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Topic: Bitchiness....a woman thing a man thing or both?
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LEXX Knowflake Posts: 9742 From: Still out looking for Schrodinger's cat.......& LEXIGRAMMING.♥.. is my Passion! Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 24, 2011 06:12 PM
Bitchiness....a woman thing a man thing or both?***** ·y (bch) adj. ***** ·i·er, ***** ·i·est Slang 1. Malicious, spiteful, or overbearing. 2. In a bad mood; irritable or cranky. bitchi·ly adv. bitchi·ness n. I say both. I know I personally seriously detest with a venomous passion sexism in relation to this concept.(be it men/women/gay/straight) ------------------ ~The present time is theirs, but the future is mine.~Nikola Tesla ~There is no box.~H♥ ~Balance is not letting anyone love you less than you love yourself.~Felipe ~I remember, therefore I am immortal~LEXX }><}}}(*>~ IP: Logged |
EverEvolvingSpirit Knowflake Posts: 954 From: A Place of Pure Love <3 Registered: Feb 2011
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posted March 24, 2011 06:15 PM
I say both too.IP: Logged |
LEXX Knowflake Posts: 9742 From: Still out looking for Schrodinger's cat.......& LEXIGRAMMING.♥.. is my Passion! Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 24, 2011 06:16 PM
quote: Originally posted by EverEvolvingSpirit: I say both too.
Thank you! ------------------ ~The present time is theirs, but the future is mine.~Nikola Tesla ~There is no box.~H♥ ~Balance is not letting anyone love you less than you love yourself.~Felipe ~I remember, therefore I am immortal~LEXX }><}}}(*>~ IP: Logged |
EverEvolvingSpirit Knowflake Posts: 954 From: A Place of Pure Love <3 Registered: Feb 2011
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posted March 24, 2011 06:21 PM
Its the worst with a man ugh!IP: Logged |
LEXX Knowflake Posts: 9742 From: Still out looking for Schrodinger's cat.......& LEXIGRAMMING.♥.. is my Passion! Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 24, 2011 06:34 PM
quote: Originally posted by EverEvolvingSpirit: Its the worst with a man ugh!
I think so too usually. Women of childbearing age have hormonal reasons but damn, periods are the shite and the pain and mess that goes with them. I am like; yeah guys; bleed from your penis, feel nasty, be limited in what you can do at times; hurting, cramping bloating..... any guy making ha ha about that deserves to become seriously impotent or suffer kidney and bladder stones and see how happy he is. And add in he must also do all the things he thinks are women chores or are things he does not do; laundry, grocery shopping, housekeeping, cooking, and if there are children, take care of them, take them to doctors and things....on top of maybe working a full time job....and most of the time the guy does not or rarely helps out. Yeah, women are the only bitchiness afflicted ones. At least women often have reasons to be, unless they are rich and spoiled and don't do anything but ***** about not being able to take a cruise or some bullshite. As for the definitions: quote: 1. Malicious, spiteful, or overbearing.
I know many more men straight and or gay like that than I do women! Many!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Some women can definitely be malicious, spiteful, and add in manipulative. Guys can be too arrogantly overbearing, sexist and or homophobic. quote:
2. In a bad mood; irritable or cranky.
LOL! Same here! Yes! Men are often worse than women for both definitions! So many are like spoiled brats wanting everything their way, or wanting awww poor baby....but oh, shoe on the other foot and the woman it a b!tchy whining b!tch.Not all men and not all women are like that but yeah, it does not matter...both can be. And sadly, guys often go out and fight or beat people up or get drunk and stupid or abusive of others without justification.
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EverEvolvingSpirit Knowflake Posts: 954 From: A Place of Pure Love <3 Registered: Feb 2011
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posted March 24, 2011 06:48 PM
I agree. Some of them are woman beaters and abusers, too cowardly to fight a real man IP: Logged |
LEXX Knowflake Posts: 9742 From: Still out looking for Schrodinger's cat.......& LEXIGRAMMING.♥.. is my Passion! Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 24, 2011 06:54 PM
quote: Originally posted by EverEvolvingSpirit: I agree. Some of them are woman beaters and abusers, too cowardly to fight a real man
Yeah, or homophobes. If more men would cry and let it out they would be better off. Feeling afflicted with bitchiness is a man and woman thing. It is a human thing.
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soulful122 Knowflake Posts: 522 From: ←↓↑→ Registered: Jan 2010
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posted March 24, 2011 09:03 PM
Both. From what I've seen though, guys seems to get over it faster (the bitchiness).. What do you think? ------------------ “If malice or envy were tangible and had a shape, it would be the shape of a boomerang.” — Charley Reese IP: Logged |
AcousticGod Knowflake Posts: 7132 From: Pleasanton, CA Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 24, 2011 09:47 PM
I don't like the term "b*tch " in general, because it tends to apply to only one gender in it's most common use. I generally like to use other words instead.That's a bit of a tangent on my part. I'd also say both. IP: Logged |
LEXX Knowflake Posts: 9742 From: Still out looking for Schrodinger's cat.......& LEXIGRAMMING.♥.. is my Passion! Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 24, 2011 09:56 PM
quote: Originally posted by soulful122: Both. From what I've seen though, guys seems to get over it faster (the bitchiness).. What do you think?
It depends on why they are feeling the bitchiness, or acting with bitchiness, and which definition one is referring to: 1. Malicious, spiteful, or overbearing. 2. In a bad mood; irritable or cranky. #1 seems to be a more constant state of being; whereas #2 can be linked to anything from stress to pain, even headaches or toothaches and so forth; or to bad living situations, failure at something, loss, sadness,.....and is dependent on what is happening in ones life, and how they feel mentally and or physically.
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LEXX Knowflake Posts: 9742 From: Still out looking for Schrodinger's cat.......& LEXIGRAMMING.♥.. is my Passion! Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 24, 2011 10:09 PM
quote: Originally posted by AcousticGod: I don't like the term "b*tch " in general, because it tends to apply to only one gender in it's most common use. I generally like to use other words instead.That's a bit of a tangent on my part. I'd also say both.
Oh I totally agree! That is very offensive to me, the sexist undertones/insinuations. It also has the implications of it being a normal thing for only women or gay men. I have heard that from men all my life to date. It makes me not like being a woman. It makes it sound like I am some revolting sub species when I am in a bad mood....for totally justifiable serious reasons, not a chipped nail or some other girly wah wah boo hoo silliness, or like a guy p!ssed acting like a fraking 12 year old because his fav team lost the game. I mean so a man so afflicted is being what? There is no damn masculine synonym for the state of bitchy bitchiness for males. Pure and simple the word is sexist. Both men and women and even children can be: 1. Malicious, spiteful, or overbearing. 2. In a bad mood; irritable or cranky. Animals can also be: 2. In a bad mood; irritable or cranky. Rant over LOL.
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soulful122 Knowflake Posts: 522 From: ←↓↑→ Registered: Jan 2010
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posted March 24, 2011 10:23 PM
Yeah.. crankiness, irritability. Seems like guys just get over it faster though. Of course the ones I'm talking about aren't going through most of the things you mentioned. Anyone would have a difficult time with that.. ------------------ “If malice or envy were tangible and had a shape, it would be the shape of a boomerang.” — Charley Reese IP: Logged |
TxGirl Knowflake Posts: 257 From: Registered: Feb 2011
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posted March 25, 2011 01:52 AM
Found this tidbit nifty, maybe some of our astro folk know something about it? Not sure if it's real but if you google man period you get a lot of stuff on it lol.Biologists in Sweden will furnish conclusive evidence that men have "periods" analogous to a woman's menstrual cycle. They seem to correspond to changes in the relationship between Earth and the planet Mars, the biologists will claim. At the peak of the male "marstral cycle," which can last up to 10 days a month, the adrenal glands release a hormone which make men more likely to be irritable, more skilled at disguising their irrational impulses with logical explanations, out of touch with their feelings, and prone to violence and poor judgment. There's also a vulnerable phase preceding the period, which the biologists will dub PMS, or Pathological Macho Stress. I think both as well.
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charmainec Moderator Posts: 5831 From: Venus next to Randall Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 28, 2011 09:41 AM
Answer to the question: bothIP: Logged |
Frozen Queen Knowflake Posts: 625 From: 11th Dimension Registered: Dec 2010
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posted March 30, 2011 01:19 PM
quote: Originally posted by TxGirl: Found this tidbit nifty, maybe some of our astro folk know something about it? Not sure if it's real but if you google man period you get a lot of stuff on it lol.Biologists in Sweden will furnish conclusive evidence that men have "periods" analogous to a woman's menstrual cycle. They seem to correspond to changes in the relationship between Earth and the planet Mars, the biologists will claim. At the peak of the male "marstral cycle," which can last up to 10 days a month, the adrenal glands release a hormone which make men more likely to be irritable, more skilled at disguising their irrational impulses with logical explanations, out of touch with their feelings, and prone to violence and poor judgment. There's also a vulnerable phase preceding the period, which the biologists will dub PMS, or Pathological Macho Stress. I think both as well.
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RMChex Knowflake Posts: 430 From: England Registered: Apr 2011
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posted April 17, 2011 02:22 PM
Both------------------ "Vision without Action is a daydream... Action without Vision is a nightmare." IP: Logged |
pixelpixie Knowflake Posts: 474 From: ON Canada Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 20, 2011 11:27 PM
completely and utterly both.It's society that deems it gender inspired. IP: Logged |
LEXX Knowflake Posts: 9742 From: Still out looking for Schrodinger's cat.......& LEXIGRAMMING.♥.. is my Passion! Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 21, 2011 04:46 AM
quote: Originally posted by pixelpixie: completely and utterly both.It's society that deems it gender inspired.
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saronna Knowflake Posts: 465 From: Australia Registered: Jan 2010
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posted April 29, 2011 11:27 PM
Bitchness is when there is competition on spiritual planeIP: Logged |
RedScorp Knowflake Posts: 4485 From: The Sun Registered: Jul 2011
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posted December 27, 2012 05:53 AM
I'm such a b!tch sometimes, and so it my sister; we get it from our mom. IP: Logged |
aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 4999 From: tennessee Registered: Jan 2012
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posted December 27, 2012 12:10 PM
i really dont think its a sexist thing ... yea the word is usually directed at women but us guys have our own labels, we get called dicks or a**holes.IP: Logged |
sand Knowflake Posts: 8379 From: Registered: May 2011
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posted December 27, 2012 01:21 PM
i got 99 problems!IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways Knowflake Posts: 4383 From: Registered: Oct 2011
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posted December 27, 2012 01:38 PM
Definitely both. I'm menopausal as well.IP: Logged |
sand Knowflake Posts: 8379 From: Registered: May 2011
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posted December 27, 2012 01:57 PM
quote: Originally posted by saronna: Bitchness is when there is competition on spiritual plane
i want to make this my sig! IP: Logged |
Odette Knowflake Posts: 1119 From: Registered: May 2012
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posted December 27, 2012 07:35 PM
another vote for BOTH!IP: Logged |