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posted November 20, 2010 11:42 PM            

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Oh, so THIS is the forum that started all the controversy.

I just noticed it. LOL. I'm not the most observant person. I told you I'm not the typical Virgo.

Off to explore the topics, then I'll be back to contribute to the naughtiness.

Right up my alley baby.

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posted November 20, 2010 11:43 PM            

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Thank goodness we have some moral support. Would be exhausting otherwise

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posted November 21, 2010 12:01 AM            

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WTF have I missed! What happened now? When this forum was created I really thought that it would be trouble free, simply because of the freedom of topics. This is exactly the type of forum that we've needed. Man, here we go again.

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posted November 21, 2010 01:08 AM            

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No worries, PA. Nothing is ever always trouble-free. But every thunderstorm blows over. This one was just a light sprinkle compared to the hurricanes we've had in the past. And this one was really over nothing. I mean, fight for a cause worthy of the energy--like physical abuse or true predatory elements in society...not over two consenting adults flirting with one another. Get a life, you flamers!

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posted November 21, 2010 01:46 AM            

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Must say, I never got a chance to witness any flaming. Are threads being deleted? The whole thing is a bit vague but I'm seeing a lot of anger

Sorry, I'm just a little confused. But again if everyone's boundaries are being respected, then I see no problem.

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posted November 21, 2010 01:51 AM            

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Yeah, I doused the flames early. No biggie. Mainly just a lot of F YOUs by someone who should know better.

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posted November 21, 2010 02:54 AM            

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F YOUs eh? Well, F ME, I never!!! Storm in a teacup. Got it.

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posted November 21, 2010 03:01 AM            

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You'd think with so much Aries I'd like the blunt FU approach, but this appeals to me more.

Yeah, okay, I just wanted an excuse to post this pic. It made me laugh. I think I made it plausible.

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posted November 21, 2010 03:02 AM            

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Haha! Well-placed!

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posted November 21, 2010 03:54 AM              

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lol

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posted November 21, 2010 05:03 AM            

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It's never okay to libel someone, to defame another's character

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OK so it's NOT ok for them to do it to you Randall and yet it's OK for certain people to do it to me?
lol
kinda figures.. .this is where you make a rod for your own back!

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posted November 21, 2010 05:11 AM            

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You know what I learned from this thing?
There will always be contention and upsets in life as long as humans are involved in ANYTHING.
YOUjust need to learn to DEAL with it.
Things like this are a job for Pluto.
Pluto talks softly and carries a big stick

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posted November 21, 2010 05:18 AM            

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I don't read everything on the Board, Lara. If someone defames you, tell me. I recall posting on your string asking you who did it and where. You never posted an answer. I thought it was basically miunderstandings, and then those people apologized. Am I wrong? And yeah, the rules apply to us all. But that being said, doing it to me is just plain dumb.

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posted November 21, 2010 05:29 AM            

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Dumb

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posted November 21, 2010 05:36 AM            

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Randall
If any of the people apologized , would you let them back on?
What is your stand on these matters as far as apologies and re--instatement go?
Could someone come back on a conditional basis if they gave a public apology?

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posted November 21, 2010 05:50 AM            

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Truthfully, I don't even remember who they are, except for Purple. She posted the F word all over the site. So, negative on that one. And considering the other two blasted me without even hearing my side, I can't say that I miss them either (whoever they were). Why would someone who I make feel like she is going to "lose her breakfast" even want to be here anyway? You know, if any of these three are reading this, maybe next time you will allow the person to give his/her side before you automatically believe what someone tells you. Maybe they are not from this country. Here in the US, we are entitled to address our accusers. It's a repulsive concept to not be able to. Not that I really care to tell my side. The fact that some people so readily believe what they are told just tells me that I shouldn't even waste my time giving an explanation. And cpn came in rambling about how these people got banned for having opinions about this Forum? No way! Two were banned for making libelous statements. The other for posting profanity all over the board. You support posting F You all over the Forums, cpn? Really? Seriously?

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posted November 21, 2010 06:08 AM            

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Thanks Randall. Yeah, your new moderator Plutosquared called me a bully and when I asked her to retract it she basically said F you! She never apologized. Then she attacked anyone whom supported my views on several threads since then!

I don't mind someone disliking me but to attempt to defamate my character and gang up on me on a public forum is pretty pathetic really. I fight my battle single handed and that's the way l like it
I care not for resentment nor jealousy - it's their problem. I see you take the same line. Maybe in future it can be one rule for all of us cos I'm kinda tired of fending off Rottweilers on here and yet I love it here. Been here over 3 years now I think?
This site is a credit to you Randall. Thank you

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posted November 21, 2010 06:19 AM            

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There's a huge difference between bully and predator.

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posted November 21, 2010 06:32 AM            

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and your point is?... seeing as I'm neither?

I'm not quite sure why you said that Randall but I sincerely hope that you are not making decisions by conversing with other members whom may not have LL's best interests at heart.

There are a few predators on here, a few unruly insecure gang members that like to talk off forum and stir the pot. It's been going on for months if not a year. Then there are a few genuine and straight up people of which category l feel able to place myself in so why do you just denounce my previous comment with 'Predator/bully' talk!

BTW Abs, if you are reading this I'm so sorry you are leaving for a while. I like you very much and I'm sorry that whatever happened last night has upset you so. People should be able to get along without stabbing each other in the backs. Sadly, 99% of people online forums are insecure and bitter and hide behind this haha hehe persona whilst their true selves seethe and plot. This is why I won't be too personal and chummy with anyone on a forum. It's like a zoo - everyone bites!
Big hug x

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posted November 21, 2010 06:34 AM            

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No worries!

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