posted May 01, 2018 06:07 PM
Hi! I can tell you my personal experience because I was with a cancer man.
But... every person is a unique mixture don't forget!
In my case, I have to say I had a very good experience. I think bests things about him ( and I guess other cancers have that too because it fits with the sign qualities) is that he was very very sensitive and caring.
He would know how to always make you feel at home creating a warm environment and being so sweet and loving. So romantic too.
Also he was a wonderfull cook. My cousins are cancer too they do cook amazing.
About sex, he was very sensitive and also passionated and sometimes as it was difficult for him to speak about his feelings it was the way he had to truly share his feelings. It felt like a very honest spiritual union.
Also he introduced me to his family so quickly and made me part of the family.
All this was wonderfull.
The bad things... first thing is possesiveness.
He was so so jealous all the time for no reason. Even jelaous about me going to a therapist who was a man. Even about me spendimg more time with my family than with his family.
Also a huge attachment to his mother and... an obsession about me and her mother getting along well ( we did get along very well, but I also needed some independence).
Also...the moon chaning mode.Thats so true!
Like... he would have days of very bad mode for no reason being angry not just with me but with all his work partners and people around. Then of course he was the sweetest so that would make up for that bad mode days.
He was very sensitive which was one of the best things, but also very closed. So sometimes if he was hurted he wouldnt say it and just act weird and angry about other things and then say what was he actually hurted about... after a month or something.
So I guess the good things are... being protective sweet and caring, having a lot of empathy, loving to make you part of his family, and sensitivity as a person and also in sex.
Also being very creative. He use to writte very creative things and poems.
Bad things... posessiveness,needing to control you too much, not acepting any independence from your side, not being able to speak about his feelings, and sometimes... manipulating throught acting like he is sick.
Using your guilt to make you do what he wants instead of just asking it directly.
Like... you wanna meet some friends he doesnt want you to meet them so he acts like he is sick for you to stay and then you find out he is feeling pretty well. Same with other things.
Like... he doesnt want you to work so he make hundred complications for it or he pays everything you need... instead of just saying he doesnt want you to work.
Maybe because I am sagitarius and I just say everything directly, it was difficult for me to deal with this style of doing things, always indirect and wanting something else without saying it.
But I am just trying to describe everything so I had to say the bad things too.
But I have hundred good things to say about him,.more than bad things.
Its a very good sign really.
I hope my explanation helped!