posted March 31, 2013 01:31 PM
Hi, There is a guy in my class that I´ve really liked for a year now. As soon as we met I tried to be friends with him, beceause my gut instinct told me that I´d like his personality and that we are similar. But he seemed really reserved and we ended up not being friends. Instead we started to avoid eachother, but there was an almost electric attraction between us. However, we are both very wild kind of people. He is a bad boy/player type and I´m the quet loner girl. We are intimidated, yet curious about eachother I think.
During the year we´ve known eachother he has been looking at me alot, but he only approached me twice, to ask something about school, and I responded nervously, and that was the end of that.
But recently he has sat down next to me, still not talking. I could smell that he had been drinking alcohol the last time he sat down next to me. I moved away, but later felt bad, because I think maybe he was hurt. He never sits next to other girls, but he sat down next to me twice. Does that mean that he likes me?
Also, I heard that he is seeing a girl, but he is still watching me all the time.
I feel like we have a soul connection, but at the same time I´m afraid of letting him get close because of the girl he is seeing, his bad-boy attitude and the fact that he´s not trying to talk to me. I´m also afraid that he likes me only because I´m a challenge.
Do you think that a bad boy can truly love someone beside himself? He seems sensitive on the inside, but way too out of contact with his emotions.
Should I continue to avoid him, or should I give him a chance. He seems very cold, but still shows signs of liking me, and only me, alot.