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Topic: Why I Spoke To Kat The Way I Did
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Ami Anne
Moderator Posts: 41197
From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted May 04, 2013 03:48 PM
  
I read Kat's comments to Randall about him making her want to puke. I got enraged. A fine man like Randall does not deserve that
I lose it when people I care about get disrespected but I was over the top in my comments.
Kat's behavior does not justify my acting in kind. I need to honor LL with my best self, not my worst. I am sorry for my comments. ------------------
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Randall
Webmaster Posts: 27495
From: Saturn next to Charmainec
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 04, 2013 05:46 PM
It takes a big person to admit fault and apologize. I know. I've been there. I understand why you reacted, Ami, but that doesn't excuse what you said. It is inexcusable. As a Mod, you have to set examples, and actually so do I. I jump into the fray more than I should when I should focus more on being neutral. That being said, we are both human, and we both fail. Kat left, and she left voluntarily, which means she no longer wanted to be here in that moment, so we should wish her well on her journey and not say things about her when she can't be here to defend herself. If I overstepped my bounds toward her, I, too, apologize. I wasn't aware that things were getting that conflicting between us with that particular exchange. It didn't seem that bad to me at the time. I thought it was just another day here in GU. I've seen her in way more heated transactions here. But we all have our triggers, and it certainly wasn't my intent to drive her away. I apologize not so much for what I said (as I spoke the truth as I sincerely saw it at the time), but if what I said hurt her (as I suspect it did), then I apologize for causing pain. It was not my intent. It is never ever ever my intent to cause pain to another person. Sometimes, life isn't about being right so much as it is about treating people right. In this Forum, there are people wanting to be right. Opinions on the topics here are often diametrically opposed. But this is more than just a list of Forums; for many, it's a family. As mirrored in real life, I may get mad at my two little brothers, but they are still my brothers. I am not always right; nor can I always be right, no matter how hard I attempt to be. Life is not black and white. Truth is often a grey perception between two polar opposites. There are much more important things than being right anyway. That is my Lesson to learn. I would have e-mailed Kat to apologize, but with her being being unregistered as per her wishes, I don't have access to it. Anyway, Blessings to you, Kat, and may you find happiness on your Path. I am truly sorry for my part in causing you pain, if I did so. Onward and upward. IP: Logged | |
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