posted October 29, 2011 03:59 PM            

i'm a grown a$$ woman, paying the bills and i still have no freedom

mom says "start paying the bills and you'll have a say" or "start paying the bills and you can have freedom"

i start paying bills, and what do i get? the same damn crap as when i was 4

WTF!!!!!!!!!!!!

can she never treat me like an independent, grown woman?

i mean, she tells me to close the shed...i did, but the freaking lock is so rusted it will barely close anymore....what does she say? "omg, i'm crippled and i can close it!"

yea well sorry mom, i'm not you, i'm not my sister, i'm not my brother or any one else....sorry i cant close a rusted lock...and sorry for the fact that i fear trying because i dont want it to freaking crumble

------------------
I once saw a sign that said "sin is death" but if "all deaths are suicide (linda goodman)" and suicide is sin, then shouldnt "death is sin" be more appropriate?

posted October 29, 2011 07:48 PM            

------------------
Want a peek in to my journal?

posted October 30, 2011 10:23 AM            

edit: almost forgot this WONDEROUS part, she often says that she has one more good beating in her and shes saving it for me....she says that everytime i have a bad day.....so yea, i might be a little reluctant to say or do too much

------------------
I once saw a sign that said "sin is death" but if "all deaths are suicide (linda goodman)" and suicide is sin, then shouldnt "death is sin" be more appropriate?

posted October 30, 2011 01:02 PM            

You are still living under another persons roof. You are still subject to their rules and whims.

*Note: I suspect the reason she does not treat you with "Grown Woman" respect is because you are not. Do you eat the food she buys by chance?

Children eat their parents food, because they have a dependency.

Does she do anything for you? or are you really 100% independent? Technically the answer is No, you live under her roof.

That should tell you something, give you a place to start looking at least.

Gotta love dear old mom, looking after you, giving you a place to sleep and eat. Not to mention a storage locker(room) for all your stuff. Who else is doing that for you Nikki?

posted October 30, 2011 01:14 PM            

------------------
I once saw a sign that said "sin is death" but if "all deaths are suicide (linda goodman)" and suicide is sin, then shouldnt "death is sin" be more appropriate?

posted October 30, 2011 01:17 PM            

quote:

---

Originally posted by NickiG:
Mblake, i get that, but the thing is, i'm the only one with any income in the house, so these are my bills, the house is in both of our names, so i'm paying the bills so i might not be 100% independent, i'm not totally dependent either and she is still going back on her own word

---

Oh, that is a different situation than I thought. My point stands for other people but I don't know what to say when the kid is paying the bills lol.

posted October 30, 2011 01:19 PM            

------------------
I once saw a sign that said "sin is death" but if "all deaths are suicide (linda goodman)" and suicide is sin, then shouldnt "death is sin" be more appropriate?

posted October 30, 2011 01:26 PM            

quote:

---

Originally posted by NickiG:
i know, which is why i'm totally frusterated....i would ignore her but its hard when you live with the insults

---

Yeah, you know in a situation like that it must be frustrating for the parent who now has the depend on the kid.

posted October 30, 2011 04:44 PM            

------------------
Want a peek in to my journal?

posted October 30, 2011 05:05 PM            

quote:

---

Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Mblake, you always give the most annoying advice

---

I have a title now.

LL board's most annoying advice giver.

You know what? I will take that trophy! I would rather have that on my mantle than nothing at all!

CHEERS!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3GwjfUFyY6M

woo-hooh (it's a celebration)
woo-hooh (it's a celebration)
celebrate good times come on (it's a celebration)
celebrate good times come on (it's a celebration)

there's a party going on right here
a celebration that'll last throughout the year
shall bring you good times and good laughter too
we gonna celebrate your party with you
come on now

celebration - we're gonna celebrate and have a good time
celebration - we're gonna celebrate and have a good time

it's time to come together
it's up to you what's your pleasure
everyone around the world come on

woo-hooh (it's a celebration)
woo-hooh (it's a celebration)
celebrate good times come on (it's a celebration)
celebrate good times come on (it's a celebration)

here's a party going on right here
a dedication that'll last throughout the year
shall bring you good times and good laughter too
we gonna celebrate your party with you
come on now

celebration
we're gonna.....

it's time to come....

woo-hooh (it's a celebration)
woo-hooh (it's a celebration)
celebrate good times come on (it's a celebration)
celebrate good times come on (it's a celebration)

we're gonna have a good time tonite
let's celebrate it's allright
we're gonna have a good time tonite
let's celebrate it's allright

posted October 30, 2011 05:14 PM            

Mblake81
The Most Annoying

YAY

I don't tell the Fe-Fe's what they wanna hear

-- But look on the bright side, My time on messageboards is coming to a close. I am not sure the exact time, but I know it is soon.

Some things are starting to change again and I don't know what is next, but I have an open mind for it.

------------------------------

You wont have to deal with me for much longer Mrs. Sunshine

posted October 31, 2011 03:25 AM            

quote:

---

Originally posted by NickiG:
Lonake, i totaly understand and agree...but the thing is i'v tried and i go nowhere....she literally beat up my sister for having a bad day and then kicked her out

edit: almost forgot this WONDEROUS part, she often says that she has one more good beating in her and shes saving it for me....she says that everytime i have a bad day.....so yea, i might be a little reluctant to say or do too much

---

posted October 31, 2011 08:59 AM            

--> a flying turtle?! my life is complete ^_^

posted October 31, 2011 09:34 AM            

quote:

---

Originally posted by Venus:
@Mblake, ur advice is pretty good just you said it all wrong!! you need some Libra courtesy lessons show how to get ur message across without any complaints

---

Yes that works and I have that ability. However with some subjects I revert to raw personal experience which does not always translate to diplomacy well.

My stepfather made damn sure I understood the order of things. He was not a kind man. He provided and that was enough.

"It is only yours when Its yours" -basically-

Note: I sometimes feel unethical using that libra ability to get what I want, and I will rebel against it. Sometimes in spite of my situation.

posted October 31, 2011 09:47 AM            

"Whatever you do today, you have to sleep with tonight"

Or if you have no conscience then it doesn't matter.

I do, so it does.

posted October 31, 2011 10:08 AM            

quote:

---

Originally posted by Venus:
kudos Mitch for your strong moral compass im impressed..

Remember though, some things are better left unsaid especialy when they have absolutly no positive outcome..

---

That does not remove the urge, never has.

I pay for my transgressions(that is the difference), no matter if you see it or not.

A price is always exacted.

" Damn the Torpedoes!"

posted October 31, 2011 10:12 AM            

quote:

---

Originally posted by Mblake81:
That does not remove the urge, never has.

---

posted October 31, 2011 10:16 AM            

quote:

---

Originally posted by Venus:
aha but fighting the urge is true morality and virtue! the good of the whole over the good of the self

---

Until you have fought that battle so many times to realize that no ground will be given.

Then you have to make do with what you have.

posted October 31, 2011 11:21 AM            

quote:

---

Originally posted by Venus:
"Then you have to make do with what you have."
nope, thats too lazy even for a lazy a*s libran like myself !
it isnt easy but its doable..

---

I have had to make do with what I have. Yes it is doable. No I wouldn't accept the cost.

I did not/ still do not have the correct things to make that happen/work for myself.

You are right Venus.
You are wrong Venus.

posted October 31, 2011 11:25 AM            

quote:

---

Originally posted by Venus:
"thats too lazy even for a lazy a*s libran like myself !

---