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Topic: Kissing
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Randall
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posted November 11, 2010 02:03 AM
  
So, women and men are different in many ways. *notice I said women first...in true Southern hospitality style* Another way is that women have a superpower us guys are clueless about. A woman can tell a lot about a guy from how that guy kisses. Some women even claim that they can tell how a guy will be in bed by a kiss. Guys have no such ability, but we do know that if we mess up that first kiss, we will get nowhere. Please, ladies, shed some light on this.IP: Logged |
LEXX
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From: Still out looking for Schrodinger's cat.......& LEXIGRAMMING.♥.. is my Passion!
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posted November 11, 2010 02:10 AM
Ooooooh...that is a tough one.
Not everyone likes exactly the same "style" of kiss.
And it can depend so much on mood and so many other factors. 
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Randall
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posted November 11, 2010 02:14 AM
Kissing is a lost art. What do chicks look for with a first kiss? Or is it less concrete and based on a feeling?IP: Logged |
LEXX
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posted November 11, 2010 02:46 AM
It is a lost art in a way indeed.
Feeling a lot to me, is very important.
Then intense eye contact.....
Hmmmmm....I shall look for links to my favorite movie kisses!
Easier to show than tell!  IP: Logged |
Randall
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posted November 11, 2010 02:58 AM
That upside down Spiderman half-masked kiss in the rain was freakin' hot! Anyone see that movie? It made my Spidey sense tingle.IP: Logged |
LEXX
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From: Still out looking for Schrodinger's cat.......& LEXIGRAMMING.♥.. is my Passion!
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posted November 11, 2010 03:03 AM
LOL! Yes it was very hot! 
LOL!
Rather "tingly" too I agree!
But that is an exception!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lxBwm3Mmb0c&feature=more_related IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
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posted November 11, 2010 04:00 AM
GREAT question. This will take time and a thinking cap to answer.
I will be back after I put my cap on ------------------
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mir
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posted November 11, 2010 08:03 AM
I'm curious Ami.. Well, in my experience 99,9 percent of the men CAN'T kiss... Well yes, it's since I've experienced my tantric Libra; just kissing for hours hours and hours on all levels while these ongoing stings of pleasure/joy/lust make you never want it to stop. There's even no longing for an orgasm/sexual intercourse because... you get plenty of great climaxes in another form ALL-NIGHT-LONG!!! Lol this must be dangerous for the human survival if women get the feel of it.
Men focus too much on an orgasm when they start kissing, the whole picture is already played off from the start like a preprogrammed robot. Lack of control, lack of time.. as if it's expected from them.. it's all part of it. IP: Logged |
PlutoSquared
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posted November 11, 2010 12:15 PM
Last guy was VERY OPEN mouth kisser... and aggressive... made me feel... strange, and almost like we were in a porno... haha.If I was to say, I would like a guy that lands a gentle kiss, without too heavy breathing (at first) haha... cheek and face or ear... then to play kiss with the lips. Moving in too fast with french kissing is a direct statement, imo. Working up to french kissing would be AWESOME. And when French Kissing - no tongue swirilies and jabbing motions... should be somewhat of a caress with the tongue... enjoying the taste... Jabbing and swirling would be more appropriate for during hard sex, or when the passion is high... The occasional bite or sucking on the upper or bottom lip, is nice. Kissing should be exploration and sharing... not just "thoughtless" or too blindly direct. IP: Logged |
NickiG
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From: Pluto, next to Ami Ann
Registered: Jul 2010
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posted November 11, 2010 12:20 PM
something i look for in a kiss is sensuality and passion...sensuality shows your sensitive to her feelings and needs and cherish her while passion shows you'll be intense in bed------------------
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PlutoSquared
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posted November 11, 2010 12:27 PM
I agree with the above link - That is a great kiss!!!IP: Logged |
NickiG
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posted November 11, 2010 12:30 PM
oh yes...my fav spiderman movie ever....i also liked the 3rd one a lot too, very emotional------------------
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GypseeWind
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From: Love Street, she lingers long on Love Street..
Registered: May 2009
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posted November 11, 2010 02:55 PM
I knew a pisces that would kiss for hours.
That was nice.  I knew my guy was right from the first kiss, because he stares right into your eyes, and if you close them, he gently pries them open.
Then after awhile he always bites my bottom lip. ahhhhhh! That usually does it for me. He also licks my teeth, and I lick his eyelashes.
Heh, too weirdo peas in pod. Thank You Lord!  IP: Logged |
LEXX
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From: Still out looking for Schrodinger's cat.......& LEXIGRAMMING.♥.. is my Passion!
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posted November 11, 2010 03:00 PM
~sigh~
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Ami Anne
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posted November 11, 2010 04:18 PM
I have had my cap on all day about this question.
The way a`man kisses tells you a lot about his level of sensitivity . Can he feel out what the woman wants and needs? I think that a man who will be sensitive to what the woman wants`and needs ,in bed, will kiss the same way.
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Ami Anne
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posted November 11, 2010 04:23 PM
I would like a man to err on the side of gentle and tender kisses.
If I like him enough to kiss him, I would like to look in to his eyes, too.
It would be a milestone to me that we were going to a new place with each other. I would like to take it slowly.
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Randall
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posted November 11, 2010 05:29 PM
The right way for a guy to kiss is to lead but also to pay attention to how his girl responds. A guy has to be very attentive to notice subtle signs and do more of what she likes. IP: Logged |
ScorpioSMR
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From: Keaau, Hawaii
Registered: Jul 2010
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posted November 11, 2010 07:13 PM
I am Bi, and have kissed both men and women.
From my perspective I feel most women are excellent kissers.
Every man who has kissed me has had one or more of these traits: slobbery, forceful, rushed, jerky and far too focused on tongue wrestling. I did notice lots of similarities in bed with their kissing styles. My kissing style is gentle, lingering, caressing, slow and soft. I get lost in kisses in a dreamy way.
I like soft kisses not gagging kisses.
The women who kissed gently were the ones who paid the most attention in bed and were able to stay focused and savor the entire night. (and they also knew their way around with their tongue quite well)
So from my experience, you can tell how a person will be in bed by their kisses.. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted November 11, 2010 07:16 PM
Dear Mir,
DID you have a close emotional relationship with the long kissing Libra ?------------------
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Randall
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posted November 11, 2010 07:29 PM
Not every girl likes everything, but there's a lot that four lips and two tongues (and teeth) can do.IP: Logged |
WinkAway
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posted November 11, 2010 08:17 PM
amen to that <tee hee>I like when a guy can get me revved up for a good juicy kiss. Lots of cuddling, biting the ear lobes, soft breaths in my ear...(this does wonders for me, I'm very sensative in my ears) If he breaths softly in my ear it can send goose bumps from head to toe... in a good way. Lots of foreplay.
Then he gently makes his way to my lips and by then I'm wanting full throddle lol.
Ahh but slowly. Biting the bottom lip and pulling it a little drives me crazy. And for the bad kissers...
Don't shove your tongue in her mouth. Tease a little. Let her decide how deeply she wants your tongue. And don't swirl your toungue around in circles. That just tells me you don't know what you're doing. God I could kiss for hours with a man who knows what he's doing.. IP: Logged |
Cynnared
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posted November 11, 2010 11:10 PM
I have found in the past with some of the men that I have dated....it seems like once they start with the kissing or necking - they are instantly inspired to take things to bed. Men for me, with past experiences, they seem to really want to rush things BIG TIME,I know when my boyfriend gets into a necking mood he has sex on his mind. I don't think kissing a man would be an indicator of what he would be like in bed....my boyfriend is a good kisser but after we started having sex he thought he officially lost his virginity with me. His sex life started 8 years before we hooked up but I think the partners he had were not too great.....he thinks I have perverted him and turned him into a sex fiend....I disagree.... IP: Logged |
NickiG
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From: Pluto, next to Ami Ann
Registered: Jul 2010
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posted November 11, 2010 11:23 PM
there are a LOT of nerves in the lips so when a guy starts getting into steamy kisses he gets aroused so thats why it often times leads to sex------------------
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PeaceAngel
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posted November 12, 2010 02:25 AM
Ooh, great question. Love this. Yes, totally agreed that kissing is a lost art. I love kissing. It's just something really special and beautiful. I do think you can tell a lot about a man as a lover by the way he kisses. And dances too. Oh, and the way and place he touches you when kissing too. The way a man kisses definitely shows his sexual style. If it's really intimate tender kissing then he's going to be someone who wants to make love. If he's a bad kisser and doesn't want much of it, he's going to be purely a "sex" guy who doesn't really want or know intimacy. That's just my view, experience.IP: Logged |
mir
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posted November 12, 2010 09:55 AM
Hi Ami,
No I didn't. I saw him just a few times and at our first date we kissed and there it was ... the gift of an immediate Kiss-Nirvana!
It could have been just a coincidence but the second time we met it was again KISS-Nirvana time! Hours & hours. . . . . . .We still can't forget each other because of this intense melting & merging together. It was for him the exact same, a DREAM.... (he said). He always told me that *enjoying the moment* - without ANY obligation - is ALL you need to reach true pleasure..
And yes, he proved me to be that way! IP: Logged |
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