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Topic: Here's an interesting question
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12thhouser
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posted July 05, 2012 12:52 PM
  
If you were...straight, and the opposite sex...
gay, and stayed the same sex...
or bi, and it wouldn't matter... Would you ask yourself out?
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Xiiro
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posted July 05, 2012 01:08 PM
I'm gay and I would totally date my self, but my Mars is in Leo so that isn't much of a shock. =DIP: Logged |
RegardesPlatero
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From: Storybrooke, Mr. Gold's Shop
Registered: Sep 2011
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posted July 05, 2012 01:10 PM
No, probably not. I don't really date, but if I did, I'd need a person to be different than me in some areas, while being similar in others. Dating a copy of me would mean too many similarities and it would probably drive me nuts. Plus, it would be unbalanced. IP: Logged |
12thhouser
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posted July 05, 2012 01:11 PM
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Originally posted by Xiiro:
I'm gay and I would totally date my self, but my Mars is in Leo so that isn't much of a shock. =D
Which brings me to the next part of my question... If you say, "Yes, absolutely!" or indication thereof, does that mean you have an ego? (not picking on you, Xiiro) If you're leaning toward "no," would that indicate possible self-esteem issues? It's both a simple and complex set of questions, isn't it? IP: Logged |
vertiver
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From: Firey Jupiter
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posted July 05, 2012 01:14 PM
Yes I love myself, haha! I'm so sweet, I would love to encounter someone as loyal and affectionate as myself. That is why I always go for Leo Suns, I'm one and I really get along wih them!IP: Logged |
Ceridwen
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posted July 05, 2012 01:25 PM
Oh Gosh, NO!Too complicated, thinking much too much, so much in fact that nothing ever happens. Also too much of a loner, worrying too much about everything (usually fantasy-sorrows), and swinging between really weird and downright boring. Unable to really commit and decide and most of the time not even knowing what I feel, and if I will feel like this for longer than today or tomorrow. This switching-on-and-off of feelings and insecurity in this regard can get really annoying. And certainly no eyecandy either.
For a friendship definitely; loyal, trustworthy, communicative, a little bit crazy surprising ideas (esp. mentally), very tolerant and accepting and sensitive to other`s feelings.
But dating me? 
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Xiiro
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posted July 05, 2012 01:47 PM
I don't think my decision has to do with ego as much as being a complex person. I have only dated one person who really GOT me. I love that feeling of both being understood and the freedom to love someone completely. The sex would be awesome and the company would be good. I do everything in my power to make sure the person I love is cared for and respected. Being with someone who returned the sentiment, instead of becoming infatuated with that part of my personality and expecting to be taken care of, would be nice. Of course there would be struggles whenever the personality traits I dislike arise. But I think communication and getting through those struggles would be functional. IP: Logged |
12thhouser
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posted July 05, 2012 01:48 PM
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Originally posted by Xiiro:
I don't think my decision has to do with ego as much as being a complex person. I have only dated one person who really GOT me. I love that feeling of both being understood and the freedom to love someone completely. The sex would be awesome and the company would be good. I do everything in my power to make sure the person I love is cared for and respected. Being with someone who returned the sentiment, instead of becoming infatuated with that part of my personality and expecting to be taken care of, would be nice. Of course there would be struggles whenever the personality traits I dislike arise. But I think communication and getting through those struggles would be functional.
Right, as I said, I wasn't picking on you.
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lalalinda
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From: nevada
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 05, 2012 02:18 PM
relocating to the Sweet Peas Forum  IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
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posted July 05, 2012 02:32 PM
haha prolly not.IP: Logged |
12thhouser
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posted July 05, 2012 03:15 PM
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
haha prolly not.
lol, why do you say that?
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aquaguy91
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From: tennessee
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posted July 05, 2012 03:24 PM
because for some reason unknown to me i'm utterly repulsive to women, even though i look just like my dad who was a ladies man, and i'm generally a nice easygoing guy. women only want to be my buddy and tell me"oh honey , your a great guy, you are going to make some woman very happy." its like yea right, quit blowing smoke up my a**.IP: Logged |
12thhouser
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posted July 05, 2012 03:29 PM
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
because for some reason unknown to me i'm utterly repulsive to women, even though i look just like my dad who was a ladies man, and i'm generally a nice easygoing guy. women only want to be my buddy and tell me"oh honey , your a great guy, you are going to make some woman very happy." its like yea right, quit blowing smoke up my a**.
How do you know you're repulsive to women? Have they told you that or sent you obvious signals of one kind or another? Or, what "below-the-radar" behavior from them have you sensed that would cause you to think so? I don't mean to put you on the spot and/or make you uncomfortable, but your "repulsive" remark has me curious now. I know you've said the reason is unknown to you, but something has to have sent you that message to make you feel that way.
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aquaguy91
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From: tennessee
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posted July 05, 2012 03:35 PM
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Originally posted by 12thhouser:
How do you know you're repulsive to women? Have they told you that or sent you obvious signals of one kind or another? Or, what "below-the-radar" behavior from them have you sensed that would cause you to think so? I don't mean to put you on the spot and/or make you uncomfortable, but your "repulsive" remark has me curious now. I know you've said the reason is unknown to you, but something has to have sent you that message to make you feel that way.
idk its just a complete lack of interest in me as far as dating/relationships. even though i keep hearing the same bs about how im this great guy and will make a lucky woman very happy.
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12thhouser
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posted July 05, 2012 03:39 PM
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by 12thhouser:
[b] How do you know you're repulsive to women? Have they told you that or sent you obvious signals of one kind or another? Or, what "below-the-radar" behavior from them have you sensed that would cause you to think so? I don't mean to put you on the spot and/or make you uncomfortable, but your "repulsive" remark has me curious now. I know you've said the reason is unknown to you, but something has to have sent you that message to make you feel that way.
idk its just a complete lack of interest in me as far as dating/relationships. even though i keep hearing the same bs about how im this great guy and will make a lucky woman very happy.[/B][/QUOTE]Okay... sorry to hear about the lack of interest in you dating/relationship-wise. IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
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From: tennessee
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posted July 05, 2012 03:45 PM
it is what it is, i may just be meant to be an eternal bachelor. truth be told i really dont mind being single, but i'm still human and would like to spend time with somebody sometimes.IP: Logged |
ail221
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From: Mary Margaret Blanchard's home
Registered: Feb 2012
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posted July 05, 2012 03:47 PM
If I were the opposite sex would I ask myself out, I don't know I imagine a lot of "sexy time" between Me as a girl and guy but to date myself I am not sure I am rather mysterious, complicated and secretive but then again some guys like that.
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12thhouser
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posted July 05, 2012 03:47 PM
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
it is what it is, i may just be meant to be an eternal bachelor. truth be told i really dont mind being single, but i'm still human and would like to spend time with somebody sometimes.
Hey btw, when did you become a moderator? Did they anoint you, or is it due to your number of posts? You started one month before I did, but have 10 times the number of posts! IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
Moderator Posts: 3613
From: tennessee
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted July 05, 2012 03:49 PM
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Originally posted by 12thhouser:
Hey btw, when did you become a moderator? Did they anoint you, or is it due to your number of posts? You started one month before I did, but have 10 times the number of posts!
i was anointed  IP: Logged |
12thhouser
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posted July 05, 2012 03:51 PM
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
i was anointed
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aquaguy91
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posted July 05, 2012 03:53 PM
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12thhouser
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posted July 05, 2012 04:00 PM
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
randall
Hmm... I have yet to meet him. I don't even know his username on here. Unless it's "Randall" lol IP: Logged |
Randall
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From: Saturn next to Charmainec
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posted July 05, 2012 04:01 PM
No, he has 10 times the number of posts as you.------------------
"Never mentally imagine for another that which you would not want to experience for yourself, since the mental image you send out inevitably comes back to you." Rebecca Clark IP: Logged |
12thhouser
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posted July 05, 2012 04:03 PM
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Originally posted by Randall:
No, he has 10 times the number of posts as you.
And there he is! Yeah, I noticed...some people are on here all the time, lol. Maybe when I reach that level. By the way, what was the "No" in reference to? IP: Logged |
12thhouser
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posted July 05, 2012 04:07 PM
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Originally posted by Randall:
No, he has 10 times the number of posts as you.
So, is "moderator" status based strictly on the number of posts under one's belt, or what other criteria does one have to meet? IP: Logged |
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