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KarkaQueen
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posted July 31, 2013 03:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for KarkaQueen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
When I was in his house for three weeks his dad would sometimes stare at me in a certain way and my mom would notice it. I mean its not like hes going to do something right? Men stare!

This is kind of an immature rant but it bothers me. I really think shes overreacting. She also doesn't want me to live with him later on when I grow up ( around 17-18) because she hates his parents and finds them to be very phony

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Ceridwen
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posted July 31, 2013 05:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ceridwen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Couldn`t it be, that she simply wants to protect you?

(and sometimes men do not keep just staring, unfortunately)

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KarkaQueen
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posted July 31, 2013 05:39 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for KarkaQueen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Ceridwen:
Couldn`t it be, that she simply wants to protect you?

(and sometimes men do not keep just staring, unfortunately)


Well the guy has sun conjunct mars in scorpio, a very passionate strong sex drive and he cant help it.

well i think she overreacts sometimes. a lot of older guys stare at me all the time and dont do anything

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posted July 31, 2013 05:51 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ceridwen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by KarkaQueen:
and he cant help it.


He better!
(no astrological signator justifies this kind of inappropriate behaviour or worse)

GRanted I do not know the whole situation from what you wrote.
But still from what you wrote there, I would act just the same, if I had a daughter and suspected someone to not respect certain lines, that should not be crossed.

BTW do you really think it is appropriate or alright if (older) guys STARE at you? (I suppose you mean in a sexual way).

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KarkaQueen
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posted July 31, 2013 06:14 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for KarkaQueen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Ceridwen:

BTW do you really think it is appropriate or alright if (older) guys STARE at you? (I suppose you mean in a sexual way).


Not really, I find it creepy, but I have a womanly body and I sometimes dress kind of .. sexy? And plus hes a man and men are sexual and visual. *sigh* its just the way the world is unfortunately

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MsPrism
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posted July 31, 2013 10:53 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MsPrism     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
It is the way the world is but every man in the world isn't living in your house with you. This man is and your mother is concerned. That is the issue, plain and simple.

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posted August 01, 2013 10:25 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for mockingbird     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yeah.
Maybe it's because I have three daughters, but I side with your Mom on this one.

At the very least, my husband would have a talk with this man - if he saw his daughter's boyfiend's dad consistently looking at our daughter in that manner, most likely (unfortunately) the kind of talk involving fists and/or lawyers.

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