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From: little rock ark, usa
Registered: Jun 2011

posted June 23, 2011 03:04 PM            

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(he said he loved me from the first time he saw me)

I'm an aqua girl, moon in sag, merc and venus in capi. I've been living with my scorpion 2 months. He pursued me relentlessly since feb. Even made sure I got rid of a deadbeat boyfriend. I know it was so he can "have" me, but it was a terrible match, anyway. I never met anyone like him. First scorpio I've met by the way. But he is everything I never had and always wanted A TRUE MAN!, not a boy, ya know? Anyway he is so hot and cold, we argued for a week str8, he told me he never wants to see that side of me (hot temper, sharp cutting tongue) he told me he thought about plotting against me for that,but he decided not too. He finally started to open up about his past, telling me some of the bad things that caused him pain...then tells me he is afraid of losing control over me. The next day he says he loves me ( I said it first a week prior, he said he was speechless) since then I text I love him (dont want him uncomfortable sayin to his face) and he doesn't text anything back! As an aqua, I don't show emotion @ all, but he has me doin it, and it's driving me crazy!! More so when I don't get it back. He loves to constantly touch me, kiss me. And the sex..omfg!!! I'm 35 he's 38 and never have I been with someone that makes me forget everything and just lose control. Btw, he started goin through my phone after he told me he loves me. And jealous!!! Woo! I can't even talk about a music artist I love (usher) he will make me go do something for him, lol, I think that part is cute tho. But does he love me, or just appeasing me?. The kind acts he does I can't ignore. He says he vibes what I need. We eat dinner together everynigh after work and he just stares @ me. I have learned not to look away..intense....help me get my thoughts together about him...im a mess, as you can tell by my post, all over the place, thnks

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From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
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posted June 23, 2011 03:09 PM            

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Why don't you post the charts in Personal Readings
Put Nessus ,Dejanera, Eros, Child ,Aphrodite,Apollo and Eris Asteroids

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Enlightenment doesn't result from sitting around visualizing images of light, but from integrating the darker aspects of the self into the conscious personality
Jung
I am my Beloved's.My Beloved is mine.
Song of Solomen

He who controls his Spirit is greater than he who controls a city
Proverbs

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From: little rock ark, usa
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posted June 23, 2011 03:13 PM            

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I'm still learning, what does all that mean?

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From: Still out looking for Schrodinger's cat.......& LEXIGRAMMING.♥.. is my Passion!
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posted June 23, 2011 03:31 PM            

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Does not sound like love to me.

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From: little rock ark, usa
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posted June 23, 2011 03:33 PM            

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Originally posted by LEXX:
Does not sound like love to me.

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why not ?

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From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
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posted June 23, 2011 03:34 PM            

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Originally posted by emcap72204:
why not ?

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Enlightenment doesn't result from sitting around visualizing images of light, but from integrating the darker aspects of the self into the conscious personality
Jung
I am my Beloved's.My Beloved is mine.
Song of Solomen

He who controls his Spirit is greater than he who controls a city
Proverbs

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From: Still out looking for Schrodinger's cat.......& LEXIGRAMMING.♥.. is my Passion!
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posted June 23, 2011 07:47 PM            

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Well I am a Scorpio.
I would not treat anyone I love in such a way.
Yeah some sounds good but some things are kinda creepy chaotic.

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From: Phoenix, AZ USA
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posted June 27, 2011 09:23 AM            

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Coming from a Scorpion woman I would say we love the entire "falling in love" process. It's wonderful and fulfilling as well as blinding and deceiving. Scorpions are very skeptical and usually have issues trusting in love. I believe, it will take time for a Scorpion man to accept the challenges involved in establishing real love and the trust to finally embrace it. While everything is going well and the new love is in full bloom Scorpions are totally infatuated with the "idea" of love, but once the disagreements and conflicts arise we step further and further away in fear of failure or personal change. When someone is really into me I usually shy away and never match their admiration for me, HOWEVER, I have pursued and border-line stalked someone who really didn't want me at all! We are weird but some would say worth it.

If I were you the very 1st thing I would do is, step back/pump my brakes. Don't get comfortable on this ride until you know what type of scorpion you are falling for. The 3 stages of a scorpion are: snake/scorpion, eagle, and the very rare Phoenix Scorpio. The snake/scorpion doesn't know what they want but are 100% sure they do. This type of scorpion is very dangerous to themselves and others. Because snake/scorpions really believe what they feeling is real they come off extremely sincere, or in other words its not an act. HOWEVER, they can change tempurtures like an unplugged hotplate would, and will have the nerves to blame you for it, so be very careful of this kind. Snake/scorpion level Scorpions can/will drown you in intense emotion (water), spoil you with undying attention, and then find out ONE thing and be turned completely off and then vanish! An eagle/rare phoenix would be more knowledgeable of their insanity type and tendency toward flip-flop emotions; therefore, they would be intuned with their emotions and more likely to overcome the issues instead of running away when love gets "real." With all that said, please know an evolved scorpion would make a wonderful lover, and very loyal lifetime mate, this however is something that will take time!

Please guard your heart and your trust! As an Aquarius it is really hard for you to express emotion and to trust. The chance of being flown 50 miles in the air at top speed only to be let go could be devastating to your journey. Good luck...remember TRUE love takes time and work...and easy come, easy go!

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From: Brickenton
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posted June 28, 2011 12:06 AM            

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Im with LEXX.

He is probably "having a good time" with you for awhile. You said he doesn't act like a little boy but he gets jealous over you mentioning that you like Usher? Yeah. Okay.

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