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Topic: What are thoughts you've held onto that affect your daily living in some way?
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lindisfarne
Knowflake Posts: 1108
From: she doesn't know that i left my urge in the icebox
Registered: Oct 2011
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posted November 30, 2011 12:09 AM
  
I dont know if I worded the subject correctly, it makes sense in my head.. But what are things for you guys, thoughts that have fixed onto you that drive your daily living and may affect you or your perception on things? For example, I hate being out late at night, i don't have good eyesight so thats even worse.. (forget to wear my contacts) but I always think someone will come out and attack me, especially being my body type, I would make the perfect prey, very petite and small anyone could grab me and have their way with me (but i am a dirty fighter i have my tricks..) something like this has happened mainly cars following me or guys in cars shouting at me to get in, so its like anywhere I go especially out at night i'm overly away and suspicious of anything or anyone, also why I do not work night shifts. It sound very unhealthy but I dont think i can take my chances, im a lone traveler and have had way too many sketchy people trying to approach me, i carry very interesting sources of weapons in my purse gotta be safe you know.. what about you guys? has anything you experienced in your life (reoccurring) that has made you believe a certain fixed idea that affects your living in some way? IP: Logged |
heartstrings
Knowflake Posts: 339
From: the pineapple under the sea
Registered: Aug 2011
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posted November 30, 2011 12:15 AM
i have the kind of mindset where i think.."doing the right thing is a Good thing even if you're not happy about it as long as you're right, you're not hurting anyone, everyone's happy, then it's all good." But i think that's a bit selfless of me..i just really hate being critisized so yeah, i'd rather do what is good for everybody at least i can still be happy because i know i made someone happy!  IP: Logged |
lindisfarne
Knowflake Posts: 1108
From: she doesn't know that i left my urge in the icebox
Registered: Oct 2011
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posted November 30, 2011 12:20 AM
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Originally posted by heartstrings:
i have the kind of mindset where i think.."doing the right thing is a Good thing even if you're not happy about it as long as you're right, you're not hurting anyone, everyone's happy, then it's all good." But i think that's a bit selfless of me..i just really hate being critisized so yeah, i'd rather do what is good for everybody at least i can still be happy because i know i made someone happy!
any examples of this maybe?
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heartstrings
Knowflake Posts: 339
From: the pineapple under the sea
Registered: Aug 2011
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posted November 30, 2011 12:40 AM
i don't knoww, i usually try not to speak out my ideas and tend to follow what others think..say for example when i'm doing a project with my other schoolmates, and i have this really creative idea in my mind but it requires a lot more effort, it's more complicated but definitely not impossible to do, but i'll just shut myself and follow what others have ti say cos i once had an experience when i was still young and was very opinionated back then but people always see the flaws (i'm very sensitive too)and never felt appreciated so i guess that made me think that to 'shut up and follow' is the right thing to do, even up to now..and oh, have i mention that also have my sun in virgo which i think is the reason why i have this perfectionist character..i dunno, i'm still new in astrology so yeah  IP: Logged |
lindisfarne
Knowflake Posts: 1108
From: she doesn't know that i left my urge in the icebox
Registered: Oct 2011
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posted November 30, 2011 12:46 AM
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Originally posted by heartstrings:
i don't knoww, i usually try not to speak out my ideas and tend to follow what others think..say for example when i'm doing a project with my other schoolmates, and i have this really creative idea in my mind but it requires a lot more effort, it's more complicated but definitely not impossible to do, but i'll just shut myself and follow what others have ti say cos i once had an experience when i was still young and was very opinionated back then but people always see the flaws (i'm very sensitive too)and never felt appreciated so i guess that made me think that to 'shut up and follow' is the right thing to do, even up to now..and oh, have i mention that also have my sun in virgo which i think is the reason why i have this perfectionist character..i dunno, i'm still new in astrology so yeah
You are so cute, do you have Pisces in your chart? Going by your username and hometown description and just what you told me right now
I understand how you feel, lots of stuff from early experiences really have an effect on our present lives, behaviors, thoughts, and patterns of our overall daily living. The good thing though is that you are aware of why you do what you do. Most people don't..
Do you think your ideas are not important enough to express to others? Do you express them to yourself alone, maybe through forms of art or creative writing or writing in general? IP: Logged |
heartstrings
Knowflake Posts: 339
From: the pineapple under the sea
Registered: Aug 2011
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posted November 30, 2011 01:07 AM
hehehe, thank youu uhm, i only have pisces in Saturn (H5). I try to speak out only when necessary, I don't wanna create some issues or anything that'll make me look so evil i hate being misunderstood. But when around my friends, i'm totally a different person, more talkative and stuff but i guess i'm just really afraid of being critisized to the point of not even wanting to do anything unless someone told me to do so (my parents were also verry strict when i was little so i'm like their 'follower', i always follow what they want lol)IP: Logged |
lindisfarne
Knowflake Posts: 1108
From: she doesn't know that i left my urge in the icebox
Registered: Oct 2011
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posted November 30, 2011 01:16 AM
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Originally posted by heartstrings:
hehehe, thank youu uhm, i only have pisces in Saturn (H5). I try to speak out only when necessary, I don't wanna create some issues or anything that'll make me look so evil i hate being misunderstood. But when around my friends, i'm totally a different person, more talkative and stuff but i guess i'm just really afraid of being critisized to the point of not even wanting to do anything unless someone told me to do so (my parents were also verry strict when i was little so i'm like their 'follower', i always follow what they want lol)
makes sense, saturn in the house of creativity and self-expression!!!! and in mutable sensitive pisces too do you like when people tell you what to do? do you sometimes want to say "no. i dont want to do it your way. what about me and my needs?' IP: Logged |
heartstrings
Knowflake Posts: 339
From: the pineapple under the sea
Registered: Aug 2011
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posted November 30, 2011 01:33 AM
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Originally posted by lindisfarne:
makes sense, saturn in the house of creativity and self-expression!!!! and in mutable sensitive pisces too do you like when people tell you what to do? do you sometimes want to say "no. i dont want to do it your way. what about me and my needs?'
do i like people telling me what to do? only if the tone wasn't like insisting or like "hurry up and do it" kind of tone haha, cos i'm more likely not doing it! And, saying "no" especially to my parents is a BIG no no to them! apparently, I still have to follow their every single rules because i'm still under age, i'm only seventeen years old -_- (i don't even try to 'suggest' something cause they'll ony think i'm 'insisting' it to happen -.- so i always remained silent around them) haha, that's my asian parents right there lol, but i grew up in a western society so mixing the two cultures together is kinda hard thing for me to do, i have to be socialized but at the same time, restrained..hard to explain IP: Logged |
RegardesPlatero
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From: Storybrooke, Mr. Gold's Shop
Registered: Sep 2011
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posted November 30, 2011 05:00 AM
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Randall
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From: Saturn next to Charmainec
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posted November 30, 2011 09:01 AM
I appreciate all of the energy you contribute here, lindisfarne, but please keep the Topics in Astrology 2.0 about Astrology. Posting a Topic that isn't about Astrology and then asking what is your Moon and such still doesn't make it an Astrology Topic. We have Lindaland Central 2.0 and other Forums for those Topics. People are complaining about the serious Astrology Topics getting buried. I'm leaving the ones you currently have here, but please be mindful of the other Forums. This one has no Astrology in it, so I'm moving it. Once again, thanks for all you do here. It's very much appreciated. ------------------
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posted November 30, 2011 10:09 AM
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