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Topic: Katatonic
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Randall
Webmaster Posts: 8194
From: The Goober Galaxy
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 09, 2011 03:45 PM
  
I owe you an apology. I handled this the wrong way. I should have taken this to you in private. You deserved your say in the matter. How utterly unfair of me to presume anything without asking your side. I am very protective of Charmaine, as any of us are over those whom we love...but that is no excuse. I ask for your forgiveness. And the truly guilty culprits shall pay. I promise you that.IP: Logged |
Randall
Webmaster Posts: 8194
From: The Goober Galaxy
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 09, 2011 04:00 PM
Thank you, Juni, for peacefully guarding the gate and for wielding that flaming sword when you have to.  IP: Logged |
juniperb
Moderator Posts: 1863
From: Blue Star Kachina
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 09, 2011 04:23 PM
No worries  Mischief isn`t kats style and I`m relieved you got to the source. ------------------
~The Earth Laughs In Flowers~
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AbsintheDragonfly
Knowflake Posts: 2304
From: Gaia
Registered: Apr 2010
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posted May 09, 2011 05:30 PM
Randall,
 (not that you need my approval) ------------------
We justify ourselves each time we take a breath... Me IP: Logged |
katatonic
Knowflake Posts: 6347
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Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 09, 2011 06:51 PM
wwell it looks like this was all over before i even heard about it!
a)i am not in any secret groups
b) i do not wind people up for the fun or vengeance of it
c) i have no axes to grind anyway
d) yes, randall, it would have been nice if you had checked with me first
e) i have NO idea what this is even about!IP: Logged |
Randall
Webmaster Posts: 8194
From: The Goober Galaxy
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 09, 2011 06:53 PM
Yeah, when information comes from different places (especially going first from eyewitness and then to secondary sources), misinformation can be intentionally inserted in the chain. The real mystery is why someone would do that using her name. Even though I never accused her of being up to mischief (only that I heard she was asked to), I should always come to that person in private first. I, of all people, should realize by now that things are not always as they appear to be. Live and learn. I get very defensive about attacks on this site and on people I care about, and I'm certain everyone can identify with that. Still, it is no excuse to lose my cool and jump the gun. For that, I am sorry. It was not the right way to do things. IP: Logged |
charmainec
Moderator Posts: 2366
From: on the other side of the rainbow
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 09, 2011 06:55 PM
Agreed. ------------------
quote:
No one is born hating another person because of the colour of his skin, or his background, or his religion. People must learn to hate, and if they can learn to hate, they can be taught to love, for love comes more naturally to the human heart than its opposite.Nelson Mandela
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Randall
Webmaster Posts: 8194
From: The Goober Galaxy
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 09, 2011 07:00 PM
Oops, I didn't see your post before I made mine, Kat. The only reason I can figure this was done is because they thought I would react rashly with banning you. Now, granted, I did jump the gun, and that was wrong, but I didn't do as they thought I would (how could I when you did nothing wrong), so they ultimately failed. Once again, I'm sorry. IP: Logged |
Randall
Webmaster Posts: 8194
From: The Goober Galaxy
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 09, 2011 07:01 PM
Charmaine: IP: Logged |
katatonic
Knowflake Posts: 6347
From:
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 09, 2011 07:23 PM
well no one has asked me to do anything of the sort and if they did i would tell them where to get off.i don't know where anyone gets the idea that i am a sheep or even goat but i don't follow herds and i don't do other people's dirty work for them. i am a one woman band. and i am tired of people talking about the "haters" who supposedly left because they were mean. i DO talk to people i met here elsewhere but the idea that there is some nasty coven or clique is just too ridiculous for words. most people here, including you, randall, and charmaine, talk to folks from here elsewhere too. just because it sometimes happens that a number of people agree on something or someone doesn't make them a group of harpies, it just makes them people who are agreeing on something, whether you like what they say or not.. and i would like randall to email me and tell me where this started...why am i the last to hear of it? IP: Logged |
charmainec
Moderator Posts: 2366
From: on the other side of the rainbow
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 09, 2011 07:28 PM
I too think Kat's name was delibrately used to stir up trouble.
Whatever the motive was failed.Kat has not bothered me at all in any way.Randall,it takes alot of character to admit a mistake.Thank you  IP: Logged |
charmainec
Moderator Posts: 2366
From: on the other side of the rainbow
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 09, 2011 07:35 PM
Kat,I speak to very few people elsewhere.In fact it has come down to four people,one of which is a relative and another a mentor.I've basically isolated myself from people on other networking sites.Also,I don't really have much time for such.Edit:by four people I mean four people I speak to on a regular basis. IP: Logged |
charmainec
Moderator Posts: 2366
From: on the other side of the rainbow
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 09, 2011 07:39 PM
There is a difference between people agreeing to something and a group of people who are out to hurt for whatever reasons they conceed in their minds.IP: Logged |
juniperb
Moderator Posts: 1863
From: Blue Star Kachina
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 09, 2011 07:39 PM
kat, you`re a famous one woman band  quote:
I too think Kat's name was delibrately used to stir up trouble.
Whatever the motive was failed.Kat has not bothered me at all in any way.
That was my hunch. I`m sure kat will sort it out and the gossip will go the way a mudslide does, downhill til it hits bottom.  ------------------
~The Earth Laughs In Flowers~
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katatonic
Knowflake Posts: 6347
From:
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 09, 2011 08:04 PM
well thanks for the support juni. @charm, i can only repeat that if i have a beef with someone or want to set the record straight, i do it in my own name. i am so NOT the person who can be used in the way suggested here! i learned in my teens, a very long time ago now, that groups often get ugly. usually even then i was on the receiving end, since i am a true 7th houser, one on one is basically my thing... that "secret group" that you and i were both part of was not designed to wreak vengeance but to vent. it is pretty defunct since it was misconstrued and people's feelings were hurt, by the way. but LL is a group. there are bound to be some friendships brewed here, nothing wrong with that. IP: Logged |
Randall
Webmaster Posts: 8194
From: The Goober Galaxy
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 09, 2011 08:14 PM
It is far from defunct. People are still invited to join...and a few of its members have gone to extraordinary measures to attack myself, Charmaine, and this site. That much is irrefutable. But I am glad you are not one of them. Closing this now. IP: Logged |
charmainec
Moderator Posts: 2366
From: on the other side of the rainbow
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 09, 2011 08:14 PM
Apparently there are people from that secret group that strike at me whenever there's some crisis in my life even while I was ill.IP: Logged |
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