posted June 03, 2012 10:23 PM            

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Originally posted by ariesdragon:
Or Bella & Edward when they finally did it ^^

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posted June 03, 2012 10:25 PM            

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Originally posted by RegardesPlatero:
that made me think of this...

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Lol classic

posted June 03, 2012 10:42 PM            

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i dont see how it works on anybody.

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It does work on some, because they are coc-ky - possessive and have lower self-esteem than you do.

And the people making them jealous ALSO have self-esteem issues.

A psychologist would have a field day.

posted June 03, 2012 10:50 PM            

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Originally posted by Odette:
It does work on some, because they are coc-ky - possessive and have lower self-esteem than you do.

And the people making them jealous ALSO have self-esteem issues.

A psychologist would have a field day.

As I said that was in HS. I learned my lesson a decade ago when I was in my teens.. and I don't need to learn the same lesson twice.
It is a stupid thing to do - indeed.. but I feel like it is excusable in young people who are still figuring out who they are and who do not yet know how to deal with the opposite sex.
But once we outgrow that phase.. I think we all need to be a bit more mature.

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posted June 03, 2012 10:51 PM            

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know he thinks he's god gift to women...this is not something my ego conceives

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If he thinks this and he treated you badly - then he does NOT deserve your attention. Live your life and stop giving him so much attention.

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Me engaging in him in anything that night would've been like rewarding his bad behaviour.

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Why would I need to acknowledge his presence?

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BUT in virtue of doing what you did... not only did you acknowledge his presence but you spent your WHOLE night thinking about him and behaving in particular ways TO make him feel bad. Whereas he simply left.
He did NOT give you this kind of attention. He did not turn around and try to make YOU jealous. He just walked out.

You really - don't see how this is actually giving him 100% of your attention?

posted June 03, 2012 11:35 PM            

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Originally posted by cappy1277:
Thanks moonfish!! I agree! That's why I've never bothered to try reconciling....usually our arguments result in us not speaking for a couple days but this really took the cake. I threw the cheesecake at him during the argument....

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posted June 03, 2012 11:37 PM            

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Originally posted by T:
*laughing at all the funnies in this thread*

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posted June 03, 2012 11:40 PM            

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Originally posted by sexyaqua30:

Lol ikr I thought he was going to hit her. All I saw was pale skin and a broken head board.

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posted June 03, 2012 11:59 PM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
Yea its sad that people in their 30s and 40s still act that way.

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ok...so I don't know how many times I have to reiterate this but this was not an act of trying to seek someone's attention by acting like not they are not paying attention to them. This simply was not an act. This is the reality of the situation of when one person moves on with their life. Yeah I still love & miss him but for someone with a SELF ESTEEM I know enough is enough and know when to close the door. There is no room for reconciliation and I know by the way he was acting, he was looking for a way in. I was not willing to provide a way in for him hence why I acted the way that I did. I don't reward bad behavior...he needs to learn that he his actions have consequences and you cannot go about treating people in that manner and expect to maintain some kind of friendship. It doesn't work out that way. I wasn't seeking his attention. He was just another person in the room just like everybody else that was there that I didn't know. If he chose to say hi first then I would have acknowledged his presence but he didn't. He chose to stay around me waiting for me to acknowledge him (Isn't that just a lil bit cocky??? Especially when I did no wrong and he told to never speak to him again?)When I am done with someone regardless of the situation, I cut off all ties. You no longer exist to me.

posted June 04, 2012 12:01 AM            

STARVING!

posted June 04, 2012 12:13 AM            

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Originally posted by cappy1277:
ok...so I don't know how many times I have to reiterate this but this was not an act of trying to seek someone's attention by acting like not they are not paying attention to them. This simply was not an act. This is the reality of the situation of when one person moves on with their life. Yeah I still love & miss him but for someone with a SELF ESTEEM I know enough is enough and know when to close the door. There is no room for reconciliation and I know by the way he was acting, he was looking for a way in. I was not willing to provide a way in for him hence why I acted the way that I did. I don't reward bad behavior...he needs to learn that he his actions have consequences and you cannot go about treating people in that manner and expect to maintain some kind of friendship. It doesn't work out that way. I wasn't seeking his attention. He was just another person in the room just like everybody else that was there that I didn't know. If he chose to say hi first then I would have acknowledged his presence but he didn't. He chose to stay around me waiting for me to acknowledge him (Isn't that just a lil bit cocky??? Especially when I did no wrong and he told to never speak to him again?)When I am done with someone regardless of the situation, I cut off all ties. You no longer exist to me.

So please if you choose to be catty about the situation as was stated in the above quote, please keep it to yourself and try to read my statements a little more closely.

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posted June 04, 2012 12:17 AM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by cappy1277:
[b] ok...so I don't know how many times I have to reiterate this but this was not an act of trying to seek someone's attention by acting like not they are not paying attention to them. This simply was not an act. This is the reality of the situation of when one person moves on with their life. Yeah I still love & miss him but for someone with a SELF ESTEEM I know enough is enough and know when to close the door. There is no room for reconciliation and I know by the way he was acting, he was looking for a way in. I was not willing to provide a way in for him hence why I acted the way that I did. I don't reward bad behavior...he needs to learn that he his actions have consequences and you cannot go about treating people in that manner and expect to maintain some kind of friendship. It doesn't work out that way. I wasn't seeking his attention. He was just another person in the room just like everybody else that was there that I didn't know. If he chose to say hi first then I would have acknowledged his presence but he didn't. He chose to stay around me waiting for me to acknowledge him (Isn't that just a lil bit cocky??? Especially when I did no wrong and he told to never speak to him again?)When I am done with someone regardless of the situation, I cut off all ties. You no longer exist to me.

So please if you choose to be catty about the situation as was stated in the above quote, please keep it to yourself and try to read my statements a little more closely.

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posted June 04, 2012 12:24 AM            

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Originally posted by sexyaqua30:
Lol cappy didn't we discuss this yesterday? Scorpio rising and taurus rising together is hell on wheels. I think the taurus rising in you love the fight and the cap in you wants what you shouldn't have. Let him be the first one to break the ice if you do choose to get back with him but just understand that this will one of many angry uncontrollable outburst to come. Remember s. Rising brings out the worst in us t. Risers.

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you are so right...that's why I am not sticking around for the next one lol

posted June 04, 2012 12:27 AM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
Gurl you need to find a new man who will buy ya some nice Jewry cuz that boi sure as hell ain't gunna do nuttin.

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posted June 04, 2012 06:36 AM            

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Originally posted by T:
AD, no, i'm not atm. I'm about to eat. lol

STARVING!

& i have no idea about Bella and Edward, because I don't watch those shows (movie?)....so i don't get those jokes.

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I envy you.

posted June 04, 2012 10:54 AM            

Cappy, as a cappy myself I just read your original post and went, "Uh huh, uh huh, uh huh..." Like, I don't know if it's "appropriate" or not, but I would have done the same thing.

Cap love/interest tends to last and last, beyond reason. We are ruled by "old father time." Not sure if other people get that....what it feels like.

So of course you and your ex-Cappy are going to have this weird afterlife of emotionally-charged non-interaction. It's like a psychic reverb that goes on and on, IMHO.

Sure it's possible to ignore it, although I've never succeeded in really "tuning out" something that's pushing deep emotional buttons. Exes staring at me across the room do wield a bit of power of me in that I cannot NOT register the fact. They WILL occupy some of the "bandwidth" of my attention span.

If that makes me weak or a loser or wrong, oh well. It is what it is.

posted June 06, 2012 09:46 PM            

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Originally posted by Randall:
Twilight won Best Kiss and Best Movie again this year (five years in a row) at the MTV Movie Awards...beating out Hunger Games this year.

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