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Topic: What Can You Learn From Contention?
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Ami Anne
Moderator Posts: 2827
From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted November 21, 2010 09:58 PM
 
That you are alone
That you must figure out what to do to the best of your ability
That people may not/will not like you
That you may be shunned
That you may lose people you love
That you are alone at the end of the day, most especially this.
That IF you have people in your life, you cannot sell yourself for them.
They have to allow you to have yourself.
You hope they can do that.
You may want to be loved with all your heart but the person must allow you to love yourself first and honor yourself, too.
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PlutoSquared
Moderator Posts: 1360
From: Mars
Registered: Aug 2010
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posted November 21, 2010 10:00 PM
Sad, but very true.IP: Logged |
teasel
Knowflake Posts: 2556
From: Ohio
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 21, 2010 10:00 PM
You aren't alone. Please don't ever think that.  IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
Moderator Posts: 2827
From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted November 21, 2010 10:12 PM
Thank you ((((Teasel)))) ((((PS)))))------------------
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Ami Anne
Moderator Posts: 2827
From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted November 22, 2010 04:45 AM
In my house, I had to give myself up.
I did not want to know what would have happened if I didn't.
I had monstrous stories locked in my head. I was warned not to be "uppity"
That was my sacrifice in order to live
I manicured the outside like a lawn that was perfect so no one would know that under it was weeds or quick sand that took you down if you stepped on it. I thought you could live if your shell only looked pretty enough but there is some economy somewhere where you die instead. ------------------
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Lara
Knowflake Posts: 5321
From:
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 22, 2010 05:14 AM
We are all alone.
We are all born alone.
We all die alone.
The space in between is called life and we are alone yet we strive for togetherness.
In this struggle we learn that it's ok to be alone and in 'loving' aloneness we find togetherness with ourself.
This is called love. It is the most positive and important discovery man can make in his lifetime.
 It's healthy to be alone. It's unhealthy to think you are not alone. Ironic but true. Nothing sad about it. Alone doesn't equal lonely! IP: Logged |
teasel
Knowflake Posts: 2556
From: Ohio
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 22, 2010 10:07 AM
Arguments don't have to lead to someone being alone. I've dealt with my very own sociopath - now he might die alone. IP: Logged |
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