posted February 20, 2010 05:56 PM
This up coming week, CPS will be making a decision of the fate of Missy. My stress is going up and am I ever feeling moody and testy at the moment. I have professionals calling about the baby and I don't want to talk about her. I'm avoiding anything baby right now. My heart is starting to break and I'm slowly detaching at the moment. Everything feels so surreal and it was like I never had a baby last year - is what I am finding.Right now it is 3:41 PM on Feb 20/2010 114 W 51 N. Leo is rising at the East.
I found today's visit hard, especially when I looked into her eyes and deep down inside I started to tear up. I just felt that she is not safe and part of me felt powerless. I thought to myself....little baby I gave to you the gift of life - I went through hell and back so you could live and live life. I am so sorry if you were never to come back to us and I know in my heart you are there. It could be 17 years from now that she may come back. This will be one decision that I will not have to answer to.
I am convinced that idiots run the world - the ones who learn from a book ad who have no practical experience about life who think they know better than the world. I wish they would all go away.
The baby has a lot of 1st house planets - which is loaded and what I have read about first house planets may show the native who owns them was adopted.
I struggle daily to stay positive but the skepticism won't go away. They railroaded us and jumped the gun and who is to say that they won't do that again. The laws here are really screwed up and the kids who should be away from their parents remain and the ones who have good home are tragically ripped away from their homes and deprived from there family - raised to believe a lie that their parents never wanted them etc.
I have jumped through their hoops and heard their assumptions where I strongly disagree because that was not the way of it. I am appauled that the world can so very easily judge a person when they have not walked a mile in their shoes. My caseworker is NOT a parent and I do not think she is qualified to make any decision about kids. Just like the Pediatrician at the hospital who had no kids and doesn't know how to change a diaper. I hope they face their own hell in the future - what comes around goes around.
I'm sweet and sour today but I am in grief. In another week I'll know what is to be and then there may be a huge war with CPS in order to get the baby back....I don't know what to think.