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Topic: Do You Think You Have Met Your Soul Mate?
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Ami Ann
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From: Pluto
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posted August 12, 2010 02:22 PM
 
If so, what happened? Ami ------------------
Who looks outside, dreams :who looks inside ,wakes. IP: Logged |
WinkAway
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From: here, there & everywhere
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posted August 12, 2010 02:44 PM
Oh yes.. When I was about 3 years old I met the boy across the street. We grew up together and we always thought that we would end up together as adults. When I was 9 my mom re married and we moved to another state for about a year. All the while I would show the other kids his picture and told them he was my boy friend (not exactly true).
Then we moved back to the general area where he was about a year or two later. When I was 15 I got in contact with him again. We dated for about a year and I was really scared of the feelings I had for him so I broke it off. And for the next couple of years I was heart broken and regretted it. I heard from his mom and brother that he still had it bad for me. So I tried inviting him to various things and he was still kind of cold to me.
When I was 18 I met who would me my first ex. When I was 19 I moved to another state for about a year, then moved back, got pregnant with first ex's twins, moved out of state...
Then when I was 26 I found him again. He had married and had a daughter...then divorced her about 3 years later.
Now we are both single, still live in different states. He's on my FB but aside of that we don't communicate much. Sooooo... to make a long story longer.. I believe he is my soul mate/twin flame. I just think that our paths took different twists which will probably forever keep us apart...in this lifetime anyway.. IP: Logged |
Nephthys
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From: California
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 12, 2010 03:40 PM
Winky!!!!!!! quote:
We grew up together and we always thought that we would end up together as adults
Why don't you message him and ask him how he is doing and say "hey remember when we were little and always thought we would end up together?"  quote:
I heard from his mom and brother that he still had it bad for me. So I tried inviting him to various things and he was still kind of cold to me.
Probably he was just being a shy, scared teenage boy!!!! Message him!!!!  btw you both should be on my FB IP: Logged |
cpn_edgar_winner
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posted August 12, 2010 04:02 PM
yes
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WinkAway
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From: here, there & everywhere
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posted August 12, 2010 04:18 PM
Nephthys..About 10 years ago I thought that I had sensed something with him, so I spilled my guts letting him know how I've always felt about him. Turned out to be a wrong thing to do. He kept trying to stop me during the conversation but I had been holding it in for so long and had to get it out. He pretty much told me that we didn't know each other anymore...etc. But I just know that if circumstances were different, it would probably seem timeless. He will always be the one who got away... 
Anyway.. you can look me up on FB. If you do a search under my email you can find me. My email is in my profile 
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Nephthys
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From: California
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 12, 2010 04:28 PM
Awwwwww Sorry Then perhaps it isn't meant to be? Perhaps he has many issues, and to be with him in this lifetime just wouldn't work, maybe you are more advanced/evolved than him spiritually? IP: Logged |
Ami Ann
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posted August 12, 2010 04:30 PM
I only believe in one life. I think I am screwed  Ami ------------------
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teasel
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From: Ohio
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 12, 2010 05:02 PM
I'm not sure... I knew a few sweet boys in school, and have known a couple of men who could fit the bill. Maybe they're all a part of my soul group (I've been re-reading Destiny of Souls, before my hypnosis session, which is in two days - eep! feeling a tad nervous.)IP: Logged |
WinkAway
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posted August 12, 2010 05:10 PM
Nephthys, that makes sense about being more spiritually evolved. He is a firm believer in "God". I never did "get" religion.Ami, really? I'm not very good at putting my beliefs into words. But there has just been too much evidence to me to suggest that our "light" just goes out when we die. My son told me when he was younger that he picked me to be his mom. I used to just think that was a sweet thing to think, and kind of brushed it off. But when I started hearing of other mom's being told the same thing from their kids... there's a thread on this somewhere.. I'll have to look it up. EDIT: Here's the link I was talking about. Abs posted it.. very touching. But this is just one example off the top of my head. And de ja vu is another example. Could it just be us remembering? That's one I'd love to hear some thoughts on... teasel, I got your friend request on FB! I'm at work so I'll have to wait till later to accept it
And hypnosis.. wow, that would be so interesting! Could you let us know what you thought of it? Always curious... have fun!
As for me and Rob maybe another lifetime, who knows...
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Nephthys
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From: California
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 12, 2010 06:27 PM
Ami Ann,Now you are cracking me up  Even if you only believe in 1 life........you WILL be surprised Not believing in something doesn't negate it........  Teasel, OOooh Hypnosis, sounds cool!!!!!! Winksy ~ HI!! IP: Logged |
Ami Ann
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posted August 12, 2010 06:52 PM
 Nep
Ami
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To will to be the self which one truly is,is indeed,the opposite of despair. IP: Logged |
Dy-na-mi-tee
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From: Cloud 22, Jupiter Ave, Lalaland
Registered: Jun 2010
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posted August 12, 2010 07:06 PM
Usually the story is that we belong to soul groups and have many soul mates but only one twin flame.I think it sounds too much like Sleeping Beauty & other man-made fairy tales. So I'm not convinced. But I do believe in past lives and I think we have spiritual connections to everyone who is significant in this life. So I think I've met a few soul mates. :edit: But romantically speaking --
I've met someone who is the right man for me (I think you know who I mean Ami lol) I don't like making future predictions about it, but I do think this person will always be important in my life. The reason I think he is a soul mate - is because he was there during a difficult period in my life and helped me a lot. He makes me feel genuinely appreciated. I love his unwavering support. It means the world to me. There's just something about us - It feels special. The other thing is - I have never met someone who is so stable and grounded in his feelings. I've never met someone who can say something to me.. and say the exact same thing years later. His feelings don't change and he doesn't play games. He has TAUGHT me not to play games.. because I always had that inclination - at least a little, before I met him (and occasionally, even *with* him). It is strange to me that his ego always comes second. And it's strange to me that he can't hurt me. If he does hurt me accidentally (he did once) - he backtracks and tries his best to fix it. IP: Logged |
eskimono
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Registered: Dec 2009
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posted August 12, 2010 07:15 PM
Ami - I thought I had, but now I am 'so over it' I am thinking maybe not (pls don't point out that I may be kidding myself).I have mixed with a lot of men, my job is varied and I get about a bit (professionally), and yet I have only met one person who I felt this way about. That makes me a bit despondent, other people seem to be falling over them like topsy. I hope I get the chance again. IP: Logged |
Ami Ann
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posted August 12, 2010 07:31 PM
So far ,the only ones on here who found her soul mate is Cpn and Dyn-a. Any advice, Girlfriends ?
x o Ami
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WinkAway
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posted August 12, 2010 07:40 PM
Yeah you're probably right Dyna..
I think this was yet another case of me feeling more for him than he inevitably felt for me. It's just odd because I remember having feelings for him when I was probably around 5 ish. They say you never get over your first love  Glad you have someone who loves you back. I'm sick of falling for guys who turn on the charm only to have them break my heart. So I have given up on dating for now. I figure when it happens it will just happen. Don't get me wrong, I'm not sad about it. I'm actually much happier with thinking that way. <waves at Nephthys> 
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Dy-na-mi-tee
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From: Cloud 22, Jupiter Ave, Lalaland
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posted August 12, 2010 07:41 PM
Thank You Wink quote:
I'm sick of falling for guys who turn on the charm only to have them break my heart.
I'm sure this will change. I felt the same way before I met him. I'm POSITIVE! IP: Logged |
Dy-na-mi-tee
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From: Cloud 22, Jupiter Ave, Lalaland
Registered: Jun 2010
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posted August 12, 2010 08:09 PM
Ami - I'm sorry but is there a problem again?
I thought we patched things up and agreed through email that we would be fine towards each other on LL but that we would end email-contact, since that is not working out for us. We agreed to this a couple of days back - and you were happy - I was happy.
Has something happened again, in the past two days?I have to ask this because - You seemed to purposely ignore this post (and others in astro).. when you would normally reply.. Mainly - since you know the story with me and the guy I consider my soul mate. Or did you accidentally miss the post? If you do have a problem with me and you intend to ignore my posts on LL for whatever reason.. I am happy to stop posting on your threads entirely.. but please make this clear to me on here - or through email. I don't like covert tactics. I am uneasy with the fact that you were nice towards me two days ago and we seemed to be on friendly terms - and then you seem to start avoiding me on here - out of the blue - once again (I feel like it is deja vu).. & It seems to be connected to us ending email contact. I am very confused as to what the problem is. IP: Logged |
Ami Ann
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From: Pluto
Registered: Dec 2009
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posted August 12, 2010 08:14 PM
I did not read it. I am really sorry!
Did you add it in,later?
I was not intentionally leaving you out. Ami
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Dy-na-mi-tee
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From: Cloud 22, Jupiter Ave, Lalaland
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posted August 12, 2010 08:18 PM
Phew!lol I honestly thought you had a problem with me again. IP: Logged |
Ami Ann
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posted August 12, 2010 08:19 PM
Did you JUST add that in???
I didn't see it before??IP: Logged |
Dy-na-mi-tee
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From: Cloud 22, Jupiter Ave, Lalaland
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posted August 12, 2010 08:21 PM
I added it in about.. maybe 20 mins before you posted - I think.But you probably missed it. It doesn't matter. It's just that you KNOW the story with me and this guy and I thought you'd reply.. so I thought something was up again. IP: Logged |
Ami Ann
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posted August 12, 2010 08:22 PM
We are cool as far as I am concerned. No diss on my part!
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LEXX
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From: Still out looking for Schr�dinger's cat.........& LEXIGRAMMING... is my Passion!
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posted August 12, 2010 10:08 PM
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GypseeWind
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From: Dayton,Ohio USA
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posted August 13, 2010 03:55 AM
Gosh, that is a loaded question in this day and age, isn't it??? Seems like so much pressure to find "HIM" and weed out anybody that isn't "HIM."This is totally my opinion, of course. I think we meet people that are to teach us something profound, and if we learn that, we may or may not keep them in our lives.
Having said that, Yes, I can think of a few that left a mark.. But, the question remains, is a soul mate one who stays? And for how long, and in what respect??
Things often get muddled, when human emotions and circumstances are involved, don't they? As of this moment, all I can say for 100 percent sure is that, true love, and you can call that a soul mate, if you wish to..
is that where you render your happiness, ego, comfort, posessions... everything.. to please the other person.
To me a soul mate love is selfless.
And so to that, I can say, that the only time I've experienced this, was with my children.
I thought perhaps, I felt it for my parents, or grandparents, but upon deep reflection, I do not think I would give up all of the above for them... honestly. So, yeah. There have been less than a handful that have come close, and they still remain in my life.
Who knows? Maybe more will be revealed when it's time. IP: Logged |
Dy-na-mi-tee
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From: Cloud 22, Jupiter Ave, Lalaland
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posted August 13, 2010 04:00 AM
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So far ,the only ones on here who found her soul mate is Cpn and Dyn-a.
aw That's sweet of you - Thanks for editing me in! Well I don't have advice really. All I did was walk down my path - and he entered my life. It so happened. Maybe - it is partially the fact that we think alike and have similar interests. I met him through my career. So maybe - meet guys at work? lol
Is that even advice? IP: Logged |
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