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Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 3242 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010	posted November 27, 2010 03:07 AM Learning life lessons is ALWAYS good cuz it is real. Real is always preferable to "not real" which is numb. IP: Logged
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 3242 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010	posted November 27, 2010 03:10 AM Respect is the most important thing in any relationship.When that goes,the fabric erodes. How and when it will erode is unknown but it will ----as surely as moths in wool. ------------------ If I am not for myself--who am I? If I am only for myself--what am I? IP: Logged
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 3242 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010	posted November 27, 2010 03:13 AM Yourself,only, is your paint box. No one else can put colors on you unless you agree. That is hard to see and know, but it is true,completely and totally. Someone else's colors can splash on you and may burn you but they cannot have permanent residence unless you open the door. ------------------ If I am not for myself--who am I? If I am only for myself--what am I? IP: Logged
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 3242 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010	posted November 27, 2010 03:15 AM The inner you is the hard part to change but the only part you can. Even if you moved the chess pieces to fit perfectly, your inner self would not be at peace. You would ,always,wonder when will they move again? ------------------ If I am not for myself--who am I? If I am only for myself--what am I? IP: Logged
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 3242 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010	posted November 27, 2010 03:17 AM That being said , the inner self is the seemingly, hardest to heal. You want to get your finger paints and paint ,furiously, on the outside in a mad passion to make it right. You paint and paint but find that the paint runs and flakes and dries at the wrong time. It didn't work, all your efforts. The job looks terrible and you are covered with paint. ------------------ If I am not for myself--who am I? If I am only for myself--what am I? IP: Logged
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 3242 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010	posted November 27, 2010 03:20 AM You painted the wrong thing, Silly. You painted outside the lines and your picture looks funky like when my dog has a hair cut and she is so much trouble that they leave her half cut That is kind of my life ,to date. My dog looks like a lion when she is a Yorkie. She comes home from the Groomer ,each time, with some level of funk. It makes me laugh until I roll on the floor. ------------------ If I am not for myself--who am I? If I am only for myself--what am I? IP: Logged
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 3242 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010	posted November 27, 2010 03:30 AM If you screw up,which you will, apologize profusely. Don't be proud about it. Humble yourself and let the person know it grieved you to hurt them. You care, terribly, and you will try not to do it again, whatever "it" is. People's feelings are fragile, as are your own. ------------------ If I am not for myself--who am I? If I am only for myself--what am I? IP: Logged
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 3242 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010	posted November 27, 2010 03:31 AM It is OK to make mistakes. It does NOT make "you" a mistake. It makes you flawed and that makes you human. ------------------ If I am not for myself--who am I? If I am only for myself--what am I? IP: Logged
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 3242 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010	posted November 27, 2010 03:33 AM There is no way to do this crazy dance, perfectly,life, I mean. Humor exists cuz life simply does not work. ------------------ If I am not for myself--who am I? If I am only for myself--what am I? IP: Logged
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 3242 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010	posted November 27, 2010 03:50 AM I believe in God. I think of how he made us. He gave us tears cuz we would need them.There is a beauty to tears,flowing. I learned this when I could NOT cry. You value every tear from then on if you have ever been SO sad you had no tears. ------------------ If I am not for myself--who am I? If I am only for myself--what am I? IP: Logged
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 3242 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010	posted November 27, 2010 04:01 AM It is a short ride but we think it will be long. ------------------ If I am not for myself--who am I? If I am only for myself--what am I? IP: Logged
LEXX Moderator Posts: 3973 From: Still out looking for Schr�dinger's cat.........& LEXIGRAMMING... is my Passion! Registered: Apr 2009	posted November 27, 2010 04:06 AM Thank you for all of those! ------------------ Everyone is a teacher... Everyone is a student... Learning is eternal...LEXX ~Somewhere, something incredible is waiting to be known. ~Carl Sagan ~The present time is theirs, but the future is mine. ~Nikola Tesla" ~Love is the key to all that is good in life! ~But firstly, love thyself! }><}}(>♥<){{><{ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ IP: Logged
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 3242 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010	posted November 27, 2010 04:07 AM You made me cry, Lexx ------------------ If I am not for myself--who am I? If I am only for myself--what am I? IP: Logged
LEXX Moderator Posts: 3973 From: Still out looking for Schr�dinger's cat.........& LEXIGRAMMING... is my Passion! Registered: Apr 2009	posted November 27, 2010 04:38 AM Ami Anne: You made me cry tears of joy! Love and blessings to you! IP: Logged
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 3242 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010	posted November 27, 2010 05:41 AM You have a space given to you, where you can stand and must. You can dress it as you like,an understated brown or crazy blue. It can change ,too. You may have worn a button down business suit your whole life but can try mauve. You can shed clothes when they don't work. I hope to end up with a pale pink or yellow like they have in baby's blankets. ------------------ If I am not for myself--who am I? If I am only for myself--what am I? IP: Logged
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 3242 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010	posted November 27, 2010 05:43 AM The rule is you can only decorate your own space. You may peek at another's but you can't grab. Kindergarten rules apply. ------------------ If I am not for myself--who am I? If I am only for myself--what am I? IP: Logged
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 3242 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010	posted November 27, 2010 05:53 AM Think of kid's faces when you look at people. It will help you understand them and yourself. Most kids know how to live ,simply. Kids want order .The order never went away . We just got too smart to see it. You don't know that until the end,or almost the end ,when it is too late to do anything about it. ------------------ If I am not for myself--who am I? If I am only for myself--what am I? IP: Logged
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 3242 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010	posted November 27, 2010 05:56 AM You are very ,very,very important. Everyone else is, too. IP: Logged
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 3242 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010	posted November 27, 2010 06:00 AM If you want to know other people, know yourself. No cheating is allowed when you look. IP: Logged
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 3242 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010	posted November 27, 2010 06:09 AM See as clearly as you can, always, even if it hurts and it will. See ,yourself, with the strongest and sharpest light. That will teach you all you need to know about others. When you are hurt,know that you could do the same thing to another. IP: Logged
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 3242 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010	posted November 27, 2010 06:10 AM You may want someone to come in your space, really badly,so you are not alone. You kid yourself that they can. It even feels that they do,sometimes. However, they don't and can't. This is the hardest lesson, I think IP: Logged
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 3242 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010	posted November 27, 2010 06:11 AM If you are ashamed of something,tell someone. IP: Logged
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 3242 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010	posted November 27, 2010 06:31 AM Do you think,maybe, I can sleep,now IP: Logged
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 3242 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010	posted November 27, 2010 08:40 AM Do the best you can and forget about the rest ------------------ If I am not for myself--who am I? If I am only for myself--what am I? IP: Logged
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 3242 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010	posted November 27, 2010 08:48 AM Never,ever,ever,ever put yourself down. You did the best with what you had,however poorly that may have been. You can go forward in new ways ------------------ If I am not for myself--who am I? If I am only for myself--what am I? IP: Logged

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