posted December 29, 2010 04:05 AM            

Jumping in the middle of someone else's argument just to egg on the argument?

Seriously????????

In the spirit of this thread, I hereby nominate Ami for the "Needs to STFU" award.

Ugh.

Edit: And I DARE someone to criticize me for saying that after all the CRAP and taunting that was spewed to Bears. At least keep that dysfunctional ish on SPITR where we expect the nonsense. Spare the rest of the community.

posted December 29, 2010 04:12 AM            

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Originally posted by Deux*Antares:
Actually, I only wanted to make a grand entrance for my award.

...The LOLCATZ SHOCKATTACK DIRTY MOUTH AWARD...

(If anyone here wants to do outrageous publicity for anything... you know which Knowflake to call.

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OK.. LMAO. you totally win the award for the following reasons;

1) I LOVE LOL cats with a passion.

2) You totally accepted and deflected crap

and

posted December 29, 2010 04:13 AM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Bear
Go back to Sweet Peas.Isn't it more fun to attack in a group

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Is THAT why you've brought your snide remarks into their discussion / disagreement / argument?

Shouldn't a psych student be respectful enough to step back and allow the two to state their views and possibly work out their differences?

*I* believe Lonake is a strong woman who can handle herself. What makes you think otherwise?

posted December 29, 2010 04:15 AM            

But yes. High five. That's exactly what I meant.

posted December 29, 2010 04:17 AM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
She will walk away back to Sweet Peas where she can stick with others such as she,group people.
If ANY of them were alone, they would collapse like spineless jelly fish.
Social Psych 101.

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The question is no longer why you were chosen as a moderator, it’s how on earth are you still a moderator?

no answer required

Rhetorical Questions 101

posted December 29, 2010 04:24 AM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
You know ,Bear
Lonake is one of the BEST astrologers on here!
She has the highest integrity and character.
You were not wise in your choice of someone to treat poorly.
I do not think you will have a whole group to stand behind you in THIS one.
I think you will have NO ONE.
Hmmmm----that has not been the case with me when you had safety in numbers.
NO ONE ON LL WILL DISS LONAKE--not a single soul.
Man---I get to write my own Social Psych book, my Phd thesis without even going to grad school.
Who would have thunk it?

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
I do not think you are laughing ,Bear
Social Psych Tells me that someone like you needs the group
WHERE is the group, NOW?

Social Psych says people such as yourself, GROUP people, do not like to stand alone in situations such as this.
OOPS.
Do you see the group coming to your rescue on this one?
I don't.
You violated a Social Psych Tenet.You gots to pick your people better.Ask me, before you pick on the next person

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
She will walk away back to Sweet Peas where she can stick with others such as she,group people.
If ANY of them were alone, they would collapse like spineless jelly fish.
Social Psych 101.

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Hmmmmm
Ask me before you pick on the next person . You choose poorly this time around, Bear
I am going to bed.
My bet is none of them will come help you on THIS one.
We shall see in the morning as Social Psych 101 in VIVO ,continues

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Bear
Go back to Sweet Peas.Isn't it more fun to attack in a group

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Just preserving the venom for posterity's sake before the "innocent me" edit.

Provoke and ye shall receive what ye desire.

BA is not defenseless. Not by a long shot. A thousand to one odds on her against the likes of you. How many Knowflakes on LL again?

posted December 29, 2010 04:28 AM            

Ironically, I have taken so many psych classes and not one dealt with calling people a mob just because they did not agree with the martyr. Maybe I read the wrong books?

posted December 29, 2010 04:33 AM            

I can't STAND the absurdity of it all. I feel like I'm in the Twilight zone LOL.

That's all one can do. I mean, I could give out some awards. Oh boy could I. But I refuse to tarnish this second attempt thread anymore than it has already been tarnished.

posted December 29, 2010 05:02 AM            

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Originally posted by StarrofVenusGirl:
The most INCREDIBLE irony is that this person believes she is a victim of bullying?!!! And is not herself a bully!!!

I can't STAND the absurdity of it all. I feel like I'm in the Twilight zone LOL.

That's all one can do. I mean, I could give out some awards. Oh boy could I. But I refuse to tarnish this second attempt thread anymore than it has already been tarnished.

Goodnight Bears

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That is exactly why I hit the "ignore" button and refused to respond- no matter the bait. My conversation was with Lonake and we talked things through or as through as we both understood. We did not need intervention from someone stating social psych issues or even abnormal psych issues.

I do like that you saved the quotes because tomorrow they with either be gone or changed (as they were several times tonight- in fact, there was one that Deux copied in another thread that changed into accusing me of things but that was only waaaaay later). I guess the victim became the bully because they thought I could not handle things on my own.

I have to add... and sorry that this thread has been hijacked- but to me, ignoring someone because you do not want to fight is not a sign of being a bully or being weak. It is a sign of taking the high road. A person that confronts an issue as Lonake and I have with each other, does not indicate a "group" mentality. Neither Lonake nor I needed help in order to discuss issues. How did our conversation turn into "Bears attacking people" and "bully vs victim"?

posted December 29, 2010 06:34 AM            

I am gonna go back to being my self actualized person ,NOW.

My self actualized person says," Hi"
My self actualized person will see you back at Sweet Peas and around.

posted December 29, 2010 08:27 AM            

You have been warned.

I don't care if you are a mod.

There was NO reason to come into this string and try and egg on another knowflake.

This is MY forum to moderate, and I don't appreciate you trying to start crap here.

You are welcome to post here, but leave the passive agressive posts elsewhere.

posted December 29, 2010 08:38 AM            

BTW, Please join me for Story Hour at Sweet Peas.Hope to see you there.Your CONTINUAL input is desired

posted December 29, 2010 09:46 AM            

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Originally posted by Randall:
Can we please bring this derailed string back on track to its original purpose now?

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*sigh*

posted December 29, 2010 06:06 PM            

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Originally posted by WinkAway:
I nominate myself for knowflake with the suckiest puter award!!

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