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From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
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posted October 10, 2011 10:14 AM            

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It is so hard to make a mistake, and not feel you ARE a mistake.

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From: Pluto, next to Ami Ann
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posted October 10, 2011 11:27 AM            

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i know....i make so many mistakes at work and i try to think "well, everyone makes mistakes" but a tiny voice in my head says back "but not as many as you"

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I once saw a sign that said "sin is death" but if "all deaths are suicide (linda goodman)" and suicide is sin, then shouldnt "death is sin" be more appropriate?

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posted October 10, 2011 12:22 PM            

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What a mean voice!

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posted October 10, 2011 12:28 PM            

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lol, i know i know....and i always try to talk back to that little voice with something positive...but i'll say something at work without realizing it like "its a good thing you showed me that cuz i probably would have messed up the first time"

my boss at one point even said "did they take out the self esteem classes in high school?" cuz i always say something like that

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I once saw a sign that said "sin is death" but if "all deaths are suicide (linda goodman)" and suicide is sin, then shouldnt "death is sin" be more appropriate?

when organic is used to describe food then you know we have come to a dark age in history

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posted October 10, 2011 01:26 PM            

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I used to make a lot of stupid mistakes when I had real jobs. I was always my harshest critic. I guess I'm better cut out for being my own boss.

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posted October 10, 2011 01:37 PM            

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I know.

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posted October 10, 2011 02:41 PM            

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If you learn from them then they can be a very good thing after the fact.
And what are mistakes?
There are many levels of such and many types.
http://oxforddictionaries.com/definition/mistake

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posted October 10, 2011 03:45 PM            

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Well you're no mistake. What you're feeling is temporary, don't let it get you down.

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posted October 10, 2011 05:01 PM            

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I don't seem to have that problem, I'm pretty forgiving of myself and others for mistakes made, and I typically have a sense of humor over it. At least usually.

Instead, I have an amazing ability to spontaneously remember something vividly which can be bad. Sometimes this isn't so bad and can even be pleasant, but there are times I recall doing something that instantly fills me with shame, remorse, and self-loathing as if I'd just done it instead of merely remembering something I did as a teen over a decade ago (for example). I tell myself to let it go, I've learned from it and grew as a person, there's no point in tormenting myself over it but it just doesn't work. So in my own way I can feel like a mistake for a mistake. Luckily, it's not so common (but terrible when it does happen).

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posted October 10, 2011 05:36 PM            

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Originally posted by Alma Sun:
Well you're no mistake. What you're feeling is temporary, don't let it get you down.

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I agree with your advice!
And.....
Oh my what a cute smilely!

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posted October 10, 2011 10:48 PM            

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Originally posted by PixieJane:
I don't seem to have that problem, I'm pretty forgiving of myself and others for mistakes made, and I typically have a sense of humor over it. At least usually.

Instead, I have an amazing ability to spontaneously remember something vividly which can be bad. Sometimes this isn't so bad and can even be pleasant, but there are times I recall doing something that instantly fills me with shame, remorse, and self-loathing as if I'd just done it instead of merely remembering something I did as a teen over a decade ago (for example). I tell myself to let it go, I've learned from it and grew as a person, there's no point in tormenting myself over it but it just doesn't work. So in my own way I can feel like a mistake for a mistake. Luckily, it's not so common (but terrible when it does happen).

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i totally feel ya....i do that some times too.....just randomly remember something i did in like elementary school and feel bad about it or think "oh i should have said that" and i try my hardest to think "oh just shut up voice...its the past and i cant change it...whats done is done" but the feeling just doesnt go away

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I once saw a sign that said "sin is death" but if "all deaths are suicide (linda goodman)" and suicide is sin, then shouldnt "death is sin" be more appropriate?

when organic is used to describe food then you know we have come to a dark age in history

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posted October 11, 2011 09:40 AM            

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Yes, I make some many mistakes as I take baby steps to maturity.

I really show my ass

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posted October 11, 2011 10:47 AM            

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(((((Ami Anne))))). Take some Love&Light from the left hand side of this post and i promise your 'mistake' feelings will disappear in a giffy. Tested medicine. Do try it. Prescription: Four times a day. Just as you wake up. In the afernoon before meals. At twilight and the fourth after dinner before you sleep. My charges? Ask my compounder pl.

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posted October 11, 2011 10:49 AM            

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Sorry! I forgot to get the medicine. Its here! On the left. lol

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