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Topic: Ladies... Does size matter?!
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RegardesPlatero Moderator Posts: 3463 From: Storybrooke, Mr. Gold's Shop Registered: Sep 2011
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posted July 15, 2012 11:52 AM
Honestly, I'm a virgin, so I wouldn't know. There's something else, too, that has to be taken into consideration: some women are built small, so something that is too big might make sex uncomfortable or painful for her. Bigger isn't always better.
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Junethird Knowflake Posts: 2146 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted July 15, 2012 03:56 PM
@RegardePlatero,Depends how big he is lol if he is hung like a horse... That would scare most woman... Average 6/7" is perfect if you can handle bigger... Awesome. Maybe ill rethink my preferences after i give birth one day lol And for a virgin, sex would hurt. I know it hurt me... Not pleasant... But still manageble... Once the vagina is relaxed it does accomodate quite nicely. For me personally, ... Legth matters to a point... But over the two, i prefer width. IP: Logged |
ShyVirgo1979 Knowflake Posts: 1053 From: Registered: May 2011
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posted July 25, 2012 12:09 AM
If my memory serves me right, this is my 1st time in this forum....only u june, only u thank u for the entertainment cuz I needed a good laugh hahaYes size matters to me but only bc I'm 5 ft tall and if its too big, its very painful for me. Average is good enuf for me. And I agree - its all in how he works it  IP: Logged |
Junethird Knowflake Posts: 2146 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted July 25, 2012 02:39 PM
Welcome shy!! This forum is fiesty and lots of fun  IP: Logged |
PixieJane Knowflake Posts: 706 From: CA Registered: Oct 2010
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posted July 25, 2012 07:04 PM
For what it's worth I once got spam in my email that was like "MONSTER **** : MAKE HER BLEED!!!" I found it disturbing enough that I was especially wary of men who flirted with me for awhile after that. Granted, it's not so much the size (but I'm still not interested in a "monster **** " or what I call "King Dong") but the attitude of "make her bleed" and that this was a selling point. Even if a guy didn't have a "monster **** " he might still try to make me bleed to feel better about himself. I showed that spam to friends of mine and all the women were disgusted by it. (And just to be clear, these weren't prudes, I chose a couple of them because they practically worshiped **** , and one loved "rage ***** ," and I wanted to get their reaction to it.) I showed it to a couple of men I trusted as well to ask them about the male psychology behind it and they were very embarrassed by it because there were men who would get excited by the notion, who thought penile size is everything (I even heard of contests where boys would play games to see who could get the most hangers on their penis and losers almost never wanted to play it again as it was too traumatic), and furthermore, they saw sex as not making love but rather pounding someone into submission (in a way s/he liked, at least so he hoped or claimed). Ironically, size matters much more to most men than it does to most women, though some really believe the bigger he is then the better he is (apparently a lie they get from some porn). I'll share something else, too, but in another post just in case the mods think it too inappropriate (as it's about my experience with "King Dong"). IP: Logged |
Junethird Knowflake Posts: 2146 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted July 25, 2012 07:16 PM
PixieJane,Oh wow... Yes i ve gotten those spam email about erectile dysfunction and enlarging ones junk lol. I dont think ive really looked into any of them with much depth so i dont recall one about making her bleed... Ew. Yes, the lies men tell themselves about the size of their penis. Worshipping and acknowledging the size of his junk and having to admit that he is the biggest and bestest of lover one has ever had is needed for their ego. Iam grateful to say, that none of my lovers, have been that crude and wanted to "pound away"... sigh. Men And their male talk for cheap ego boosts. IP: Logged |
PixieJane Knowflake Posts: 706 From: CA Registered: Oct 2010
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posted July 25, 2012 07:18 PM
I fooled around with a guy who was hung like a horse, thick and I'd say about 10" (or 25.4 cm) and while I did things for him I wouldn't let him penetrate me as he wanted. He considered me unreasonable (for reference I was 5'2" or 1.5 m, and a 100 pounds or 45 kg, and some of that was muscle meaning I was even thinner than I sounded) for not letting him have intercourse with me and finally asked what he could do to get me to change my mind. So I went and got a large zucchini (about the size of his **** ) and brought it back and said, "Let me stick this up your butt several times and if you let me then I'll let you [do me]." He not only refused to let me do that but he dropped me. That was fine by me, his "king dong" was just one of many reasons why we weren't compatible. Hopefully he found a woman who loves getting fisted as I expect that's the kind of woman he needs.  IP: Logged |
Junethird Knowflake Posts: 2146 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted July 25, 2012 07:26 PM
PixieJane,Lol thats a good one! Yeah like anal... No prob. What you do to me i can and should be able to do back to you its only fair, right partner, eh?! Lol Or my favorite excuse so far is, iam saving it for my future hubby as a gift. Working well so far  Sexual compatibility is high on my list. IP: Logged |
Aquacheeka Knowflake Posts: 1598 From: Toronto Registered: Mar 2012
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posted July 25, 2012 10:03 PM
Yes. Medium is best. Not too big or too small.IP: Logged |
libraschoice77 Knowflake Posts: 105 From: NYC Registered: Aug 2010
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posted July 31, 2012 01:34 PM
In my opinion wider is better  IP: Logged |
Aquacheeka Knowflake Posts: 1598 From: Toronto Registered: Mar 2012
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posted July 31, 2012 04:30 PM
quote: Originally posted by libraschoice77: In my opinion wider is better 
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frankie2912 Knowflake Posts: 605 From: yep,ks,usa Registered: Apr 2011
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posted August 05, 2012 04:23 AM
Size DOES matter to me. Also, appearance of the nether region matters to me, too.I don't like super massive dongs (not that I've ever even had one..I imagine it would hurt) but I have been with some guys who were small-ish (like 4-5 inches and skinny). The only thing that sucks about a smaller penis is that it tends to flop out and it's just harder to ride, ya know what I'm sayin'? lol All that aside...for me, it's the chemistry and passion involved that makes for good sex. I had great sex with my first..he was one of the guys on the small side. AND he was a virgin when he got with me. But I just really liked him and our interaction..it was great.
My most recent ex has the nicest looking junk I've seen yet. He was like 6 inches and had nice girth and it all just looked really symmetrical and nice. However, I couldn't stand him and all he wanted to do was jackhammer me and finished in 5 min or less, EVERY TIME. And we dated for a year and a half...what was I thinking??? IP: Logged |