and had their been no internet, I would of never had the ability to reconnect and sort of see why things were the way they were. So for that, I am glad, it has helped me to understand myself so much, and to see the perceptions people had of me when I was a younger person.

But I have wondered as well, if it had anything to do with my chart, that is why I said I could never decide where to post it.