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Randall
Webmaster Posts: 7098
From: The Goober Galaxy
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 28, 2011 09:31 AM
  
Apparently, EES is telling people I banned her. I cannot allow her to lie about this. Last night in some e-mail exchanges, she kept insisting that I was showing favoritism to Ami, but I kept repeating that they were both at fault. She asked me to remove her as Mod. Then she asked to be banned. Tell the truth, Marcy. I am very disappointed in you. I always took you to be an honest person. IP: Logged |
Anti-Rufilla
Knowflake Posts: 36
From: Dallas
Registered: Dec 2009
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posted March 28, 2011 09:37 AM
In the grand scheme of things, it's all just drops in the bucket. Rest IP: Logged |
Randall
Webmaster Posts: 7098
From: The Goober Galaxy
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 28, 2011 09:46 AM
I agree. But I don't like being lied about. Here are exact words when she asked to have her Modship removed:Marcy March 28, 2011 at 6:35am
Hmm, I had some time to think it through, Randall. I wish to no longer be a moderator, however I'd like to continue contributing to LL as long I can. If things get ugly again as they have today, I will do you the favor and leave. Have a blessed morning, no need to respond, no worries about me messaging you any longer. I'm just tired of the drama and favortism. Enjoy your week ------------------
"All deaths are suicides, do you realize that? Every single one. The only distinction is that, with some people, suicide is a subconscious choice, and with others it's a conscious choice. Otherwise, those who commit suicide and those who succumb to accident, illness or "old age," die for exactly the same reason: belief in the inevitability of death." Linda Goodman IP: Logged |
TxGirl
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posted March 28, 2011 09:47 AM
Really, Randall? YOU are dissapointed in HER? Couple things, so that the truth may be in the light.You were upset with her because of what I said. Worst part abotu that is I've been so genuine and nice here, and I pop off one time and you talk abotu me behind my back? lol really? Secondly, I had a run in with Ami, the things I said I've already semi-stated elsewhere. That, was just most of it- believe it or not- in a nice way. You got upset and talked bad of ME, for one thing I did yet Ami has a ton of threads causing and insigating problems, and you don't even care about your precious Mod. EES, didn't deserve to be talked to that way. When I posted that I weas spending time with my boyfriend, I hadn't even talked to her for hours lol. Be upset with me, take you petty anger out on the one who deserves it the one who as you think messed up ONCE. I see it as more being honest. I stand up for what I believe, I say what needs to be said, and I suppose that is why you are so upset and need to blame someone else and talk badly of me. Very poor behavior as a Web master, but such is life. So, be upset. I've moved on and deleted most of my things, I will never be in such a place full of lies, anger, and people who can't bring their problems to me again. I feel extremely happy to have met some people here. The thread for EES was closed, she was simply saying goodbye and not causing drama. She wanted the Rosh dude to get ahold of her if anyone must know. Whole tuth, nothing but the truth. Have fun. *Names are edited for LEGAL purposes lol. March 28 at 2:28am
Marcy Then you tell me to let is go, jeez, dude, I am TRYING to. Can you not see that?
Randall March 28 at 2:30am Report
If you were letting it go, you wouldn't still be responding on LL. TX was out of line.
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Marcy March 28 at 2:31am
And nicki g lalalinda and ami werent? How is this impartial? I was trying to comfort my friend. I was asking her to leave it alone.
Randall March 28 at 2:33am Report
If you had a problem with Lala you should have told me. I would have locked it. I feel like TX is your foot soldier and Nicki is Ami's.
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Marcy March 28 at 2:35am
You know, Randall, I'm not going to argue about it or beg you to see things in a fair light. It is clear that you show unfair favortism toward Ami who has been deemed problematic at LL for a very long time. This is regular behavior for her, not me. When I was accused over and over again of slander, you seemed to be in agreeance with it. To slander is to lie, period, I may have been nasty on that thread, but it was the whole truth.
Marcy March 28 at 2:36am
No, TX isnt a foot soldier, I dont do those, that is Ami's game to manipulate people to do that type of nonsense, Tx was angry at me being attacked all day long by mods and you not saying much about it.
Randall March 28 at 2:38am Report
What you said was no one's business...true or not. And you are claiming I am unfair? How many times do I have to say it? You were both wrong. Both wrong. Both.
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Randall March 28 at 2:39am Report
Who attacked you today? Lala started that string which turned positive.
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Marcy March 28 at 2:40am
If you want to strip me of mod status, you may, but, understand how ridiculous that will look to strip me and still have Ami parade around as a mod, further causing more drama and bs. Your choice. I screwed up once, dude, that woman single handedly created a ton of negativity on your site causing several threads to close. But do what you have to do, Randall. You choice.
Randall March 28 at 2:41am Report
TX has distorted perception about the events. And your view seems a bit distorted as well. I am not choosing sides. I just want peace.
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Randall March 28 at 2:43am Report
Once again, you are not seeing clearly. I said I would strip you both if you continued this petty fight. Not just you.
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Marcy March 28 at 2:44am
Lala is also a "foot soldier" i used to be friends with Ami, remember? Spent countless hours reading IMs about how she wants to throw a bomb in LL to "get revenge" on those that "gang raped" her, finding creative ways to instigate and argue, deliberately not telling you the PDF is ALF but follows you around and brownnoses you and everyone until no tomorrow until the person eventually becomes her "mortal enemy" LoL You have a sick puppy on your hands, Randall. Eventually the **** will hit the fan. Have a good night.
Marcy March 28 at 2:45am
Ok well be sure to stand by your word when she starts the whining and the nonsense about me, because I promise you she will.
Randall March 28 at 2:47am Report
Ami has kept her word. Not a peep. I don't care how you feel about her. I don't care how she feels about you. Ya'll can say anything...just keep it off LL.
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Marcy March 28 at 2:51am
As I said, she is a sick puppy, hence her putting lalalinda and nicki g up to the BS. I feel nothing about her, she is a complete psychotic mess. I'm just warning you of the mess you have on your hands.
Randall March 28 at 2:54am Report
Trust me, I see both sides. I will handle Lindaland as I always do, despite the conflicts. Just keep your word to me and avoid Ami. She will do the same.
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Marcy March 28 at 3:09am
Not a problem. Wow, are you promising me she will do the same? Can you promise that. I wish you had the soft spot for me in your heart that you hold so dearly for Ami. If any other LL member including me were to do even half of what shes done out here we surely wouldve been banned. But, thats only an opinion that you will diligently deny anyway although it's in plain view for all of LL to see.
Marcy March 28 at 3:35am
Hmm, I had some time to think it through, Randall. I wish to no longer be a moderator, however I'd like to continue contributing to LL as long I can. If things get ugly again as they have today, I will do you the favor and leave. Have a blessed morning, no need to respond, no worries about me messaging you any longer. I'm just tired of the drama and favortism. Enjoy your week ¢¾
Randall March 28 at 5:51am Report
You still don't get it. You personally insulted Ami. If there is favoritism, I am showing it to you. It can only get ugly like it did today if you allow it to.
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Marcy March 28 at 6:12am
No, I do get it and I stand by my last message to you, I was personally insulted by being called a lowlife which is how the whole thing started, that woman is old enough to be alot of peoples mothers and grandmothers out there and she conducts herself like a child, now youre showing me favoritism? You only further reinforce my previous message. Have a great day. I believe we are done here. Respond if you need to, though. Not a problem.
Randall March 28 at 6:13am Report
As you wish. I removed you as Mod. All that does is let your haters win, though. They will love that.
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Marcy March 28 at 6:15am
LoL you gotta be kidding me to type something like this to me, Randall. Please don't insult my intelligence. My number 1 hater is Ami, she will never win. She will die a monster.
Randall March 28 at 6:16am Report
I have nothing more to say to you. You think Ami is to blame and cannot see how you contributed to it. You claimed you did, but you really don't. Whatever.
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Marcy March 28 at 6:19am
Well, that makes two of us, I was done with this hours ago. Again, fed up with the damned favoritism. Whatever, to you as well. Take care.
Randall March 28 at 6:23am Report
As I said, I have shown the favoritism to you by not banning you after posting some of the most viciously insulting things I have ever seen on LL.
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Marcy March 28 at 6:37am
Ban me then, in fact don't worry about banning me, I wont be returning. You've deemed yourself a very kind and loyal daddy to Ami. Good Job.
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Randall March 28 at 9:22am Report
I see you have stooped to a new low lying about being banned. You requested to be banned last night. Tell the truth.
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Marcy March 28 at 9:29am
Randall, leave me alone, I left your site, I've said my goodbyes, Youve got what you wanted. please dont inbox me again.
Randall March 28 at 9:32am Report
No, you are lying, and I am going to make sure everyone knows it.
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Marcy March 28 at 9:33am
You can do what you want. Just stop messaging me. You do understand this is harassment, don't you?
Randall March 28 at 9:34am Report
Ah, just like Ami supposedly harassed you? I see your game. Of course, I will stop messaging you. As you wish.
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Marcy Boland March 28 at 9:35am
Thank you.
In conclusion, I'd appreciate it if one or both of you say goodbye to my friends for me (if you can if not, no biggie) and let them know if they need me you guys will privately give them my personal email address 
This is from moi- When all I have in my heart is love, and all I state is the truth, it is nothing but easy and I am eager to move on share what I have, to those who appreciate it.
Good bye! P.S she did ask then retracted it. Or did you miss that like you seem to miss everything else of importance, Randall? IP: Logged |
Anti-Rufilla
Knowflake Posts: 36
From: Dallas
Registered: Dec 2009
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posted March 28, 2011 09:50 AM
Let them tell lies
Just dance your dance and sing your song ...all the same, kudos to you for sifting through other people's e-drama and taking the blame for trying to be amicable and fair. i'm really not much of a leader myself, and i look up to people who are capable of moderating other people's discussions on the internet thank god for the leaders among us ~ IP: Logged |
Randall
Webmaster Posts: 7098
From: The Goober Galaxy
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 28, 2011 09:52 AM
Then she sent me this request to ban her. I did as she requested. The only thing I can figure is that maybe she wanted to post a goodbye string this morning and take some shots at us on her way out, but she couldn't, so now she is telling everyone I banned her and that I am showing favoritism about the fight that ensued with Ami. I told them both that they would be stripped as Mods if they continued. How is that favoritism? You can read it on the locked string. Although, EES was far worse in the things she said during the altercation, still, both were clearly at fault. Here are her exact words to me:Marcy March 28, 2011 at 9:37am
Ban me then, in fact don't worry about banning me, I wont be returning. You've deemed yourself a very kind and loyal daddy to Ami. Good Job. ------------------
"All deaths are suicides, do you realize that? Every single one. The only distinction is that, with some people, suicide is a subconscious choice, and with others it's a conscious choice. Otherwise, those who commit suicide and those who succumb to accident, illness or "old age," die for exactly the same reason: belief in the inevitability of death." Linda Goodman IP: Logged |
Randall
Webmaster Posts: 7098
From: The Goober Galaxy
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posted March 28, 2011 10:00 AM
She didn't retract anything. Since you rerproduced our conversation, where is her retraction? Anyway, she is clearly lying now on FB, and it makes me wonder what else she has lied about. Oh, and I wasn't talking behind your back--I was having a conversation with her. I had already posted my thoughts about your words on the locked string for YOU to see. Peace to you both.------------------
"All deaths are suicides, do you realize that? Every single one. The only distinction is that, with some people, suicide is a subconscious choice, and with others it's a conscious choice. Otherwise, those who commit suicide and those who succumb to accident, illness or "old age," die for exactly the same reason: belief in the inevitability of death." Linda Goodman IP: Logged |
Randall
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posted March 28, 2011 10:10 AM
Thanks, AR. I would not wish this thankless job on anyone.------------------
"All deaths are suicides, do you realize that? Every single one. The only distinction is that, with some people, suicide is a subconscious choice, and with others it's a conscious choice. Otherwise, those who commit suicide and those who succumb to accident, illness or "old age," die for exactly the same reason: belief in the inevitability of death." Linda Goodman IP: Logged |
Anti-Rufilla
Knowflake Posts: 36
From: Dallas
Registered: Dec 2009
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posted March 28, 2011 10:13 AM
dang, dude. Don't let it bring you down. This is a really beautiful thing that you do. So you'll hit a few potholes here and there, in the grand scheme of things, you're connecting rainbows to pots of gold for us lonely mystics. IP: Logged |
charmainec
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From: on the other side of the rainbow
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 28, 2011 10:17 AM
It's clear she asked to banned so no point in twisting the truth and telling people otherwise.IP: Logged |
pixelpixie
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From: ON Canada
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 28, 2011 10:21 AM
Just coming on here because I saw this on facebookI have a concern- because THIS site is comprised of user names, is it right to have her actual name as a thread starter?
If my real name were up here I think I would be incensed-personally identifying and all. That said- that is my only contribution, as I do not know what went on. I can't even call myself a bystander, I am a 'rubber-necker' IP: Logged |
Randall
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posted March 28, 2011 10:22 AM
Hey, it's just par for the course, as they say. I'm seldom surprised at what anyone does any more.------------------
"All deaths are suicides, do you realize that? Every single one. The only distinction is that, with some people, suicide is a subconscious choice, and with others it's a conscious choice. Otherwise, those who commit suicide and those who succumb to accident, illness or "old age," die for exactly the same reason: belief in the inevitability of death." Linda Goodman IP: Logged |
charmainec
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posted March 28, 2011 10:24 AM
Neither am I. People always want to put the blame on someone and never admit their own faults or at least speak the truth as it happened.IP: Logged |
Randall
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posted March 28, 2011 10:28 AM
Oh, and thanks for reproducing the conversation, TX. It came straight from EES, I presume, so no one can say that I am embellishing. It supports what I have been saying...namely that there was no favoritism. As I said several times, both EES and Ami were to blame. And as it clearly shows, EES requested to have her Modship removed as well as to be banned. So, thank you for clarifying things up. ------------------
"All deaths are suicides, do you realize that? Every single one. The only distinction is that, with some people, suicide is a subconscious choice, and with others it's a conscious choice. Otherwise, those who commit suicide and those who succumb to accident, illness or "old age," die for exactly the same reason: belief in the inevitability of death." Linda Goodman IP: Logged |
MoonWitch
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posted March 28, 2011 10:29 AM
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Originally posted by pixelpixie:
Just coming on here because I saw this on facebookI have a concern- because THIS site is comprised of user names, is it right to have her actual name as a thread starter?
If my real name were up here I think I would be incensed-personally identifying and all. '
Ditto. There was a lot of concern yesterday about some guy's real name being used in a thread and he hasn't posted here in a long time, I think. I don't understand using EES's real name now. This stuff shows up on Google searches for YEARS. IP: Logged |
Randall
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posted March 28, 2011 10:30 AM
And they act like what they posted here (our messages) supports her claims of favoritism! It does just the opposite!  ------------------
"All deaths are suicides, do you realize that? Every single one. The only distinction is that, with some people, suicide is a subconscious choice, and with others it's a conscious choice. Otherwise, those who commit suicide and those who succumb to accident, illness or "old age," die for exactly the same reason: belief in the inevitability of death." Linda Goodman IP: Logged |
charmainec
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posted March 28, 2011 10:37 AM
The truth has been revealed. Hopefully we can all learn a lesson from this and move on  IP: Logged |
PlutoSquared
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posted March 28, 2011 10:40 AM
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Originally posted by MoonWitch:
Ditto. There was a lot of concern yesterday about some guy's real name being used in a thread and he hasn't posted here in a long time, I think. I don't understand using EES's real name now.This stuff shows up on Google searches for YEARS.
I was also going to say that this was the same issue with the other guy's thread, yesterday... IP: Logged |
Randall
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From: The Goober Galaxy
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posted March 28, 2011 11:01 AM
I felt I had to post her two messages in their entirety to prove my innocence from her claims, so I didn't think it really mattered to use her name in the title as well.------------------
"All deaths are suicides, do you realize that? Every single one. The only distinction is that, with some people, suicide is a subconscious choice, and with others it's a conscious choice. Otherwise, those who commit suicide and those who succumb to accident, illness or "old age," die for exactly the same reason: belief in the inevitability of death." Linda Goodman IP: Logged |
Randall
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posted March 28, 2011 11:16 AM
We are spidered frequently. If Google has it cached via her name, there's nothing I can do; however, I can change the title, so if the Google link is clicked on, it won't show her name here. But I can't delete this string. It would be viewed in a negative light...like I am covering something up or censoring. ------------------
"All deaths are suicides, do you realize that? Every single one. The only distinction is that, with some people, suicide is a subconscious choice, and with others it's a conscious choice. Otherwise, those who commit suicide and those who succumb to accident, illness or "old age," die for exactly the same reason: belief in the inevitability of death." Linda Goodman IP: Logged |
PlutoSquared
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posted March 28, 2011 11:18 AM
I think it would be viewed as consistent and fair if you at least changed the title so it read simply "Marcy"...IP: Logged |
PlutoSquared
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posted March 28, 2011 11:21 AM
You do a good job, Randall. It's not entirely thankless  IP: Logged |
Randall
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posted March 28, 2011 11:23 AM
Thank you, PS. That means a lot.------------------
"All deaths are suicides, do you realize that? Every single one. The only distinction is that, with some people, suicide is a subconscious choice, and with others it's a conscious choice. Otherwise, those who commit suicide and those who succumb to accident, illness or "old age," die for exactly the same reason: belief in the inevitability of death." Linda Goodman IP: Logged |
LEXX
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From: Still out looking for Schrodinger's cat.......& LEXIGRAMMING.♥.. is my Passion!
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 28, 2011 11:48 AM
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Originally posted by pixelpixie:
Just coming on here because I saw this on facebookI have a concern- because THIS site is comprised of user names, is it right to have her actual name as a thread starter?
If my real name were up here I think I would be incensed-personally identifying and all. That said- that is my only contribution, as I do not know what went on. I can't even call myself a bystander, I am a 'rubber-necker'
I agree.
And why the fb private conversations posted here at LL? 
I am doing my best to avoid bringing behind the scenes stuff to LL, and fb stuff as requested/ordered by Randall.
As a mod I feel I must do that.
However, since private convos were posted here and real name, I regret now deleting from my mail the ugliness
from so called innocent parties.
On the other hand I guess I should not regret it because I would never post publicly such evil vile lying hatefulness.
As I said long ago to someone when repeatedly treated the same way, both publicly and privately;
"God sees you and the truth will out"
They saw that as a threat.
Well if the shoe fits wear it!
Folks here are reacting without knowing what has been going on behind the scenes.
It is a point in EES's favor that she resisted and did not post the ugly hate mail she received that would have revealed the truth.
Like I told her;
Leave it to God to deal with the issue.IP: Logged |
Randall
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From: The Goober Galaxy
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 28, 2011 12:00 PM
LL is no place for posting private conversations. I only posted two excerpts to prove I was being lied about by EES. TX saw it fitting to post the whole convo. But I'm okay with it. I just want the behind-the-scenes drama to stay off LL. I started this string to let people know the truth. TX's posting of the convo did that. Locking it now.------------------
"All deaths are suicides, do you realize that? Every single one. The only distinction is that, with some people, suicide is a subconscious choice, and with others it's a conscious choice. Otherwise, those who commit suicide and those who succumb to accident, illness or "old age," die for exactly the same reason: belief in the inevitability of death." Linda Goodman IP: Logged | |
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