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Topic: would you date a porn star?
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childofzeus
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From: Jupiter
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posted November 17, 2011 07:58 AM
  
Yes? No?
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Lei_Kuei
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posted November 17, 2011 08:52 AM
Only if it made me win like Charlie Sheen 
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Alma Sun
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posted November 17, 2011 11:46 AM
Lei_Kuei   It'll have to be a no for me. I mean.. I don't think my garage can house a firetruck.  The thing is though, my family's approval is important to me.. and I don't think it will sit well with them if I dated a porn star. Some of my folks are VERY traditional. Plus, I don't do flings and that's all I can see the porn star as. ------------------
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Lonake
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posted November 17, 2011 06:38 PM
Noooo. And he better he honest about his profession so that I can reject him. Or at least point him to the nearest prostitute or stripper so that he can find a more compatible match.
I could date a garbage collector, I don't care. But if he works in the sex business, no thanks. O, also advertising, couldn't date a guy who worked in that field either. Or a politician of any sort.
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PixieJane
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posted November 17, 2011 09:22 PM
Generally speaking, I wouldn't care one way or another. I'd ask about side issues regarding it and I might care about that, but just the fact alone someone worked as a porn star wouldn't itself be a concern (however, I would not date a CELEBRITY famous enough to be bothered by paparazzi, porn or otherwise, so if you meant "porn star" as in an actual star rather than just acting then I'd have to change my answer). IP: Logged |
Stawr
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posted November 17, 2011 09:49 PM
I don't think so...seems sleazy. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=I8uozUNcTWw IP: Logged |
PixieJane
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posted November 17, 2011 10:51 PM
That reminds me, a guy I knew saw a prostitution bust when a guy paid a girl $50 to kiss her feet. The arresting officer seemed really proud and he asked him how it was prostitution when there was no sex. The cop said any physical contact counted. Then he asked what if the john in this case instead provided a motel room, food, or cigarettes. The cop said that counted, too. Then he asked the cop, "Have you ever took a woman to a movie, bought her dinner, and maybe offered her a place for the night in the hopes of getting laid?" The cop told him to move the **** on. IP: Logged |
NativelyJoan
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Registered: Sep 2011
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posted November 17, 2011 11:06 PM
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Originally posted by PixieJane:
That reminds me, a guy I knew saw a prostitution bust when a guy paid a girl $50 to kiss her feet. The arresting officer seemed really proud and he asked him how it was prostitution when there was no sex. The cop said any physical contact counted. Then he asked what if the john in this case instead provided a motel room, food, or cigarettes. The cop said that counted, too. Then he asked the cop, "Have you ever took a woman to a movie, bought her dinner, and maybe offered her a place for the night in the hopes of getting laid?" The cop told him to move the **** on.
Hilarious! Wow! I would not date a Porn Star. I support anyone's right to do as they please but my body is an ivory tower, which I nurture and groom and pour pools of self love into. And I can't just share that with anyone. I'd take a prude over a porn star. Psychologically though I wonder what makes one interested in such a path. The health risks, the exploitation, the possible abuse, it's a high price to pay just to make money. IP: Logged |
Lonake
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posted November 18, 2011 02:34 AM
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Originally posted by PixieJane:
Then he asked the cop, "Have you ever took a woman to a movie, bought her dinner, and maybe offered her a place for the night in the hopes of getting laid?" The cop told him to move the **** on.
I'm safe, no man has ever bought a meal for me (!) I've always paid my own way.
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Betty Boop
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posted November 18, 2011 02:52 AM
If I had him thoroughly tested for every std in the book - and I was absolutely positive that the whole thing is in the past - that he's no longer a porn star... and he's 100% healthy..
Then sure - why not?Otherwise - No way! I care about my health! IP: Logged |
Betty Boop
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posted November 18, 2011 03:01 AM
Anyway - Don't porn stars date other porn stars? - Kind of like Hollywood people.. ?IP: Logged |
sand
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posted November 18, 2011 04:25 AM
i would but not seriously. and i'd feel they'd be getting the worst side of me. maybe the manipulative scorpy side. maybe the venus pluto. maybe the uninhibited mars in scorpio. i dunno..the aqua i was in a 2 year relationship with later posed for the local version of fhm and became a sexy starlet of some sort. in between the time we were dating if i remember right but not the reason we broke up. anyways i feel she was abit detached with the sex and also the posing/ work so i assume dating a pornstar is similar in that they're abit detached. not everyone is aqua of course.. i would not date the faux intellectual pornstar. IP: Logged |
PixieJane
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From: CA
Registered: Oct 2010
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posted November 18, 2011 01:59 PM
Health issues is ONE of those side issues I was thinking of. However, some in the porn biz have high standards when it comes to health, aren't exploitative, etc. I think most porn actors will practice safer sex than many prudes (at least if they're allowed and not whacked out on drugs). Exploitation is also a concern, but I feel the same about anyone who works for many wage slave jobs. My biggest concern is that someone doing porn would be burned out on sex and might not be able to connect that way anymore, though I have a low enough sex drive that I could probably work around that. That said, a difference between being a lover and being a good friend is how one connects (or doesn't) sexually... quote:
I'm safe, no man has ever bought a meal for me (!) I've always paid my own way.[/B]
Me, too. When I was a 15-year-old runaway I had harsh experiences of men doing something nice for me, maybe even just getting me a coke, and then saying I "owed" him, a few even going so far to try sexually assaulting me when I wouldn't give them sex favors. I quickly learned to be wary of any kind of charity (especially from an older man) and to this day I don't let a man I don't know pay my way for anything to prevent "misunderstandings." I'm that way with charity, too. Like when a neighbor lost a job and couldn't find another one she was able to get on welfare but couldn't get paper products or stuff for her cats so I bought a bunch of TP, paper towels, cat food, and cat litter and left it outside her backdoor without a note. In part that was so she wouldn't come to depend on me like that (I can't do stuff like that all the time) but also because I didn't want her to fear what the hidden price tag was (as I'd have done if the sitch had been reversed). By being anonymous there was no price tag or ulterior motive to worry about. IP: Logged |
Lonake
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posted November 18, 2011 03:22 PM
^ Completely agree! I found the price tag early on in life when the money of others was involved. It is a horrid, disgusting feeling. Shocking when I was young to see that there were people that thought that way, but sad fact is a sad fact. People will probably always be bought and sold.IP: Logged |
lilithpluto
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From: pluto
Registered: Dec 2011
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posted December 18, 2011 08:31 AM
Nope. My parents will kill me.  IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways
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posted December 18, 2011 11:24 AM
I kind of married one. hahaha All that's missing in my home is a studio video camera lol  No, I wouldn't date one. I'll be way too self-conscious to enjoy the date. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
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posted December 18, 2011 04:57 PM
Not unless he gave it up and became a Born Again Christian  ------------------
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LEXX
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posted December 18, 2011 05:56 PM
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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Not unless he gave it up and became a Born Again Christian
I cannot help it.....
have to say it LOL!I might date a porn star who "used" to be a Christian.
The porn part would not be as big a problem. Sorry,
that just struck me funny. Also take note:
If he became a BAC,
he would not be a porn star,
you would be dating an EX Porn Star. IP: Logged |
ElizabethO
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posted December 19, 2011 12:52 AM
I would be less worried about them having diseases (porn stars, the "professional" ones anyway who work for an agency and a lot do, actually have to test MONTHLY for every disease on earth before they can get hired) than worrying about girls TOUCHING HIM. ICK. BODILY FLUIDS. GAH. I'd never be able to deal with that. I'm very cleanly and even refuse to have sex unless my bf washes off a little beforehand.IP: Logged |
PixieJane
Knowflake Posts: 141
From: CA
Registered: Oct 2010
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posted December 19, 2011 01:50 AM
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I might date a porn star who "used" to be a Christian.
The porn part would not be as big a problem.Sorry,
that just struck me funny.
That reminds me. Trolls and flamers have only very rarely rattled me. But one guy came close. To make a long story short he was a Muslim (and I saw a video of him so I know he wasn't just pretending to be one) and he really tore into someone critical of Islam and said Islam was the religion of peace while at the same time threatening to rape her and cut her throat. I got mischievous and replied to his post with a "truly, Islam is the religion of peace," and he DID detect the sarcasm of it because I got a private message from him that, IIRC, went like this (though it was badly misspelled): "Trailer trash **** . Dirty white ***** . Death to Christians and Crusaders." It didn't phase me (not even the implied death threat), save for a momentary surprised outrage on my part of, "Did he just call me a Christian!?" Then I laughed at my own reaction given that "**** " and "***** " didn't phase me. (No, I didn't bother responding to him, though I told the woman he threatened to rape and kill that I'd turn over the PM I got if she made a complaint against him to authorities.) IP: Logged |
Tofu addict
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posted December 19, 2011 03:24 AM
No way, i would not feel special at all.
Also i would not date journalists.IP: Logged |
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