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Topic: Tired of people assuming the worst
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teasel
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posted June 26, 2012 01:34 PM
  
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charmainec
Moderator Posts: 6180
From: Venus next to Randall
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 26, 2012 03:35 PM
You really don't need that sort of drama, Teasel. Ignore them. You shouldn't be in a position picking sides and all that crap. Eliminate the toxins.
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Ami Anne
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From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted June 26, 2012 03:52 PM
I have had to learn to ignore people from being a Mod. This has been the most freeing lesson. Someone just insulted me a few minutes ago( not on LL lol)
I just ignore the person, but better than that, I don't care.Hey, that person goes off my list of people I value in my life. There are tons more where he came from 
However, I learned this simple lesson through tons and tons of pain and tons and tons of tears.
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PixieJane
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From: CA
Registered: Oct 2010
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posted June 26, 2012 07:42 PM
As a Libran I've learned well from bitter experience never to try to show "the other side" to people in conflict with each other as they automatically assumed I was on the other person's side and I've come to understand those without strong Libra placements expect you to pick a side rather than trying to balance all sides (in an often vain attempt at creating harmony and fairness). Of course some people are just paranoid and have intense insecurities. I avoid them, especially as they can become vindictive and even violent and often surprise me because they assumed something ridiculous about me and my motives that I had no clue about (like I was trying to steal their man or I was talking behind their back or conversely that I was shutting them out by refusing to talk to them about someone else behind their back, etc) I can't stand it and I don't put up with it (at least not if that's the kind of behavior I can expect from them on a regular basis). IP: Logged |
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posted June 26, 2012 09:11 PM
Gee, sounds like my life on LL! LOL  I'm unsure of the proper advice to give....usually I'm good at that, but I think I don't know enough details and/or I'm super tired right now and should probably be in bed. & yeah, sometimes you have to be a ***** , otherwise they won't leave you alone. Sometimes you have to scare them away. Rrraaawwwhhh Yes, ignoring is good in some cases too. It's not passive aggressive, it's more of a bold statement that gives them the message that you are done playing games and have moved on. Hope this resolves itself quickly for you.  IP: Logged |
teasel
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posted July 15, 2012 07:54 AM
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teasel
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posted September 07, 2012 07:06 PM
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juniperb
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From: Blue Star Kachina
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 07, 2012 07:33 PM
I`m happy it worked out for you. People are fickle and we just need take them one day at a time. Our tomorrow will take care of it`s self. ------------------
We dance around the ring and suppose, but the secret sits in the middle and Knows
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