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GypseeWind
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posted December 22, 2010 12:24 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for GypseeWind     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
What was it? Can you sum it up? You can use astro if you want, or just talk.

I am curious if people can see what their issues were yet, or maybe some folks need more time?

I'll share mine...
For sure my number ONE issue in 2010 was to learn to go with the flow.

I had started the year thinking about Zala telling us to do our Saturn, and mine is in Pisces. I had to STOP trying to control the outcome of everything.

I mean, I really believed that life, or the situations in life were very much like a math equation. That there were only so many possible outcomes for any possible scenario. This is NOT true. Whenever you go into anything with the idea that X, Y, or Z will happen, well... maybe they will but be ready if they don't! That was a HUGE one for me this year.

And I tell you, that letting go and living in the moment, made me sooooo much happier of a person. I can say that for much of this year I've been far happier than in the past, and I know that is why.

The second lesson for me was authority issues. I have figured out that for myself, it's worth more to follow my own truth than to follow what is told to me, even if this means I have to give up the relationship with said authority figure.
Being a sag this should be second nature, but it's not.
I have a Cap Mc, and well, if someone at work that is in authority tells me that I HAVE to do something, usually I do it! That's just the way I am.
But, it was to the detriment of my own personal values, leaving me to feel like a huge hypocrite and sell out.
So, no more of that.
I either stand true to myself or I gotta split.

Hopefully I can find a job where I don't have to compromise as much as I did with my last one. But I am thankful that I had it so that now I can see WHAT NOT TO DO!

I wish you all a prosperous New Year, filed with love, adventure, and of course, JOY.

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MoonWitch
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posted December 22, 2010 12:40 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for MoonWitch     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My lesson was to really FIGHT for what I believe is right and just and not let people walk all over me anymore just so I can avoid rocking the boat.

I fought for my son and now he gets to go to the third best school district in the state .

I also learned that patience is a wonderful thing. After three and a half years, my son and I moved in with the Scorpio and it's LOVELY.

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PlutoSquared
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posted December 22, 2010 01:04 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for PlutoSquared     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My lesson? Freedom and happiness and wholeness in INDEPENDENCE.

Realizing that I can only be happy when I allow myself to be. That I am my greatest partner, protector, guide, etc.

Everyone else comes secondary and plays passenger to that.

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Lonake
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posted December 22, 2010 01:20 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lonake     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I've had a couple this year, but I'll mention 1, and as I have Sun sq Uranus this is a biggie: that not everyone is out to curtail my freedom. I've realized this year that I can be very arrogant and if I even sense for one second that someone is trying to reign me in I fight like mad (read: overreact). So there's a balance to keep, and I also have to take the responsibility to state my needs and what I'm comfortable with... for some reason I just thought that would pertain to romance, but nope, it pertains to almost every relationship, no matter how small.

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SunChild
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posted December 22, 2010 04:44 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for SunChild     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Always tell people how I feel and that I care about them, give more- be there more for others, make them feel they are sooo appreciated because they are! And I should show it more instead of just thinking and feeling it. I realised after many friends and family members who's contact has dropped off that I wish I had of told them how much I appreciate who they are and everything they have done, now in 2011, it is a time of letting people know NOW & as the moment arises because I know how it feels to know I am appreciated.

Always tell the truth! I, 99% of the time do! But having to tell a white lie to protect someone- or be onside with someone is stupid, I should tell the truth no matter the consequence of how others perceive me.

Always stand up for myself in the moment, don't let others walk all over me for their own selfish gains, call out when I see dishonesty.

Believe that I can actually do pretty much anything and there is never too much to do in a day! I'm not going to collapse in a heap. haha!

Thanks Gypsee--- that was very healing to think on!


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charmainec
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posted December 22, 2010 04:49 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for charmainec     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
This one is short and sweet:

To be true to myself

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eskimono
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posted December 22, 2010 07:32 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for eskimono     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
You can't force change, sometimes you have to sit back and wait for it (but it's soooooo frustrating!)

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Scorp31
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posted December 22, 2010 12:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Scorp31     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Even when things are at their worst and darkest, persevere and never give up!

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GypseeWind
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posted December 22, 2010 02:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for GypseeWind     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Moonwitch and Pluto, it was a big year for Aries, huh? And a big year to come from what I read. That is awesome, I am happy for the both of you.

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GypseeWind
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posted December 22, 2010 02:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for GypseeWind     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Lonake, when is your transit up? What do you plan to do different or change for yourself in 2011???

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GypseeWind
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posted December 22, 2010 02:32 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for GypseeWind     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Beautiful SunChild! What a year you had! A big memorable, sweet year!! So, so, happy for you!!

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GypseeWind
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posted December 22, 2010 02:34 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for GypseeWind     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Scorpio and Esk;

I wondered how the year felt for Scorpio peeps. It's hard getting that kind of info from the guys you know. So this year has been a test in patience huh? Well, I am praying that it all pays off for you guys in 2011, and you get what you want!!

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GypseeWind
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posted December 22, 2010 02:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for GypseeWind     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Charm Bracelet~

We have took a beating this year, haven't we? Well, you know how it is...

Always brighter on the horizon, and there are always better days to come. I believe this 110%, and I know you to do too!

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Scorp31
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posted December 22, 2010 05:47 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Scorp31     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
@GypseeWind-Well 2010 was a challenge for me and quite transformative the transformation being physical, Starting in 2009 I shed 30 lbs and lowered my body fat percentage. To date I have kept the weight off and made the necessary life style changes needed to continue down the path to good health and fitness.

2010 has been an economic challenge for me, as it has for millions that are out of work however, I just kept moving forward the best way I know how. I am a fighter and failure is just not in my DNA, I feel challenges toughen up your mettle and help you to appreciate life.

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posted December 22, 2010 08:49 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for PlutoSquared     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

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GypseeWind
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posted December 23, 2010 12:16 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for GypseeWind     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Here is a little general astro prediction article for next year. Which is next WEEK. OMG, that went so fast!! ZOOM!
http://planetaryenergies.net/articles/planetary-energies-2011/forecasts/

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StarrofVenusGirl
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posted December 23, 2010 12:36 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for StarrofVenusGirl     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I need to have more self-control. It's alright to be expressive but sometimes I need to pause before I act or speak.

Also one can only eat so much Chipotle and complain about jeans getting tighter

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posted December 23, 2010 12:37 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for StarrofVenusGirl     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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GypseeWind
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posted December 23, 2010 01:36 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for GypseeWind     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I've never ate there, and I pass it ALL the time. Gonna have to try it!!!

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MoonWitch
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posted December 23, 2010 01:40 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for MoonWitch     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you, Gypsee . I am really looking forward to 2011

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Venia
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posted December 23, 2010 07:55 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Venia     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Well...

I learnt a huge lesson regarding me, my feelings and my selfishness. Especially with men. Until, a couple of months ago and for many years I used to think that my behaviour was fine and was even wondering why I never had a successful relationship with those men that really interested me.

But somehow, a man entered my life and made me realise how selfish I was not to express my real feelings for someone and simply give love unconditionally.

Of course, it's more compicated than that BUT I am glad that I managed to see the bigger picture and see myself more objectively than ever.

It used to hurt for years...

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charmainec
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posted December 23, 2010 08:33 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for charmainec     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
That's why I love you so Gypsee, we relate well with that. This has been a year of hard lessons but we can take it and move on
*puts on rose tinted glasses

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Randall
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posted December 24, 2010 07:14 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hibernate during Merc Rx.

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Randall
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posted December 25, 2010 07:00 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Or take a vacation during Merc Rx...but there would probably be delays. But that's my 2010 lesson.

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"The stars which shone over Babylon and the stable in Bethlehem still shine as brightly over the Empire State Building and your front yard today. They perform their cycles with the same mathematical precision, and they will continue to affect each thing on earth, including man, as long as the earth exists." Linda Goodman

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