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Topic: OMG a 3 some HELP
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1306hunting Newflake Posts: 2 From: bryn mawr, pa usa Registered: Jul 2010
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posted November 30, 2010 09:12 PM
i cant believe this. i met a guy off line. we met up, instant connection. we had protected itmacy a few times, he texed several occasions that he enjoyed it, bla bla bla. and that he likes me. he has cooked everytime nice food. eventually he was hinting around about someone one name sherry, tell sherry dont talk about him, etc etc i couldnt read between the line.she sent me a email about how he was afraid to ask me to have dinner with them two, pretty much a 3 some. and how she thought i was very pretty, and he and her have a open relationship and she wasnt mad that he and i was intimate and told me to give her a call sometime. hes tried to get me to go over there and said he thinks i would like her. the other day, he texed me how im doing and stuff, and was tryna ask me to drop by. all weve done was been intimate, we dont go out and thats part of the reason why i never call him or even go over there. he talks about he cooks for me, like thats enuff, please help, what is the deal with this situation IP: Logged |
PlutoSquared Moderator Posts: 1600 From: Mars Registered: Aug 2010
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posted November 30, 2010 11:19 PM
1306hunting,Um. My feeling is that the guy was probably enjoying seeing you, but also considered bring you home to his girlfriend. That's all I got. IP: Logged |
PlutoSquared Moderator Posts: 1600 From: Mars Registered: Aug 2010
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posted November 30, 2010 11:19 PM
Welcome to Lindaland! IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 3307 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted December 01, 2010 01:21 AM
If it were I , I would be gone ,yesterday. I think he is seriously high in the creep factor lol I get a REALLY bad feeling.------------------ If I am not for myself, who am I? If I am only for myself, what am I , Bruh IP: Logged |
Predominantlyfire Knowflake Posts: 490 From: U.K Registered: Dec 2009
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posted December 01, 2010 12:33 PM
Another thread thinly disguised as puporting to seek help, but is actually gloating. Spare a thought for the rest of us, for whom the situation you describe, ISN'T happening. ------------------ Lack of Earth - Lack of bu11shit. IP: Logged |
NickiG Moderator Posts: 1884 From: Pluto, next to Ami Ann Registered: Jul 2010
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posted December 01, 2010 12:37 PM
trust amis feelings, its kinda what she does------------------ the better the chase, the better the reward IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 3307 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted December 01, 2010 10:45 PM
It is funny.I have a picture of the guy in my head. I have NO idea if I am right. Is he medium to tall--perhaps 5'11, dark hair,kind of swarthy. Is he ethic or if not, looks ethnic ? I see medium build. I see kind of large features as opposed to delicate ones. His hair is more to the wavy side than straight and dark, as I said,on the medium to thick side. Let me know if I am right. I had an impression when I read it and am stepping out of my comfort zone by sharing. I could be all wrong, too LOL
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remixel-pixelpixie Knowflake Posts: 42 From: Registered: May 2010
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posted December 02, 2010 12:58 AM
Predominantlyfire-heheheheheheheheehe funny. IP: Logged |
Predominantlyfire Knowflake Posts: 490 From: U.K Registered: Dec 2009
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posted December 02, 2010 06:20 AM
Pixie when are you accepting my friend request on FB.. Was i right about Scorpio Sun / Leo Moon?------------------ Lack of Earth - Lack of bu11shit. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 3307 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted December 02, 2010 07:07 AM
Pixie Tell me the description of the guy ------------------ If I am not for myself, who am I? If I am only for myself, what am I , Bruh IP: Logged |
LEXX Moderator Posts: 3996 From: Still out looking for Schr�dinger's cat.........& LEXIGRAMMING... is my Passion! Registered: Apr 2009
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posted December 02, 2010 09:42 AM
Seriously I do not see a dilemma here. By what you have said, and the gf willing to talk to you, and him wanting you two to meet; well this is clearly a polyamorous couple looking for a 3rd.(and later possibly even more) If you are not into the idea of even remotely considering, let alone being part of a 3 way, or a polyamory/polysexual/bi/gay/lesbian scene....... then walk away NOW! Polyamory—relationships with multiple, mutually consenting partners PS.Are you female or male?
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