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Topic: My mom doesn't want me to live with my boyfriend anymore?
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KarkaQueen Knowflake Posts: 2505 From: Uranus Registered: May 2011
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posted July 31, 2013 03:58 PM
When I was in his house for three weeks his dad would sometimes stare at me in a certain way and my mom would notice it. I mean its not like hes going to do something right? Men stare!This is kind of an immature rant but it bothers me. I really think shes overreacting. She also doesn't want me to live with him later on when I grow up ( around 17-18) because she hates his parents and finds them to be very phony IP: Logged |
Ceridwen Knowflake Posts: 7475 From: Registered: Jul 2011
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posted July 31, 2013 05:31 PM
Couldn`t it be, that she simply wants to protect you?(and sometimes men do not keep just staring, unfortunately) IP: Logged |
KarkaQueen Knowflake Posts: 2505 From: Uranus Registered: May 2011
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posted July 31, 2013 05:39 PM
quote: Originally posted by Ceridwen: Couldn`t it be, that she simply wants to protect you?(and sometimes men do not keep just staring, unfortunately)
Well the guy has sun conjunct mars in scorpio, a very passionate strong sex drive and he cant help it. well i think she overreacts sometimes. a lot of older guys stare at me all the time and dont do anything IP: Logged |
Ceridwen Knowflake Posts: 7475 From: Registered: Jul 2011
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posted July 31, 2013 05:51 PM
quote: Originally posted by KarkaQueen: and he cant help it.
He better! (no astrological signator justifies this kind of inappropriate behaviour or worse) GRanted I do not know the whole situation from what you wrote. But still from what you wrote there, I would act just the same, if I had a daughter and suspected someone to not respect certain lines, that should not be crossed. BTW do you really think it is appropriate or alright if (older) guys STARE at you? (I suppose you mean in a sexual way). IP: Logged |
KarkaQueen Knowflake Posts: 2505 From: Uranus Registered: May 2011
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posted July 31, 2013 06:14 PM
quote: Originally posted by Ceridwen:
BTW do you really think it is appropriate or alright if (older) guys STARE at you? (I suppose you mean in a sexual way).
Not really, I find it creepy, but I have a womanly body and I sometimes dress kind of .. sexy? And plus hes a man and men are sexual and visual. *sigh* its just the way the world is unfortunately IP: Logged |
MsPrism Knowflake Posts: 499 From: Registered: Jun 2013
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posted July 31, 2013 10:53 PM
It is the way the world is but every man in the world isn't living in your house with you. This man is and your mother is concerned. That is the issue, plain and simple.IP: Logged |
mockingbird Knowflake Posts: 1892 From: Registered: Dec 2011
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posted August 01, 2013 10:25 AM
Yeah. Maybe it's because I have three daughters, but I side with your Mom on this one.At the very least, my husband would have a talk with this man - if he saw his daughter's boyfiend's dad consistently looking at our daughter in that manner, most likely (unfortunately) the kind of talk involving fists and/or lawyers. ------------------ If I've included this sig, it's because I'm posting from a mobile device. Please excuse all outrageous typos and confusing auto-corrects. IP: Logged |