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posted May 16, 2011 11:41 AM            

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Now that the U.S. knows that Osama B L had a hidden nudie stash, would the demand for porn finally decline in the U.S? I still don't see the appeal with porn TBH. You have fake actors, fake orgasms, and fake sex all being video taped and shown to some idiotic sucker who thinks it can all work in real life. Makes me wonder if a porn star would knows what its like to make love in general... Or would they get cold feet when it comes to making love IRL with REAL passion.

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posted May 16, 2011 12:22 PM            

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lol, fake sex? i dont think the sex is fake, not the act that is...but i agree, everything else about porn is fake....personally, the reason i watch it is to help me to get into the mood, not the story (the acting in porn is sooooo terrible)...i use other things for story

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posted May 16, 2011 01:18 PM            

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But that's the thing though; I just don't see how can get stimulation out of porn when you have experienced what the real thing feels like? The perfect analogy for comparison purposes would be like looking at a vacation pamphlet to a trip to Athens with a very bad picture of the acropolis pasted on it compared to the actual experience of going there and seeing the acropolis first hand .

Pamphlets don't really do justice to the real thing. I would go as far as to say that they discourage a person from taking the proverbial trip.

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posted May 16, 2011 01:33 PM            

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You know what hit me about porn---there is no tenderness.
It is cold like an ice cube
I mean if you are doing the MOST intimate thing in the world with someone and you can't even touch their face or stroke their hair---what do you have?
Two animals at the zoo lol

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posted May 16, 2011 01:56 PM            

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for me, its the sounds, like moaning and stuff, it revives the memory of sex so it gets me in the mood

ami, LOL

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posted May 16, 2011 02:49 PM            

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they make beautiful and sensual porn too. but i agree that 99% out there is rubbish with no depth or meaning.

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posted May 16, 2011 06:05 PM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
You know what hit me about porn---there is no tenderness.
It is cold like an ice cube
I mean if you are doing the MOST intimate thing in the world with someone and you can't even touch their face or stroke their hair---what do you have?
Two animals at the zoo lol

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Yes agreed, what I don't like about it is it reminds me that I've been single for the last 12 weeks.. ..

I think it serves its intended purpose though and if using porn stop some guys raping women its worth it, isn't it?

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posted May 16, 2011 06:22 PM            

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I think it serves its intended purpose though and if using porn stop some guys raping women its worth it, isn't it?

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posted May 16, 2011 08:15 PM            

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Ya, It's pretty boring, occasionally funny - very rarely, if ever a turn on.

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I wouldn't be surprised if they did. Being a porn actor.. is basically being an actor .... and after a while I'm guessing it would feel like sex is just a job, something you "act out" for the cameras in order to get your pay-check - rather than a real connection between *actual* people.

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posted May 16, 2011 08:28 PM            

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Nicky - I get what you mean about moans and sounds... but it's still not a huge turn on, because the story line seriously kills it lol
They are such male-oriented story lines. They really don't tap into female sexuality much.

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posted May 16, 2011 08:36 PM            

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which is why i love erotic novels...especially Gena Showalter...its all in 3rd person, but the story keeps switching over, following the guy for a while, then the girl for a while and the interactions are so much more realistic (even though the characters arnt necessarily human, lol)

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posted May 16, 2011 11:02 PM            

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I think that porn is fantasy and has more to do with the mind. I am not really into porn aside from a few issues of playboy etc and a few session with internet porn out of curiousity more than anything. i have a very vivid imagnation and rely on that more than porn but i think that prostitutes have an important service in society because of rape. But, i feel strongly about porn and that it can be destructive and addictive when you have a healthy sex life and marriage, family etc. I think if you have a partner whether you are marriaged or defacto porn destroys intimacy and leads into darkness and not light. I think if you are single the mind is a great tool for masturbation instead of porn but it's better to wait until one is marriaged. Masturbation is not that great on your own but one can channel all the sexual energy into creative outlets. I think the mind is the builder and one needs to be careful what one focuses and imagines in one's mind. Masturbation is just a sexual release but there are creative and constructive ways of channelling sexual energy like yoga etc. Masturbation is great when you have a partner and fantasise about them when they are in prayer time or when you are apart. But, when one is single one needs to be careful about what one imagines in one's mind as it can block images to one's soulmate.

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posted May 17, 2011 12:11 PM            

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I wouldn't be surprised if they did. Being a porn actor.. is basically being an actor .... and after a while I'm guessing it would feel like sex is just a job, something you "act out" for the cameras in order to get your pay-check - rather than a real connection between *actual* people.

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My sentiments exactly. I mean, after experiencing such a jaded view on sex and love, can a person truly be ready and willing to feel what real love is? And what real love making entices? There is no substitute for it which also explains why most porn stars have to fake their orgasms .

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posted May 18, 2011 04:36 PM            

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Not all porn is destructive and fake though....
some of it is a nice tool for solo or union time with your partner. It's visually stimulating.
I find women-on-women is sensual and sexy.. because it's visual and more emotional...usually. there are good pizza places and bad pizza places. You have to find the one that you like, knowing that not all pizza is as bad as the one you experienced that used too much MSG. Right?

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posted May 19, 2011 08:08 AM            

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there are good pizza places and bad pizza places. You have to find the one that you like, knowing that not all pizza is as bad as the one you experienced that used too much MSG. Right?

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But that is not how I see it at all. To me, watching porn is the equivalent of standing outside a pizza joint and salivating your mouth off . Why would you want to do that when you can be at an elegant restaurant enjoying a sumptuous feast ?

To heck with solo time...

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posted May 19, 2011 08:22 AM            

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There is room for 'want' in any equation.

Just ask Ralph and his Red Rider BB Gun.

But I am with you on the feast.....

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posted May 19, 2011 10:57 PM            

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I am not sure about want in any equation as we are all free will agents but there are universal laws at play.

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posted May 20, 2011 07:26 AM            

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blocking pron in the interwebs is impossible. it's big big big business. pron these days is getting sicker and sicker, and not a turn on at all. the men can't seem to get enough of it though, amazingly.

(ptss... some lesbian stuff is rather nice though

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posted May 20, 2011 07:22 PM            

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See.. I don't think it's sick at all.
It's boring. lol

If it was sick - at least it would be interesting.
I feel like "I've seen everything". In every genre of porn, they have a few main story lines and they use them over and over again.. with different women. Nothing surprises me. These people's imagination does not keep up with me at all.

The last thing I watched which was a turn on was "The Secretary" with James Spader and Maggie Glycenhaal. This is NOT porn, but it is R-rated. Unlike porn, it's an actual movie with an actual plot.

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posted May 20, 2011 07:29 PM            

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posted May 21, 2011 10:43 AM            

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you'v seen everything when you'v seen a woman take a horses d*** in her P**** and i'm not exaggerating

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posted May 25, 2011 10:17 PM            

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you'v seen everything when you'v seen a woman take a horses d*** in her P**** and i'm not exaggerating

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A horses Doll in her Purse!?
While it's true they'll make porn of everything, I will look at My Little Ponys a little differently now!

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posted May 26, 2011 12:40 AM            

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lol YUP Nicky - and I still feel like I've seen everything including that.
See the thing is with that ^ I find it neither a turn on, nor funny, nor boring. I don't even find it sick or outrageous.
the only thought that crosses my mind in terms of bestiality is health concerns. It must be my Capricorn side.. but I genuinely feel scared and concerned that - the person in the video will get sick.. and perhaps the horse will also have his own "problems" (psychologically speaking.. I hate animal abuse.. and I think animals are very psychologically and emotionally complex.)

Basically ^ my feelings towards that are of concern for the person and sadness for the animal.
But I do not find it shocking - because I really think everyone is capable of anything - I have seen it.. and I have no reasons to expect anything else - of human nature.. (or should I say - animal nature? or perhaps just NATURE?...)

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posted May 26, 2011 12:50 AM            

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Have you ever seen videos of animals (non-human animals) raping other animals?
Because someone showed me a video of an ape trying to rape a poor little ape, who was very young, of an entirely different species of ape!

And what do I feel?

Sadness.

I don’t feel shock.

I expect a lot of crap coming from a lot of living things.
I do feel humans are worse than other animals.. But – In as much as I try very hard to have affection in my heart for everyone – there is something “dark” (for lack of a better word) – in anything that exists and has “life” - including *Me*.

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posted May 26, 2011 10:03 AM            

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i'v seen a rabbit trying to rape a cat, lol

and yes, pixel, something like that

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