posted August 24, 2019 05:01 PM
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Originally posted by shura:
To what extent our thoughts comprise our identity is a good question, yes.We live in a culture, if it can be called that, which prizes and consequently protects supposedly inalterable sexual identity over thought. The first is sacrosanct, the second is open to social, economic, even legal pressure. The first is chance and the second is choice. A choice made, as you point out, through experience, consideration etc. Rough or refined, it is a product of the individual spirit. And if we prevent the free expression of the individual spirit?
people can repress their sexual identity but it can't be altered just sort of is what it is so the word "supposedly" doesnt work here
also cant always be hidden, my entire life people have always just known i was bi without me saying **** ive just had people tell me about how they can tell and **** like that
literally walk over to me and announce it or say things like "oh well you're bi right?" asking in that way where theyre just seeking confirmation not really that theyre unsure of themselves
it's just sort of part of you
and that's the thing when something can't be altered pressure to change it becomes useless it's ineffectual so it's not quite a matter of it being prized in that sense
it's just like asking someone in a wheelchair to jump, you're not going to do that and expect results
it's a futile exercise
our ideas and thoughts are us to an extent, but those can be altered and suppressed and our peers and society will dictate which ways they should be
acceptable thought is just how group mindsets generally work and they form a foundation for societies and groups
mutual views provide people with a sense of belonging and conformity is generally pushed just through human nature
so it seems natural to me that one wouldn't be seen as something to protect to most people while the other would
people are used to being told what and how to think from the time they're children, how to behave etc learned behaviors from peers and society which carries on throughout our lives
differing from the group mindset whether youre wrong or right is generally subject to harsh treatment (so is differing from the group in general in the case of things that are inalterable, but society currently dictates that inalterable things should not be something to discriminate against in the past this wasnt true to the same extent) just a natural consequence of being human
which is why i think social pressure is sufficient, herd mentalities often win out to some extent unless chipped away at over time
so while it doesn't seem fair and isn't on some level, it makes sense because you can change a view or at least shut it down in many cases with pressure
the vast majority of people will give in when pressured on their views or at least keep them locked away except when in appropriate like minded company
also society generally works better with herd mentalities because it gives people common direction
thinking against the grain for better or worse is more problematic in that sense (for the group and the individual) and is more "disruptive"
the government shouldnt prevent free expression through law, but in order to maintain a structuted society other methods to mold popular opinion would be an intelligent option (media and such) because social pressure can do a lot generally speaking
but yeah i dont think it's a matter of one being more sacred than the other, it's just that one you can potentially change the other you cant