posted November 26, 2004 04:46 PM         

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Need I say more?

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posted November 26, 2004 05:37 PM           

I have complicated attitude about sex. Sort of. Astrologically ecpressed it looks like that.

Saturn in the 8th (Taurus) wants to be in charge and check the trustworthiness about the parties involved. And the idea of letting it all go, letting all the walls down, takes a real conscious effort. Good sides - dedication & the fact I have to be sober to have sex. Alcohol work like best breaks. However, the ruler of the 8th hs is Mars, who is in Scorpio and 3rd hs. Obsessive & a bit kinky.

The things Mars & Saturn can agree on are trust & loyalty, endurance, patience. And well, a bit more of endurance ... and well... you got the picture.

Then the Mars&Saturn have to work out a plan to appeaese the Virgo Moon in the 12th hs conj Pluto. You know, for that combo trust, loyalty and endurance are fine, but just not quite enough. To be honest, anything short of mind shattering really counts there. And mindshattering is no excuse for dirty laundry.

posted November 28, 2004 06:26 AM           

what crap!! do they even get aroused??

posted November 28, 2004 09:24 AM         

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''do you think sex is love, spiritually or physically?''

Sex to me, has to be based on love. I've changed my mind on this, as when I was younger, I was sorta not into sex at all anyways, nor did I have an understanding of what it could be when there was real love between myself and my partner. Having a sexual experience is totally pointless to me, nor do I get any pleasure out of it, unless there is a spiritual and mental connection there. It's too messy, too sweaty, and too personal to share it with somebody who you don't have this sort of connection with, IMO. Took me a while to realize how important that is to me, I went through the past few years thinking sex was pretty lame.... didn't see what all the fuss was about, to be quite honest. There is a sort of curiousness about flirtation and lust, but I've learned that when you give into this sort of thing, it's pretty much guaranteed to be a dissapointment. And since I live in my head (aqua sun/mars/merc... libra jup/sat/pluto) I don't really want to share myself with somebody who is not interested in my mind or my spirit... cuz that's just gonna get you nowhere in my book.

When I am in a loving relationship, however, my Aries rising and Leo moon take over, and I can really let loose. But I only have one planet in earth, (Venus in Capricorn in 10th house) so physically speaking... I could surely go without any kind of sex for a very long time if I happened to be single...

Oops, kinda shared a bit much there...

Ghani