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Topic: Lindaland Rules Of Conduct
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teasel
Knowflake Posts: 3511
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Registered: Apr 2009
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posted December 28, 2011 05:20 PM
  
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I know of plenty of people who have been banned for reasons other than being "malicious". Youve not been here very long. But keep gossiping outside of here and tarnishing the good name of others.
I can think of a few people, too. IP: Logged |
Emeraldopal
Knowflake Posts: 1023
From: U
Registered: Apr 2011
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posted December 28, 2011 05:46 PM
T, I hope you change your Mind..
I need you here!back some years ago, I had two
members threaten my life here..
neither one was banned..
so many times I have been viciously
attacked, and no one was ever
banned...
I must be honest, I do feel some
resentment, I do feel I have been
treated unfairly..
but I've learned to Forgive ALL..
Always, to not hold onto the Negative
to release it.. everything truly does happen for
a reason
we are
Learning and Growing... Please, let's love each other,
be kind, and help when we can... Let's be fair and honest
with each other, not play
favorites.. We are ALL EQUAL. ... ------------------
All my love, with all my Heart
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anongrl10
Knowflake Posts: 2846
From: won't_disclose
Registered: Sep 2011
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posted December 28, 2011 05:57 PM
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Originally posted by T:
I know of plenty of people who have been banned for reasons other than being "malicious". Youve not been here very long. But keep gossiping outside of here and tarnishing the good name of others. Maybe someday we will all be just as perfect as you and learn how to follow each and every Golden Rule, Miss Lily White. 
Was this intended as a response to me? I didn't say anything about anyone "being malicious" neither am I "gossiping" about anyone as you like to imagine. I did refer to trolls. Interesting how you thought that I was referring to you...
This post of yours is proof of how you like to offend others. I don't know you and you just presumed to know me and call me sarcastic names. Yeah, that's exactly the way to go for making friends. LOL
Anyone sane would have banned you for misconduct. Randall is first giving u warnings. I've been webmaster elsewhere, and I know the patience that is needed to deal with people who behave like you do. I'm behind Randall 100%.
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T
Knowflake Posts: 3709
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posted December 28, 2011 06:01 PM
Anon, I was talking to Ami. "People that behave like me." I'm glad you know me so well. anyway... Emerald, I might get back to you later. Can't deal with this place right now.  IP: Logged |
Emeraldopal
Knowflake Posts: 1023
From: U
Registered: Apr 2011
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posted December 28, 2011 06:04 PM
I understand T------------------
All my love, with all my Heart
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T
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posted December 28, 2011 06:05 PM
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I've been webmaster elsewhere, and I know the patience that is needed to deal with people who behave like you do.
So do i. I've moderated like five forums here throughout the years. And I am a very patient and tolerant person for the most part.  out IP: Logged |
SunChild
Moderator Posts: 2561
From: Australia
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted December 28, 2011 06:05 PM
Don't take any notice of her, she even may be referring to Ami, I dont know. She does not respect Randall or the site and thinks it's all a joke. Calls him names like Scandall. Mostly negative when posts and it's usually about issues/people/grudges.... utterly ridiculous. People resent Randall and this site so that's when you usually see posts of this nature.
I dont know why she bothers.... If it's to chat to friends, why not just email them? IP: Logged |
anongrl10
Knowflake Posts: 2846
From: won't_disclose
Registered: Sep 2011
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posted December 28, 2011 06:07 PM
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Originally posted by T:
Anon, I was talking to Ami.
Yes, sorry, I realized that right after I posted my response, when I saw the word "malicious" was used in Ami's post.
I don't know if you two have past issues; I'm even newer than Ami here.
But, please, calling her sarcastic names is no way to behave in a public board. I understand you two might have history but if you wish more people to hear you out and feel you're right, you need to stay away from open personal attacks. Just my two cents.
Anongrl10
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T
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posted December 28, 2011 06:09 PM
Thanks SunChild, but it's not a big of a deal as you are making it, anymore. I've been here lately to connect with friends through threads. I don't have reason to email them atm. I also stay out of people's way and would appreciate the same. Thanks Take care. IP: Logged |
T
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posted December 28, 2011 06:11 PM
No worries, Anon. I just didnt like what she was insinuating. People have been banned for many things, a biggie is making rascist comments for example.I'll zip it on commenting on the rest. Should go now... IP: Logged |
T
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posted December 28, 2011 06:16 PM
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Mostly negative when posts and it's usually about issues/people/grudges.... utterly ridiculous.
Also, that is not true. Did you not see my Magnesium thread in H&H for example? And wondering how Ghani was doing after her operation? I've been mostly doing my own thing here and being overall polite, and even Webmaster commented on it.  I am sure we all have better things to do and I can't deal with negative energy or drama much tonight. Thank you for your thoughts. Have a nice night. IP: Logged |
SunChild
Moderator Posts: 2561
From: Australia
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted December 28, 2011 06:27 PM
I said most, not all.That was a good thread. quote:
Thanks SunChild, but it's not a big of a deal as you are making it, anymore
Glad to hear. IP: Logged |
T
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posted December 28, 2011 06:30 PM
Then you have obviously missed 98% of the threads i've posted in as of late. Sorry to have upset you so. IP: Logged |
SunChild
Moderator Posts: 2561
From: Australia
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted December 28, 2011 06:37 PM
No, not upset. Your original post to Ami was a bit mean & sarcastic: quote:
I know of plenty of people who have been banned for reasons other than being "malicious". Youve not been here very long. But keep gossiping outside of here and tarnishing the good name of others. Maybe someday we will all be just as perfect as you and learn how to follow each and every Golden Rule, Miss Lily White. Perhaps a prayer for us outcasts and derelicts would help.
It may relieve you to know I won't be posting in the New Year either and you can feel "safe" here again. I know how important that is as you bring it up a lot.
...and yes I felt the need to say to take no notice of you for the reasons I gave, it didn't offend me but I it could have possibly offended someone else.
I'm a sensitive person and I know others are too, and if something like that was directed at me I would feel put off. ETA- you obviously wanted to offend her, right? IP: Logged |
T
Knowflake Posts: 3709
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posted December 28, 2011 06:42 PM
I can be very sarcastic sometimes, some take it as being mean. That is not always the case. It also does not mean that I am not sensitive like yourself. I am. Very much so. The sarcasm comes partly from how I was raised, the area I grew up and also having a heavy Saturn influence in my chart. I also take sarcasm differently than others and don't find it so offensive usually.To each their own. Some people will be put off by me, just as i am put off by them for other reasons.
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T
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posted December 28, 2011 06:45 PM
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ETA- you obviously wanted to offend her, right?
To respond to this would open up a can of worms and keep me here with back and forth responding. So, i'm sorry that I cannot. Is what I said that horrifically offensive SunChild? I think not. IP: Logged |
SunChild
Moderator Posts: 2561
From: Australia
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted December 28, 2011 06:48 PM
Well, for the rest of us:sar·casm [sahr-kaz-uhm] Show IPA
noun
1.
harsh or bitter derision or irony.
2.
a sharply ironical taunt; sneering or cutting remark: a review full of sarcasms.
...and you accuse me of 'goading' and the like.
When I read your sarcastic comments, I see the above definition. Sarcasm is the lowest form of wit since its aim is to belittle or hurt someone, and to laugh at their expense. IP: Logged |
T
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posted December 28, 2011 06:49 PM
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it didn't offend me but I it could have possibly offended someone else.
Could what she said here, and perhaps elsewhere before have offended others? If we were to constantly worry about offending another, some of us might never speak. I often feel offensive comments are perfect opportunities to rise above, or learn something about myself from. And let them go rather quickly. But maybe not after saying something sarcastic. lol You can rest assured that I have a huge amount of self restraint and hold alot back here and will continue to...for the next few days. lol IP: Logged |
T
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posted December 28, 2011 06:52 PM
I know, I know, people say it's the lowest form of wit. Heard it here before. I disagree, but we don't have to agree on everything, do we?
Anyway, where do we go from here? I'm sure you have better things to do than try to paint me an evil dumb bad guy, no?
I'm ready to move on. Youve said your piece and I'm fine with it all. IP: Logged |
Emeraldopal
Knowflake Posts: 1023
From: U
Registered: Apr 2011
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posted December 28, 2011 06:53 PM
SunChild,What about the way you treated me
recently? ------------------
All my love, with all my Heart
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SunChild
Moderator Posts: 2561
From: Australia
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted December 28, 2011 06:54 PM
Very well then. IP: Logged |
Emeraldopal
Knowflake Posts: 1023
From: U
Registered: Apr 2011
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posted December 28, 2011 06:55 PM
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum25/HTML/002973-2.html ------------------
All my love, with all my Heart
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Randall
Webmaster Posts: 14269
From: Saturn next to Charmainec
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted December 28, 2011 06:56 PM
T isn't going anywhere. She's left umpteen times and returned umpteen plus one. She can't stay away. And Emerald, the fact that you're here at all is a testament to my fairness.------------------
"Never mentally imagine for another that which you would not want to experience for yourself, since the mental image you send out inevitably comes back to you." Rebecca Clark IP: Logged |
T
Knowflake Posts: 3709
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posted December 28, 2011 06:57 PM
I feel bad that i've been responding to this and not you, yet, Emerald. I'm sorry people threatened your life here. The internet is full of characters. Enjoy your time here. I know you have many fans and people that appreciate you for being you.  IP: Logged |
SunChild
Moderator Posts: 2561
From: Australia
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted December 28, 2011 06:58 PM
I stick by what I said there, Lotus.If we need to get into the whole subject of 'intention'.... well, then. There's a huge difference here. IP: Logged |
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