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Topic: Getting Pisces HOT
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StelliumH6
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posted April 03, 2011 04:28 PM
  
Ok, I am talking about my Pisces guy here again.
He gets very excited when I tell him stories about what other guys have done to me (sexually, of course) in the past. Is this typical of Pisces men? Part of me is absolutely fine with this as I enjoy mental stimulation. Although another part asks, why does he do this? How would you feel? IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
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posted April 04, 2011 01:58 AM
I have never heard of a guy who wants to hear about that
Hmmm
That is a very interesting topic.
I can't wait to hear what people say lol------------------
Jesus never put his trust in man cuz he knew what was in man.
He who controls his Spirit is greater than he who controls a city
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Cardinal Arbiter
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posted April 04, 2011 02:34 AM
Because he is more humble than to have pride in being original, and gets to know what you like before taking a risk. He doesn't merely want to relieve himself, and get in a position where he can (figuratively), he wants to bring you satisfaction, because it makes him feel worthy, and that is the feeling Pisces crave. When you satisfy this need of his, he will be comfortable with you enough to enjoy it instead of just give.IP: Logged |
Betty Boop
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posted April 04, 2011 05:28 AM
The same thing happened to me with a Pisces guy. He wanted details.. My feeling (My Mercury and Jupiter are in Pisces so I was trying to suss him out) was that he was very emotionally masochistic - and that on some level he enjoyed being hurt by hearing about me and these other guys.
It's actually more complicated than that, but I really don't know how to explain the rest - so that's the gist. quote:
he wants to bring you satisfaction, because it makes him feel worthy
I think this is true.. and I felt this with him also ^ -- But I think the rabbit hole goes deeper than that.
There is something about giving in a self-denying manner (whereby you get a lot out of it -- and he gets nothing -- OR -- he gets something painful/negative) --- that is a sexual turn on to Pisces. -- I think in a sense - this can turn into a psychological game.. and even though it has a slight sadomasochist vibe - it could be perfectly harmless -- if you're both ok with it. But ^ you are threading a thin line... because he is sensitive and sometimes things may hurt him more than he anticipated they would. Basically, I'd be careful as to what you tell him and how far you go...
Once a Pisces male is really hurt -- he has a tendency to disappear with no warnings whatsoever. IP: Logged |
StelliumH6
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posted April 04, 2011 06:46 PM
Cardinal and Betty Boop, your replies blew me away. I need to ask more questions now.
What does "suss him out" mean? When I talk about these other men he wants me to pretend they are him. Does that make sense without getting too graphic? I believe he is getting a lot out of it! I agree it is a psychological game. Sometimes when I tell him about this one guy I really wonder if it is okay with him or is he just saying it is all good. I wish I could read into his mind!IP: Logged |
StelliumH6
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posted April 04, 2011 07:02 PM
So when he does not want/ask me to talk about other guys and I tell him I want to think of ONLY him that means I have gained his trust and he is at total sexual ease with me?IP: Logged |
starzy54
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From: CA
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posted April 04, 2011 08:36 PM
No,My Pisces guy would never go for something like this.He got hurt just hearing about a male friend of mine who was beginning to have a crush on me before I met him.He wanted all the details,but he wasn't enjoying it.He told me it was horrible hearing about someone almost "stealing" me away from.And i never bring up other guys with him.He's sensitive about that type of stuff,and he gets jealous lol  IP: Logged |
StelliumH6
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posted April 12, 2011 09:37 AM
More insights, please?IP: Logged |
StelliumH6
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posted August 05, 2011 01:32 PM
Bringing this back. I would like to see if anyone else can add their perspective.He gets turned on by thinking about me doing things to other dudes, and talks about it while we are 'together'. However, the more I think about it he does not do that as much as he used to .. now he does focus on what he enjoys me doing to him. IP: Logged |
sand
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posted August 05, 2011 03:59 PM
the term is cuckolding. have no clue why exactly it is a turn on plus iv nothing in pisces but google is your friend. IP: Logged |
StelliumH6
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posted August 05, 2011 07:43 PM
I do not think it goes to that extent. He is not submissive. I know he does not feel inadequate at all.IP: Logged |
sand
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posted August 06, 2011 03:33 AM
i'm not really sure those people feel inadequate either and some are not subs too from what i've read. it just happens to be their fantasy. plus it's past stuff anyway he wants to recall.i could see a heavy scorp testing emotions be experimental with sharing. it would be an absolute mindf*ck. IP: Logged |
wavelink
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posted August 14, 2011 01:05 PM
OMG,
all of this is soooo not true..Come on, this is the last sign, all lessons learned, The Enjoyer
And me calmly listening stories of OTHERS enjoying my gal <>>< Fishes are actually the sign of true belonging&marriage.
Libra is joining in committed relationship (end of woman's job&start of male's sweating) often like a hidden war. If the guy pass all these femma tricks she finally submits. That's the 12th cusp - Pisces. Venus exalted n pure joys  How to get us hot?!? - show that you're able to live with lots of lovin - this way&that way, here n there.
Lots of caresses&spanks hehe... IP: Logged |
mir
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posted August 15, 2011 09:39 AM
I'm afraid I'm liable to an almost uncontrollable need for asking about sexual details myself.. merely when I'm deeper involved with a guy.
I can't think of anything else but emotional masochism as it's heavily disturbing my peace of mind when actually hearing about it.
I tried to get these things out of my (ex-) Pisces but he never told me much about it (very wise) nor did he ever ask for it.
But even the little things I heard ... aauww! My Sun is exactly on the cusp of the 12th (few minutes past it) but well it's a Leo-Sun and maybe that's why I wouldn't even allow my partner to only share me in thought. Complex yes. IP: Logged |
hippichick
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posted August 15, 2011 12:36 PM
I think he is testing you.I had a creepy Cancer man test me in this way, my Pisces ex never asked about my exes. Pisces or not, be very careful how you handle this one, just may come back to bite you in the rear in the future. Pisces is too sensitive to hear graphic details about their sig other, and often too insecure. This Pisces doesnt get a good feeling about this one. t~~~ IP: Logged |
hippichick
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posted August 15, 2011 07:17 PM
Just told my 19 yr old Aqua daughter about this post and asked her what she thought (she is quite the natural astrologer and being raised by be...well  )She says of course he will ask this, cause he is insecure, as all Pisces are insecure (according to her) but from the Aqua perspective, they are insecure in wanting to know if they measure up, to find out "if they can exceed better in an emotional/physical way..." Hmmmmmmmmmm She has cracked alot of cases for me.... Words of wisdom from youth? t~~~ IP: Logged |
wavelink
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posted August 15, 2011 08:52 PM
Heh, no, not this time I thinkIt seems to me this z sign is def much misunderstood.
Prolly coz of it's exalted nature so many guys can't live it truly. I can say that pisces are like the ferrari of the zodiac.
A sec more pressure on the pedal and it accelerates 0-100 mph & bad drivers end up in the river - the sensitive, insecure trash many associate with the fishes. Don't forget sharks, piranhas are fishes too When someone achieves all he desires & is totally happy naturally become nice with others. That niceness stemming from success&victory is the pisces's trademark. Obviously Sag's lucky ruler Jup is ruler of Pisc too; also the planet of glamour & movie stars - Neptune 'n' yea - Ven is exalted. Exaltation is much stronger than rulership coz ruling means a planet being good at something so bears it's responsibility.
While exalted means peerless skill that makes the effort lost in pleasure. Like a dancer merging with the tunes&forgetting all around. When back in
his senses sees everybody around lusty as hell hehe IP: Logged |
StelliumH6
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posted August 15, 2011 09:19 PM
So what I am gathering from you guys is he uses "other men" when we are together because it arouses him (which I know it does .. He has told me straight out it might be weird, but I enjoy it.), but it is disturbing his peace of mind when he is hearing me talk about it? That sounds like torture!I am thinking maybe he gets an ego boost that I would like to do these sexual things with other guys (fantasy), but rather I am here paying attention and getting off with him. IP: Logged |
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