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posted November 26, 2010 01:01 PM         

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Have you experienced one? Ever been in a relationship that ended badly, and you hated that person afterwards? Or, broken up with someone only to have them hate you?

Please share your experience, and whether or not you learned anything from them.

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posted November 26, 2010 01:02 PM         

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i wasnt even in a relationship with this one guy, i told him i didnt want him and he got mad at me, lol

this is the best break up song ever

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Tj96QFzOL5Y

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posted November 26, 2010 01:08 PM         

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Guys are lame.

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posted November 26, 2010 01:09 PM         

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LOL, yup-yup

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posted November 26, 2010 01:09 PM         

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I disagree, Randall.

I think guys are GREAT!!! Woo hoo!

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posted November 26, 2010 01:12 PM         

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LOL@PS, most of them are great for only one thing, lol

this is another great break up song

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2EwViQxSJJQ

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posted November 26, 2010 01:16 PM         

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Well, I for one have had a couple bad breakups, usually with me holding on and clinging onto shreds of emotional stability, haha. (I can laugh now)

But, what I learned? Those things were for the best. Because the ME I am now could NEVER have those relationships, in my life.

The ME that I needed to be, couldn't hold onto those people and things anymore. No matter how much I wanted to, at the time.

That's just about all the positive I got from them, haha.

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posted November 26, 2010 01:17 PM         

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You know what I feel proud about? Of my seven major relationships, I remained friends.
I could sit down,today, with a cup of tea and talk and laugh.
I feel good about that.
I try very hard not to hurt people.
If I err, it is from ignorance and stupidity not deliberate meanness.
I am not saying I was never aggressive just to be a jerk
However, I can count the times on my two hands for my lifetime ,I think.

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posted November 26, 2010 01:20 PM         

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Ami,

THAT is AWESOME. I have that with a few, but not all... the people that I don't have that with are not capable of that kind of civility with anyone

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posted November 26, 2010 01:26 PM         

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Thank you PS
Most of my major relationships have been with awesome guys who really loved me and vice-versa.
That made the break-up able to be civil lol

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posted November 26, 2010 01:28 PM         

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so they basically sat down with you and you were able to cry into his (or her) arms? LOL, joking, i love you ami!!

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posted November 26, 2010 01:34 PM         

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Well, I was the one who broke up after a year,or about.
They respected that it could not go the distance ,for me, which was marriage.
In each case, I realized that that person was NOT the one I wanted to marry so I had to move on.
It was not a huge fight or tearing of bonds.
It was a road that reached an end point.

I was not trying to brag or look "better" than anyone

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posted November 26, 2010 01:36 PM         

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Ami Anne has just demonstrated to a "T" what a mature relationship and breakup is, exactly.

I would like to have more mature relationship, for sure!

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posted November 26, 2010 01:38 PM         

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lol, ami, i think you missed the part where i said "or her"

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posted November 26, 2010 01:41 PM         

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Thank you PS
I have lived a VERY flawed life but I do try to hold my tongue cuz once words leave it, there is no taking them back.
If I have to leave someone, I try to do it as kindly as possible.
That was my experience of that particular part of my life.
I am NOT saying I have not made millions of mistakes .
I HAVE !!!!!

I think being a very strong air element(Sun,Merc and Venus in Gemini) I can pull myself in to that compartment when I need to.
I can push my emotions away and be rational when needed.
That is prolly why my break ups were civil.

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posted November 27, 2010 02:09 PM         

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Let's just say when I break up with a girl, I usually have to hide the sharp silverware and get a head-start running. lol It's not that I'm mean at all--it's just the types that I date.

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