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Lioness
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posted May 12, 2011 08:44 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lioness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I just wanted to say.. I am totally against texting nude pics.

I am so tired of guys asking.. Really?? Seriously? You think I dont respect myself enough to just send any joe blow a nude pic of my self??

I am 38 years old.. When I started dating you dont say Hi Im ---- give me a nude pic of yourself...

We didnt just go around giving pictures of our self.. SO What if its "easier" now because of cell phones....

Wanna guess how many times that picture gets shown around?

Wanna guess how many nude pics he has on his phone?

Wanna guess how many times he sent that same pic out??

How can a serious relationship start like this???

Where I work a lot of people leave their cell phones, the first thing people do, is go through the pics.. Even sending some pics to them self.. WOW..


How many times has your pic been forward...

COME ON!! Seriously...

What happen to showing each other,at that special moment..

Plus I dont want to see his D$O$ before I have even gone out with him, or VISA versa..

Where is the mystery and the sharing of two bodies gone to?? Technology?

Now its no big deal to send your nude pic to someone before you have even gone out on a date??

INCREDIBLE!

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saronna
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posted May 12, 2011 09:09 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for saronna     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Nude pictures before a first date is too much information! You don't want your picture to be sent all over the world but only if you are kinky and a porn star would one appreicate the celebrate status of fame with nude pictures plastered around the world. You don't even get paid for it, so why do it. Prostitutes get paid for thier personal service and specialities in thier art form fellitato. I am for prosititues in marriage as there is no compitetion on spirtual plane. My soulmate and I know the difference between our intimacy and prostitutes and other women. Anyway, I know he married me for the same reasons I married him and he didn't marry all the other women in the world. Also, I have alot to focus on in my own self recovery Al-anon and to leave hands off my beautiful soulmate and husband. My soulmate is the most beautiful soul in the world and I am blessed to be marriaged to him after waiting for him so long like in 'What dreams may come'.

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saronna
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posted May 12, 2011 10:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for saronna     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Lioness, you did angel cards reading for me not so long ago and they were helpful. I am writing for some advice on marriage. I am a new Christian and I haven't been married long. I don't mind the prositutes and other women as I am open minded about marriage and sex outside of marriage but the problem is that in the Christian bible marriage it is about one woman and man and does not include outside sex that is prostitues and other women. I enjoy my husband very much. We have a very fulfilling marriage but the christian bible takes a strong stand on sex outside marriage and I find it hard giving up on the idea of our marriage verus a Christian marriage. I don't see the harm in prostitutes and other women in our marriage. We are soulmates and prostitutes and other women in our marriage can't keep us apart or can they Lioness.

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juniperb
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posted May 12, 2011 10:15 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for juniperb     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Nude pics, *sigh*. My 13 year old nephew just got grounded for life for having 2 on his phone.

I know this is different than what you are saying, but jeeze louize, who whould send nude pics to anyone? It really doesn`t compute for me.

why would someone send them? I`m serious, what`s the benefit?

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saronna
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posted May 12, 2011 11:05 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for saronna     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Lioness, I am just missing my soulmate as we are apart temporarily because of prayer time. But, I know deep down that soulmates bond can't be broken as we both want to be togethier again. It's just that I have had some doubts and came to doubt the doubts for some reason. I know my soulmate loves me and I love him deeply as well. We are not legalistic christians and we will work things out in Al-anon. But thanks for listening Lioness you have a big generous heart.

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saronna
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posted May 12, 2011 11:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for saronna     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
oh Lioness, I love my soulmate so much.

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pixelpixie
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posted May 12, 2011 11:10 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for pixelpixie     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Juni- I don't know. Sexuality is far-reaching and so quickly!
I find myself having to rush my daughter in the mornings for school, as she is 'dolling herself up'... she doesn't wear makeup but you know- she wants to look pretty. I get it, she is starting to draw interest in and from boys. (Starting? hahahaha) But at 10 1/2.... it's becoming more of a focus. That sounds so young! as does 12. I have my eye firmly on her...
Why anyone would send nude pics of themselves? ugh. I don't know. I like the mystery of clothes.. leave the nudity to the professional photographers...

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Lioness
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posted May 12, 2011 11:29 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lioness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by saronna:
oh Lioness, I love my soulmate so much.

Saronna Im a little confused here, are you posting in the wrong thread?

This thread is about people sending nude pics of them selves via cell phone...

But anyways Im sure you love him... I hope things get better...

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posted May 12, 2011 11:34 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lioness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I cant believe how many times I am being asked to send nude pic before I even have gone out, kissed or anything..

I keep thinking really?? Whats so special about you, that I would share my body with when I dont even know your last name!

But both males/females are doing this... These pictures are being sent everyday...

Its crazy...
Dont do this! Save this for that really special someone... Someone that really deserves it, that will love you and protect you...

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posted May 13, 2011 04:15 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for RMChex     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Agree. I think its the oddest thing in the world for people to do... I know someone who did, and she justified it by saying that she was happy with her body and for the world to see it.... It is not my place to say that feeling is wrong, but I pointed out to her that although she may well feel that way now, if she ever has a change of heart it will be too late and there is nothing that can be done. Once someone else has it, you lose all control over it. They might love you now, but if you ever fall out that could go on Facebook, You Tube, every tree and lampost where you live. For me, its just way too much to trust someone, anyone, with.

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saronna
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posted May 13, 2011 10:37 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for saronna     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
i don't know what happened Lioness i was typing on a double page screen and posting cuting and pasting from windows and post ended in the wrong thread. I hope i am forgiven for this computer error but my posts end up in all types of different threads and not lovely dovey section for dejavu soulmates. thanks for the angel card reading. angel card reading fits like a velvet irish glove...lol

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juniperb
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posted May 13, 2011 10:42 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for juniperb     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
saronna, it is easy to do when multi tasking Perhaps we just need to slow down and think before we post!

An Irish velvet glove, nice anology~

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Lioness
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posted May 13, 2011 11:18 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lioness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by saronna:
i don't know what happened Lioness i was typing on a double page screen and posting cuting and pasting from windows and post ended in the wrong thread. I hope i am forgiven for this computer error but my posts end up in all types of different threads and not lovely dovey section for dejavu soulmates. thanks for the angel card reading. angel card reading fits like a velvet irish glove...lol

LOL... No its ok of course I was wondering if I missed something...

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Ami Anne
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posted May 14, 2011 09:22 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I did it once in my life. If the person is the real thang then it is one thing.
However,if not it is not such a good idea

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Stawr
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posted May 16, 2011 11:18 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Stawr     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you Lioness and others!
I'm glad that you guys get it!

It is such a common thing to ask. "Hey send me some pix"
"hahahahahaha...no"
ok I don't really say that, but I useally lie and say something like my camera doesn't have pictures" :P
and then they will say something like "liar! jk it's okay though" "ok"

and sometimes I will just tell em no if I know them well enough.

I feel like younger generations get hoe-y-er and hoe-ee-er.

They way mostly young guys talk to girls is so offsensive and lame to me lately.

And I feel that guys only act the way they do cause other girls (and women?) let them get away with that.

Living in this generation can suck sometimes, almost nothing is left to the imagination.

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Stawr
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posted May 16, 2011 11:26 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Stawr     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I think I would only share nude pix with someone I was married to

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juniperb
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posted May 16, 2011 12:14 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for juniperb     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Stawr:
I think I would only share nude pix with someone I was married to

I wouldn`t even do that. What if the spouse lost their phone or the kiddies borrowed it.....?

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Ami Anne
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posted May 16, 2011 12:20 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
One of my Astrology books has a quote by Loni Anderson exemplifying Venus in Virgo--"There is not a nude picture of me to be found anywhere" lol

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dysfunctionalmystic
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posted May 16, 2011 07:44 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for dysfunctionalmystic     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
D'ya know what Ami...I can say that quote honestly and guess what ....my venus is right there in virgo lol


nowadays they are all doing it and it got old very quick...what's wrong with just seeing someone naked in the flesh? Is that just too old fashioned? (I'm 37)

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Ami Anne
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posted May 16, 2011 08:02 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Dysfunctionalmystic
Now the guys know not to ask Venus in Virgo.
They need to ask the looser signs

‎"Enlightenment doesn't result from sitting around visualizing images of light, but from integrating the darker aspects of the self into the conscious personality
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saronna
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posted May 16, 2011 10:39 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for saronna     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks juniperb, think,think, think is an easy Al-anon slogan that i forget and one day at a time when multitasking. You are so funny. I like your sense of humour juniperb. Hugs juniperb

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Lioness
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posted May 17, 2011 12:47 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lioness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Stawr:
I think I would only share nude pix with someone I was married to

I did this but on Polaroids... LOL

Ok so Im old!

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DepTaurus
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posted May 23, 2011 07:05 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for DepTaurus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
i totally agree with you lioness i am against this too. i think its just distasteful ffor people too do that especially if your in highschool.

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