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Dy-na-mi-tee
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From: Cloud 22, Jupiter Ave, Lalaland
Registered: Jun 2010

posted July 18, 2010 10:35 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dy-na-mi-tee     Edit/Delete Message
Hi!

As I have explained to you nicely through an email - I simply cannot keep up with both LL and all of these conversations about psychological things that end being too complicated for me (in our emails).

I was saying I might take a break from both LL and emailing. But I have decided to still post on LL occasionally - although I will not do it as frequently.

I am sorry if I misunderstood your post on another thread.. It followed my own post and you said:

quote:
Someone recently betrayed me. I am angry but I think human beings hurt each other. It is the nature of being real in life.
I want to be real. Maybe,if I were fake, I could get more people to like me but I would rather be real and lose everyone.

http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum24/HTML/204761-3.html

You completely avoided replying to anything I said in my post.

If this has any connection with the fact that I deleted my email address - please let me know clearly and straight forwardly.
I have treated you with respect and I would expect the same.

I find this comment a little bit insane and bordering on psychotic behaviour - if it was indeed directed at me.

I am entitled to my space. As I have explained to you I am actually very tired and overworked these days and I am not a paid psychologist.. so I am sorry that I cannot keep up with the psychological discussions.

Obviously I have no way of knowing that your comment was directed at me.. but I would like some clarification.

If I do not receive clarification - I will assume it was directed at me.

I would like to enjoy my time on LL.. and I would like to ask you to please refrain from making comments along these lines towards me in a covert - passive aggressive manner as I consider this to be harassment.

I also want to say - I DO like your personality. I think you're cool and I think you are intelligent and classy.. But I simply cant keep up with the in depth psychology on a daily basis.. I need space.
If you choose to take this as some kind of ultimate rejection and "losing" me - and "losing" everyone and etc etc.. (as you sometimes do..) - that is obviously your prerogative. I hope and pray you do not take it in this manner.

But the comments (if they were indeed directed at me) - were entirely out of place.

For me LL is a warm place. It is a friendly place. If I feel harassed by someone - whether it is in an overt manner or in a passive aggressive manner - I will speak up.. because LL is like my home.. and this is not OK.

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Ami Ann
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From: US
Registered: Dec 2009

posted July 18, 2010 10:41 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Ann     Edit/Delete Message
I really do not care to discuss personal business on a public forum.
Please respect that.


Ami

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I am two with nature.

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Dy-na-mi-tee
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Posts: 382
From: Cloud 22, Jupiter Ave, Lalaland
Registered: Jun 2010

posted July 18, 2010 10:45 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dy-na-mi-tee     Edit/Delete Message
quote:
I really do not care to discuss personal business on a public forum.
Please respect that.


Ami


Well it seems you were happy enough discussing personal business in a covert manner and telling me that I betrayed you.

I find this extremely offensive and nasty.
I am actually having problems Ami.. and I am extremely tired and I did not need these kinds of comments.

I believe this is harassment. I genuinely feel harassed by your comment. And I strongly feel that harassment is NOT ok - and that this requires clarification.
And I strongly hope that as a spiritual person (in front of God) - you respect that ^.

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Dy-na-mi-tee
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From: Cloud 22, Jupiter Ave, Lalaland
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posted July 18, 2010 10:46 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dy-na-mi-tee     Edit/Delete Message
If I do not receive some clarification on this -- whether you telling me it was not directed at me.. or if it was directed at me -- then an apology (for what I see as a personal stab and an offense).

Then I will email Randall.. because this is entirely uncalled for.

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Dy-na-mi-tee
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Posts: 382
From: Cloud 22, Jupiter Ave, Lalaland
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posted July 18, 2010 10:47 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dy-na-mi-tee     Edit/Delete Message
I mean someone important to me is about to have a serous surgery. I am worried shi*tless and I have REAL f-ing problems.. and you come on here with you IDEAS on "betrayal".. because WHY?

Because I wanted some space and I decided to delete my email?

I mean this is really ridiculous.

And I am disgusted.

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Dy-na-mi-tee
Knowflake

Posts: 382
From: Cloud 22, Jupiter Ave, Lalaland
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posted July 18, 2010 10:53 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dy-na-mi-tee     Edit/Delete Message
You are a person who says she is spiritual. You say you believe in God. I mean - why jump to conclusions - assume the worst in people.. and then take undercover stabs at them?

Is that a spiritual nice way to behave?

Honestly?

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AbsintheDragonfly
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From: Gaia
Registered: Apr 2010

posted July 18, 2010 02:50 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for AbsintheDragonfly     Edit/Delete Message
Dyn,

I see this was posted on astro 2, as well, later than this, so I'm going to close this one.

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