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juniperb
Moderator Posts: 1824
From: Blue Star Kachina
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 22, 2011 01:55 PM
  
I am left to sweep up the arguements and hurts of good people. It seems the crumb trail leads back to off Lindaland and leads to FB, IM or private exchanges. What you do or say off LL is your business not mine or other posters caught up in the garbage residue. If you make it your business, KEEP it your business and off this forum. I like everyone but I am weary of cleaning up behind gossip and such.
Thank you and reading this.
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Randall
Webmaster Posts: 8029
From: The Goober Galaxy
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 22, 2011 02:00 PM
I agree. Keep it off Lindaland.------------------
"All deaths are suicides, do you realize that? Every single one. The only distinction is that, with some people, suicide is a subconscious choice, and with others it's a conscious choice. Otherwise, those who commit suicide and those who succumb to accident, illness or "old age," die for exactly the same reason: belief in the inevitability of death." Linda Goodman IP: Logged |
Quinnie
Knowflake Posts: 1107
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Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 22, 2011 02:09 PM
Randall that will be mighty difficult to do if you have LL members as your FB friends.
Facebook is the main cause of many arguments if not all of them.IP: Logged |
MoonWitch
Moderator Posts: 694
From: The Beach
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 22, 2011 02:12 PM
I have a few people from LL friended on my Facebook. I've never experienced drama from it. I don't know how that happens.If you don't mesh with someone then don't friend them and no communication is needed  I also venture to say that plenty of disagreements are not occuring because of FB. I've only seen it brought up a couple times. IP: Logged |
MoonWitch
Moderator Posts: 694
From: The Beach
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 22, 2011 02:14 PM
OH.. and I tend to agree with Juni! Private stuff is private stuff.IP: Logged |
Randall
Webmaster Posts: 8029
From: The Goober Galaxy
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 22, 2011 02:18 PM
Keep FB on FB. Shouldn't be too difficult. Only a choice few are causing problems (or jumping into the fray to fan the flames). But like always, much good has come from it. Shouldn't be many more conflicts like this in the future, if any. ------------------
"All deaths are suicides, do you realize that? Every single one. The only distinction is that, with some people, suicide is a subconscious choice, and with others it's a conscious choice. Otherwise, those who commit suicide and those who succumb to accident, illness or "old age," die for exactly the same reason: belief in the inevitability of death." Linda Goodman IP: Logged |
juniperb
Moderator Posts: 1824
From: Blue Star Kachina
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 22, 2011 02:20 PM
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If you don't mesh with someone then don't friend them and no communication is needed
Usually they mesh for a while then fall out and the debris is dumped here. FB isn`t the problem, the gossiping,backbiting and finger pointing is. ------------------
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juniperb
Moderator Posts: 1824
From: Blue Star Kachina
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 22, 2011 02:21 PM
Onward and Upward?!!------------------
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LEXX
Moderator Posts: 6012
From: Still out looking for Schrodinger's cat.......& LEXIGRAMMING.♥.. is my Passion!
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 22, 2011 02:29 PM
Been trying to stay out of the dramas.
Not sure what is going on this time.
I hate fighting.
Sigh
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Randall
Webmaster Posts: 8029
From: The Goober Galaxy
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 22, 2011 03:05 PM
I will be more diligent in keeping FB drama off LL. The good thing about FB is that you can block someone and never have to see them there again. FB is more intimate than LL. So, if I wouldn't want to be a friend of someone in person, then I wouldn't want to be a friend on FB. But LL is more broad and impersonal, and there's plenty of room for a whole spectrum of personalities...and not everyone will jibe with everyone else. There are a wide range of belief systems represented here. ------------------
"All deaths are suicides, do you realize that? Every single one. The only distinction is that, with some people, suicide is a subconscious choice, and with others it's a conscious choice. Otherwise, those who commit suicide and those who succumb to accident, illness or "old age," die for exactly the same reason: belief in the inevitability of death." Linda Goodman IP: Logged |
littlecloud
Moderator Posts: 946
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Registered: Nov 2010
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posted April 22, 2011 03:10 PM
Amen Juni!!!!Seriously thank you for speaking up. I come here like every other day, look around scratch my head in wonderment of all the drama that seems to creep up out of no where and then I leave. It's emotionally draining and just discouraging in general. IP: Logged |
juniperb
Moderator Posts: 1824
From: Blue Star Kachina
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 22, 2011 03:29 PM
Thank you all for the support. I did say "I" clean up but that was just the past few days. Charmaine has almost single handed held this forum down for some time and kudos to her  lexx is under the weather and can`t be here as often. Xodian, the mystery man! To them I extend my thanks and gratitude. This is YOUR forum knowflakes, enjoy it and use house manners and rules. That`s all it really takes to a peaceful road where everyone feels comfortable. juni ------------------
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teasel
Knowflake Posts: 2957
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Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 22, 2011 04:57 PM
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Originally posted by Randall:
Keep FB on FB. Shouldn't be too difficult. Only a choice few are causing problems (or jumping into the fray to fan the flames). But like always, much good has come from it. Shouldn't be many more conflicts like this in the future, if any.
I hope I'm not included in this. I haven't been fanning any flames. Another site I've been a part of for six years, is in an uproar over something, and it's like what happened here, times a larger number of people - just sad. There's no enjoyment in it at all. IP: Logged |
Randall
Webmaster Posts: 8029
From: The Goober Galaxy
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 22, 2011 05:17 PM
No ma'am, I wasn't speaking of you. ------------------
"All deaths are suicides, do you realize that? Every single one. The only distinction is that, with some people, suicide is a subconscious choice, and with others it's a conscious choice. Otherwise, those who commit suicide and those who succumb to accident, illness or "old age," die for exactly the same reason: belief in the inevitability of death." Linda Goodman IP: Logged |
juniperb
Moderator Posts: 1824
From: Blue Star Kachina
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 22, 2011 09:59 PM
Nor was I teasel ------------------
~The Earth Laughs In Flowers~
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Randall
Webmaster Posts: 8029
From: The Goober Galaxy
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 22, 2011 10:05 PM
Your Heart is pure, Teasel. That is a difficult burden to bear in a world of opportunists.  IP: Logged |
charmainec
Moderator Posts: 2333
From: on the other side of the rainbow
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 23, 2011 08:26 AM
There are many things I wish to comment on but I am very busy at this time.IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
Moderator Posts: 9186
From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted April 23, 2011 09:31 AM
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Originally posted by Randall:
Your Heart is pure, Teasel. That is a difficult burden to bear in a world of opportunists.
So true Teasel. People appreciate your integrity and character.
You are rare in the world,Friend ------------------
In this world,you will have tribulation but do not fear I have overcome the world.
He who controls his Spirit is greater than he who controls a city
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Ami Anne
Moderator Posts: 9186
From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted April 23, 2011 09:31 AM
quote:
Originally posted by Randall:
Your Heart is pure, Teasel. That is a difficult burden to bear in a world of opportunists.
So true Teasel. People appreciate your integrity and character.
You are rare in the world,Friend ------------------
In this world,you will have tribulation but do not fear I have overcome the world.
He who controls his Spirit is greater than he who controls a city
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LEXX
Moderator Posts: 6012
From: Still out looking for Schrodinger's cat.......& LEXIGRAMMING.♥.. is my Passion!
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 23, 2011 10:29 AM
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Originally posted by juniperb:
lexx is under the weather and can`t be here as often.
I have not been absent during all this drama.
I simply have been observing rather than jumping in the fray and adding more full to all the brush fires.I have written Xodian several times since he was made a moderator;
yet no replies, maybe once.
Rarely see him here and gave up trying to contact him. I have asked Randall to what degree I should be involved in the dramas or not. ------------------
~The present time is theirs, but the future is mine.~Nikola Tesla
~There is no box.~H♥
~Balance is not letting anyone love you less than you love yourself.~Felipe
~I remember, therefore I am immortal~LEXX
~It is far better to regret wrong paths taken than to regret the paths not tried~Giselle
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charmainec
Moderator Posts: 2333
From: on the other side of the rainbow
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 03, 2011 06:56 AM
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Originally posted by juniperb:
I am left to sweep up the arguements and hurts of good people. It seems the crumb trail leads back to off Lindaland and leads to FB, IM or private exchanges. What you do or say off LL is your business not mine or other posters caught up in the garbage residue. If you make it your business, KEEP it your business and off this forum. I like everyone but I am weary of cleaning up behind gossip and such.
Thank you and reading this.
Agreed. Sorry for not being around as much Juni.You sure did have your hands full for a while.Thank you. IP: Logged |
juniperb
Moderator Posts: 1824
From: Blue Star Kachina
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 03, 2011 10:17 AM
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have not been absent during all this drama.
I simply have been observing rather than jumping in the fray and adding more full to all the brush fires.
lexx, that`s certainly the most cautious place for a mod to be! No worries Charm, you have had your turn at taking the heat. It`s what it`s all about sometimes I am simply happy to see you back and posting! ------------------
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charmainec
Moderator Posts: 2333
From: on the other side of the rainbow
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 03, 2011 11:00 AM
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No one is born hating another person because of the colour of his skin, or his background, or his religion. People must learn to hate, and if they can learn to hate, they can be taught to love, for love comes more naturally to the human heart than its opposite.Nelson Mandela
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