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Topic: I think I'm becoming a Cougar... GRrrr
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iQ
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posted October 18, 2010 12:21 AM
  
Take him to Sun City and give him the time of his life. Whether this becomes a full fledged long term relationship or not, he will fondly remember you even in his 90s  This relationship will also do wonders for your health. When Red and Orange Chakras are happy, somehow the other 5 improve. And since his fascination started before Venus Rx, it is nothing out of the ordinary. IP: Logged |
Seeing Stars 7.21
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posted October 18, 2010 01:39 AM
Technically I think a cougar is 40 years and older. I think this would make you a bobcat lolIP: Logged |
oneruledbymars
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posted October 18, 2010 01:42 AM
Im with IQ.....turn him out girl...you are beautiful inside and out...and he sounds like fun.
Perhaps you can do with seeing yourself through his eyes for a bit...he is only seeing what we all see....one AMAZING women!IP: Logged |
LEXX
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posted October 18, 2010 02:08 AM
 
And seriously, I totally agree with iQ!
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This relationship will also do wonders for your health. When Red and Orange Chakras are happy, somehow the other 5 improve.
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GypseeWind
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posted October 18, 2010 02:48 AM
I'm 15 years older than the scorpio guy I've been on and off with for 3 and a half years.
It sometimes bothers me, because I'm getting older and he's just looking more 'adultish' lol, if that makes sense.BUT, it doesn't bother him at all. He prefers older women. He says younger women have nothing to talk about and not enough life experience. *shrug*
I'm 43, and he'll be 29 on Halloween. Oh, and his Mother likes me, but she doesn't approve of what I do for a living.
Again, *shrug* you can't live for other people, LIVE FOR YOURSELF!!
You go Missy! IP: Logged |
MyVirgoMask
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posted October 18, 2010 04:09 AM
Bobcat, lynx, ocelot, whatever. IP: Logged |
Unmoved
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posted October 18, 2010 09:09 AM
Hey guys. It was lovely waking up to more responses. I laughed, I nodded in agreement and was very pleased by what I heard. jane - yeah, this guy is making me react very uncharacteristically. And, I love it. Ha. Oh, since noticing him, all I've had is hot sex in the brain. I seldom react this way and it is refreshing. My prejudices are almost completely out the window about this issue. Posting about this was a great idea. AG - my sweetheart. At least, eh? Lol IQ - Speaking of chakras is totally coincidental because he mentioned the same thing. He does martial arts so he understands energies and chakras, and another this, he interprets dreams. I had this dream where I was Inanna and that's also become his nickname for me. Everyone is always wondering why he is calling me Inanna and we've left it our little secret. SeeingStars - hahahahahaha bobcat. Orbm - You're so sweet. Yeah, this experience might be a very cleansing and freeing one for me. Thanks, love. GypseeWind - I had no idea. That's good to know. I am glad to hear real life experiences of this. about the mom, at least she likes you. IP: Logged |
Geocosmic* Valentine
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posted October 18, 2010 02:23 PM
OH...MY...GOD!!!!! HOW HAVE I MISSED OUT ON THIS LOVE FEST!!!   I love it when really good people get together and make each other happy.  Notice how the energy on this thread feels soooooo beautiful? I just hope it's contagious. rrrRRROOAAAARR!!!!! Unmoved, it's not possible for this young man to resist you. You're such a beautiful goddess. You're a siren with that gorgeous voice as well. Poor dude ain't gotta chance to get away...  ...and why would he want to get away. Have fun, sweetie. IP: Logged |
AbsintheDragonfly
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posted October 18, 2010 02:29 PM
I wanna get in on the love fest too  ------------------
We justify ourselves each time we take a breath... Me IP: Logged |
jane
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posted October 18, 2010 02:33 PM
Unmoved - quote:
this was a great idea.
I predict you'll say the same after you touch him. IP: Logged |
DD
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posted October 18, 2010 04:04 PM
And I am worrying myself sick about a guy being 5 years younger than me.
But yes, I can understand you, and yet, whynot consider it as a compliment?
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I love the loving athmosphere here, too. Really encouraging. IP: Logged |
Unmoved
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posted October 18, 2010 04:07 PM
GV - aaaw thank you for the beautiful and kind words. If only I was as talented as you musically, because your training and natural talent makes you quite a powerhouse. Thank you. As for vocals, you should hear him! Abs - yes, lets all bask in this love fest. jane - I can't wait. IP: Logged |
Unmoved
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posted October 18, 2010 04:11 PM
5 yrs only? Come on, DD. That's basically in the same age group. *shakes head* IP: Logged |
DD
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posted October 18, 2010 04:17 PM
Unmoved,see how easy it is to get over it, at least if it concerns other people? Now be just as tolerant towards yourself. You deserve it.
BTW how old are you? Not that it really matters, but I am curious.
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on a discussion about if Edward (of Twilight) is really a vampire or not, I have been in a room with 17 years old and 55 years old - I found that so refreshing to see how well all kind of ages mesh, if it is about the same interest.
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Unmoved
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posted October 18, 2010 04:30 PM
Oh, I've been tolerant about it since yesterday, since MyVirgoMask's story. I didn't take much convincing, did I? I'm 28 yrs young. IP: Logged |
DD
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posted October 18, 2010 04:39 PM
A gosh, 28 years, you are bascially a kid.
Oh well, I really donīt see it as a problem, And I am glad you don`t either.
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LEXX
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From: Still out looking for Schrodinger's cat.......& LEXIGRAMMING.♥.. is my Passion!
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posted October 18, 2010 04:46 PM
I will be 56 years young...
or LOL....25 with 26 years of experience.
Damn! Wish that magic portrait device Dorian Grey used was available! LOL! 
I walk by mirrors often wondering who the heck is that?
I do not recognize myself, nor see myself that way.
I'm still 25 or so in here.
Working on getting my physical self to recognize the 25 year old age "feeling" and get it to reverse to that! 
LOL...40 would be fine too!Do not fret the small age difference betwixt you and him Unmoved!
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Peri
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posted October 18, 2010 04:58 PM
go, Unmoved, go for it! Let him move you 
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MyVirgoMask
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posted October 18, 2010 05:50 PM
Unmoved, it's funny, when I was 28 was when i began getting batches of attention from men who were MUCH younger. I really think it has to do with a woman's comfort with her sexuality...as she becomes more comfortable in her own skin, it's really quite appealing, and I've found that the younger men were the ones to be more vocal about it!My mother and my stepfather used to give me a hard time about it when I would visit town and they'd hear about some young guy I was into. All kinds of jokes and teasing, but I never really minded. In fact, I encouraged it by walking around the house in pigtails and ribbons in my hair a couple of times, which startled them into silence (as intended...they weren't sure if I was serious at that point ...yes, I managed to shock two irreverent Aquarians into silence...it was golden, I tell you, GOLDEN ) IP: Logged |
DD
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posted October 18, 2010 05:54 PM
MVM,you`re a star! This Aquarius-Moon loves that reaction of yours to the judgement imposed on you.
As you said: GOLDEN IP: Logged |
FrozenQueen
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posted October 18, 2010 05:58 PM
Damn it!You're 28! 28! And you call yourself a cougar! A cougar!!!! ARGHHH! What's with the world these days? Unmoved, ma chere, you are too young to be even worrying about age, my friend. One suggestion, stop reading those barbaric women's mags and stop worrying about your age! And as for the guy, go get him girl! Phew! I can't believe you consider yourself too old! Oh, and I remember your pic in the Know two are alike forum! You look like a goddess if ever there was one! And this from a fellow Scorp, if ever you call yourself a cougar again, I swear I'll burn a pile of Cosmo outside your home!
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Kill me once, kill me twice, For all I care, kill me thrice
No matter what you do, I will survive,
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Unmoved
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posted October 18, 2010 05:59 PM
LEXX - You're beautiful, LEXX. speaking of feeling younger, I haven't grown since I was 18. I honestly feel so much younger than I really am. It's the strangest thing. I sometimes get people ask me whether I'm married or whether I have children. This always takes me aback until I realise that I'm actually at an age where my peers are doing such things. I still react as if I'm 18 to the world. Peri - hee hee. Of course. I hope I see him tomorrow. I want to see him blush after our last talk on IM. I'm so bad. Lol. And, I don't mind. I have never felt this excited about a male where it was mutual ever. He was raised in Italy so he usually says things to me in Italian that I don't understand. And, I just smile back having felt the intent behind the words and not caring what the words really meant. exciting. IP: Logged |
DD
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posted October 18, 2010 06:03 PM
How sweet, Unmoved,
I really love hearing that stuff about you and him. And yes, I feel so much younger than my age, in many many areas of my life, especially when it comes to social or romantic things.
Sometimes I swear I am not older than 15-17. lol IP: Logged |
MyVirgoMask
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posted October 18, 2010 06:04 PM
DD, thank you, that's quite a compliment especially from an Aqua Moon (you guys are my favorite moons, along with the lunar Leos)
I think my Moon/Uranus opposition combined with being raised by batch of Aquas has definitely had a hand in teaching me some of this stuff...and I am eternally grateful for it IP: Logged |
Unmoved
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posted October 18, 2010 06:10 PM
MVM Classic. Your parents probably thought you were having a quarter life crisis. Hehehe nice one! FrozenQueen - Your post got me laughing. Haha. I don't personally think I'm old, but I might be relatively older that some people. Anyway, I don't care anymore. I'm cured from yesterday's issue. MVM - That's interesting, what you're saying about finally getting comfortable with my own sexuality and how younger men feel it because aren't younger men getting into their sexual peak in their early 20s as we women enter our sexual peak in our mid-thirties? So, maybe biologically, we can smell those who can satisfy us. I think it makes sense as far as nature is concerned. But society is still treating the women being older than a man as taboo. Hmmm... IP: Logged |
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