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Topic: When someone is 'unstable'
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Twirl
Knowflake Posts: 3587
From: Europe
Registered: Mar 2013
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posted April 12, 2014 03:31 AM
  
Hi  Not sure what my question is exactly. But sometimes people on LL are not in a good place stability wise and/or mentally (so there really is an issue). It really bugs me if there are then readings done and/or 'delusions' are being fed (no doubt, not purposely), because it feels like it's 'harmful'. Again, not sure what my question is, but is there a general guideline and/or how do you see this/deal with it? Thanks for replying in advance IP: Logged |
Ellynlvx
Knowflake Posts: 6979
From: Mountain Gate
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted April 12, 2014 03:44 AM
It's a difficult judgement to make.Some might have considered Linda to be unstable. Especially with Uranus things going on. Do you have an Inner Sense of what path is Right? For you to answer someone, I mean. IP: Logged |
Twirl
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posted April 12, 2014 04:15 AM
Interesting philosophical questions which can be valid to ask. Does anyone ever know what's right? I can see that.However, I was looking for a more down to earth approach: if you see someone is not doing right and loses their own level of judgements & is open to every suggestion, then that's a harmful situation in my book.
So I personally will try to see if there's something to be found to make someone feel grounded and I won't read. I feel it's a responsibility to look out for others in this situation & not feed it. Again, that's my personal perception. Would be interested in views of others. IP: Logged |
Ellynlvx
Knowflake Posts: 6979
From: Mountain Gate
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted April 12, 2014 05:03 AM
To be perfectly honest, I'm not sure exactly what you are trying to say.You won't read if the person seems too eager? Or confused? Or are you just worried someone will take bad advise? Too open to the wrong influence? Sounds like an ethical dilemma, maybe? Certainly it's difficult when others want you to take responsibility for their decisions. Heaven Knows us Libras have enough trouble of our own with that.  IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
Moderator Posts: 53846
From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted April 12, 2014 09:38 AM
You could give your opinion and offer another way to look at it. You could offer to talk to the person on Fb or by e mail and try to help, if you felt led to do that, too.
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Love&Light
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From: India
Registered: Oct 2011
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posted April 13, 2014 01:06 AM
Twirl, nice to see you around. And let me first appreciate the service you give others. Now that being said I think I am 'getting' what you are trying to come to grips with. I think you could give your advice. Try several times to 'direct' that person in that direction if you so have the wish and the time, energy etc. After that leave it. Just pray to GOD to take over. If you are connected to a source of 'back up', like in India we have Sadgurus (they are much more than teachers. Somewhat like a Shaman, but I don't know exactly what are the privilages/rights of Shamans. Perhaps you do?) who take 'hold/charge' of a person who WANTS to surrender to their will and guide them through their life towards spiritual development, only then interfer in their life path or else please don't. I hope that helps to some extent.IP: Logged |
DeepFreeze
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From: Pluto with Barbiegirl19
Registered: Nov 2013
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posted April 13, 2014 04:25 AM
I'm not sure what's going on. (off topic - anyone familiar with recent happenings, yes, I lurk/stalk LL... Sue me?  )Not being completely sure of the exact answers being sought, I'll say this. No matter what someone faces, they can get all the help offered to them, but each person has to face their own "demons". They have to help themselves, put in the effort for the help to really be effective. At least with these mental things.
I'm probably not making sense but.... Even famous people with seemingly all things going for them have problems. No one is immune and each individual is responsible for their own "well being". No one else can do it. In the context of astrology readings. Many people turn to it for answers when they are troubled, as I did. It helped, but only to understand some things. Ultimately it's up to me to look at anything positively or negatively - even astrological information. If you have the knowledge to give them the astrology info that they want, I don't see why not. It's up to them how they choose to look at it, but of course the delivery of the information can help try to steer them. IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted April 14, 2014 01:25 AM
Sometimes readings are done out of not knowing how to turn down that person, especially when you can sense they're really really hurting. Sometimes I read for "delusional" people anyway because you never know if that hope is all they have. I would rather give that to someone than be stubborn and withhold it, but I do understand what you're saying Twirl and why it's bothersome. Aside from my readings I do offer a more practical solution to what they're facing, but I/we can only do so much from an online standpoint.IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
Moderator Posts: 53846
From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted April 14, 2014 08:10 AM
(off topic - anyone familiar with recent happenings, yes, I lurk/stalk LL... Sue me? Everyone who leaves lurks  ------------------
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Twirl
Knowflake Posts: 3587
From: Europe
Registered: Mar 2013
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posted April 14, 2014 11:04 AM
Hi I will first clarify.
I might have put it in an understatement too much. What I meant to say was: if someone is mentally ill (& would really need meds described by a psychiatrist - like being paranoid, in a psychosis, etc.) and/or is having (severe) delusions about something (either through being currentky unstable or the use of drugs/alcohol, etc.) that it would be best to stay away from the paranormal for a while and work on grounding. Also, I didn't mean it to be about me in relation to others, but more general. What do you do if you notice that?
We had something similar before & I think Violets then posted about the behaviour of people that were currently 'not in a right place' (understating again, people  ). I found that so insightful to read at the time. Thanks ever so much for all your answers.
@Ami: If I feel I could get through to someone I would try, but normally it's too far and only special treatment would help.
@Love & Light: Always good to see you True. Great idea to hand it over to the Angels/Guides if it's not working. I would not want to wish to push someone in a certan direction, but ethically it feels wrong to see someone struggling and/or seeing something is not going right, to just let it pass.
@DeepFreeze: no. Totally get what you mean, lol. True. We all have are own struggles (which is fine and I think it's part of life). I just meant it in a 'what can you do if someone lost the plot'-way or if it's really too much (like old trauma's coming up which would help a specialised therapist). IP: Logged |
Randall
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From: Saturn next to Charmainec
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 16, 2014 09:43 PM
All we can do is give our best advice. We have no control over how it is accepted or used. IP: Logged |
Twirl
Knowflake Posts: 3587
From: Europe
Registered: Mar 2013
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posted April 18, 2014 02:29 PM
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Originally posted by Randall:
All we can do is give our best advice. We have no control over how it is accepted or used.
Wise words - thanks IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
Moderator Posts: 53846
From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted April 18, 2014 03:37 PM
quote:
Originally posted by Randall:
All we can do is give our best advice. We have no control over how it is accepted or used.
I wish I could get all that wisdom w/out going through the pain 
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Randall
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From: Saturn next to Charmainec
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posted April 19, 2014 02:36 PM
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Originally posted by Twirl:
Wise words - thanks
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