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Topic: How to build your confidence?
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m.blade
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From: idek
Registered: Mar 2013
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posted January 28, 2014 07:52 PM
  
recently, I think I'm being visited by an old friend of mine that has had trouble letting go of old habits.This one is my confidence. I have such a terrible level of confidence. I am so terribly afraid of confrontation that I indirectly go against it. I keep it all inside and I feel like I am **** and i start to hate myself. I want to start finding ways to build my confidence. What ways can I go about this? Thanks to whoever can answer  IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted January 28, 2014 08:13 PM
Get as many people to dislike you as you can until you don't care  ------------------
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Ellynlvx
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From: Mountain Gate
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted January 28, 2014 10:49 PM
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=H7yMVtVXdCA
 It comes naturally with the finding of one's Spiritual Path. Once that Spirit is within and guiding you, you just naturally take the Right Path. You don't even have to think about it, it comes quite without volition. I think it's mostly when you can't get past thinking about oneself that the problem lies. When I think about it and get lost in that briar path maze, I'm screwed. IP: Logged |
Ellynlvx
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From: Mountain Gate
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted January 28, 2014 11:16 PM
I don't care what your Planets look like, if you take the Right Path, all these things come together to form True Happiness in the end.
Who's to say it's not just a bizarre test to hone your personality in the right direction.IP: Logged |
PixieJane
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From: CA
Registered: Oct 2010
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posted January 29, 2014 12:19 AM
Think of something you want to do and set small goals to get there...not one big goal, just a small, easy one. Do it, and work your way along the steps, and if it involves getting good at something then accept it takes time to do that and focus more on improvement than perfection. This has worked for a lot of people, though obviously it's not instant. IP: Logged |
Randall
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From: Saturn next to Charmainec
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 01, 2014 05:28 PM
Practice creates confidence.IP: Logged |
Ellynlvx
Moderator Posts: 5190
From: Mountain Gate
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted February 01, 2014 05:50 PM
I was thinking this after careful thought.When you are good at something, and you know your stuff, it just comes natural. IP: Logged |
libraschoice77
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From: past, present, and future
Registered: Aug 2010
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posted February 02, 2014 02:32 PM
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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Get as many people to dislike you as you can until you don't care
Lol I have mastered that one long time ago, and it works. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted February 02, 2014 10:38 PM
quote:
Originally posted by Randall:
Practice creates confidence.
Practice of what, Randall? Practice of being confident? ------------------
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Randall
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posted February 02, 2014 11:15 PM
Practice in whatever one needs confidence in. When you are good at something, confidence is the natural result of that assuredness.IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
Moderator Posts: 52617
From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted February 03, 2014 02:30 PM
quote:
Originally posted by Randall:
Practice in whatever one needs confidence in. When you are good at something, confidence is the natural result of that assuredness.
I see. I was just thinking that my next practice is gonna be to set better boundaries 
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Cancer/Scorpio729
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From: 6,000 feet above sea level
Registered: Feb 2010
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posted February 03, 2014 08:51 PM
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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Get as many people to dislike you as you can until you don't care
No better way IP: Logged |
mirage29
Knowflake Posts: 2402
From: us
Registered: May 2012
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posted February 04, 2014 04:01 PM
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Originally posted by m.blade:
recently, I think I'm being visited by an old friend of mine that has had trouble letting go of old habits.This one is my confidence. I have such a terrible level of confidence. I am so terribly afraid of confrontation that I indirectly go against it. I keep it all inside and I feel like I am **** and i start to hate myself. I want to start finding ways to build my confidence. What ways can I go about this? Thanks to whoever can answer
 (clip) Good Will Hunting (1997) (Official Trailer) [2:23] http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Rqix3zCFu7c m.blade  In a 'dog eat dog' society, you're barking up MY own tree! Move over!... We can share a tree limb for a while to rest, and get our wits back!... I'm "Out There" with you, still trying to figure this one out...  I HIGHLY RECOMMEND the story of Gabby Douglas to you. She had to 'start from scratch' with her World Class Coach. He chose her for her spunk and potential... But then he had to use what she had already in her, and he TRAINED that potential properly, so she could have that chance, that possibility. She came to a CRISIS.... only barely a few weeks away from 'the chance to prove' that the dream was Real. It was her Self-Doubting that sabotaged her ~~ Please watch her Movie. Weeks ago, I was also very inspired about this 'issue' of building Confidence when I chanced on finding the Movie, "Snow White Huntsman" ~~ (clip) Snow White and the Huntsman (Trailer, full) [2:32] http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DgfYBJoPFFw So, ahem, Who's Afraid of the Big Bad Wolf? (I'm cheerleading for you!) *big hug*
(music) SONG: Road to Victory (using Gabby Douglas Movie trailer) [3:07] http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=o-3uLluQnko
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Randall
Webmaster Posts: 37496
From: Saturn next to Charmainec
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 07, 2014 11:02 PM
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Randall
Webmaster Posts: 37496
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posted February 09, 2014 05:23 PM
The big bad wolf is a softie.IP: Logged |
m.blade
Knowflake Posts: 702
From: idek
Registered: Mar 2013
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posted February 16, 2014 09:14 AM
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Originally posted by mirage29:
(clip) Good Will Hunting (1997) (Official Trailer) [2:23] http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Rqix3zCFu7c m.blade In a 'dog eat dog' society, you're barking up MY own tree! Move over!... We can share a tree limb for a while to rest, and get our wits back!... I'm "Out There" with you, still trying to figure this one out... I HIGHLY RECOMMEND the story of Gabby Douglas to you. She had to 'start from scratch' with her World Class Coach. He chose her for her spunk and potential... But then he had to use what she had already in her, and he TRAINED that potential properly, so she could have that chance, that possibility. She came to a CRISIS.... only barely a few weeks away from 'the chance to prove' that the dream was Real. It was her [b]Self-Doubting that sabotaged her ~~ Please watch her Movie. Weeks ago, I was also very inspired about this 'issue' of building Confidence when I chanced on finding the Movie, "Snow White Huntsman" ~~ (clip) Snow White and the Huntsman (Trailer, full) [2:32] http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DgfYBJoPFFw So, ahem, Who's Afraid of the Big Bad Wolf? (I'm cheerleading for you!) *big hug*
(music) SONG: Road to Victory (using Gabby Douglas Movie trailer) [3:07] http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=o-3uLluQnko [/B]
Hi Mirage.. I watched the movie. Honestly, I am still trying to put it into words. It's truly inspiring. I honestly can't find words for it.
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Ellynlvx
Moderator Posts: 5190
From: Mountain Gate
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted February 16, 2014 05:56 PM
"Good Will Hunting" is one of my all-time favourites, right up there with "Ghost & Mrs. Muir" and "Brigadoon."(I mean right there, they are on the same tape, hehe.) IP: Logged |
mirage29
Knowflake Posts: 2402
From: us
Registered: May 2012
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posted February 17, 2014 10:01 PM
m.blade... so deeply happy for you IP: Logged |
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