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Topic: I found out that he's married.
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polkadotstars
Knowflake Posts: 198
From: Washington, DC
Registered: Feb 2015
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posted June 05, 2015 11:05 AM
  
I'm sorry but I have to vent. I'm very upset because I just found out a guy I have been talking to every day for two months, who we have gone on a couple of dates, who told me he USED to be married.. Is married. And I found out on Facebook. He told me a few weeks ago that he used to be married but it didn't work out because he was gone a lot for the military. So I assumed that meant he was divorced. Lesson 1: Never Assume. We went to a baseball game a few nights ago and I left my credit card with him accidentally. So he met up with me later to give it back to me. He was late meeting up with me, saying that something happened, something that he's been dealing with for awhile now, and he'd explain when he saw me. Well, when we met up, he didn't tell me what was going on. Just that it was the reason he had been acting distant with me lately and that he'd explain it all me to later. I just noticed today that his relationship status is back up on Facebook and says that he has been married since 2010. It was changed after he said something was going on with him. On top of that, I asked our mutual friend if he knew if he had a girlfriend or anything. He said that he knew he had a girlfriend at the time the guy and I met (about two months ago) but he wasn't sure if he was still with her. I was not aware that he had a girl from at the time. And to make it worse, he is out of town this weekend for military training (or so he says, I don't believe anything he says anymore). I need to talk to him face to face because I believe I deserve an explanation as to why he would be such a sleezy liar. I've been cheated on by every single guy I've ever dated. This is why I hate dating!!!! I'm so upset and disgusted. I feel like an idiot for believing once again that I liked a good guy. IP: Logged |
Faith
Knowflake Posts: 11128
From: Bella's Hair Salon
Registered: Jul 2011
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posted June 06, 2015 12:01 AM
Horrible. IP: Logged |
polkadotstars
Knowflake Posts: 198
From: Washington, DC
Registered: Feb 2015
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posted June 06, 2015 12:45 AM
Oh, and to top the day off. His wife went through his phone records until 3 am last night. She found my number (I was the one who he texted the most) and she met me for dinner tonight. By far, the most horrible day ever. At least she was nice. I just feel bad for her  And bad that I was the 'other woman' in this case. Ugh, that pains me to say that. But according to his wife, he has been cheating on her many times over the course of the 5 years they have been together. She said she is numb now to it. That's no way to live a marriage I think! I hope she finds the strength to leave him because she is awesome! IP: Logged |
Valentine
Knowflake Posts: 152
From: Canada
Registered: Dec 2014
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posted June 06, 2015 01:53 AM
Am so sorry for you, my first husband was a cheater, it took awhile for me to find out, I Left. Don't blame yourself
and don't give up hope, there are some decent guys out there. IP: Logged |
juniperb
Moderator Posts: 8944
From: Blue Star Kachina
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 06, 2015 09:17 AM
Moving to Sweet Peas  ------------------
Partial truth~the seeds of wisdom~can be found in many places...The seeds of wisdom are contained in all scriptures ever written… especially in art, music, and poetry and, above all, in Nature.
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