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frankie2912
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posted August 05, 2012 04:12 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for frankie2912     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I read a little book about Tantra a few months ago...it was a little much for me (as far as their ritualistic outlines go) but the part that really intrigued me was the explanation on how breathing can make you horny and help you achieve orgasm.

I tried the breathing techniques while masturbating and my oh my, it really did help! I have a problem focusing and have NEVER achieved orgasm with a sex partner. I can help myself out just fine, but with a partner it's like I'm thinking of other things or I'm too self-conscious or something...

But next time I have sex, I am going to try to focus on my breathing and physical sensations. Hopefully it works.

So, do any of you practice tantra or any specific breathing exercises to improve your sex life? If so - what are they and how well do they work? Any other tips on how to focus and remain centered and not all scattered while having sex?

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sand
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posted August 05, 2012 05:51 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for sand     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I am not that interested in the spirituality of tantra but the hedonistic pleasure seeking aspect of it intrigues me..
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Ami Anne
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posted August 05, 2012 08:02 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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ail221
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posted August 05, 2012 10:23 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ail221     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I think in general has to do with excretions from your body i.e breath, sweat, spit etc. just adds to the whole experience because your body is releasing pheromones and men are releasing Androstenol and it puts your mind in a completely different state of mind. You could try adding a different scent to the room such a cinnamon, vanilla or lavender plant or candles.

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sand
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posted August 05, 2012 11:47 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for sand     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have always viewed it as being multiorgasmic but ima guy and most women are. For a guy it is the sensation and euphoria of orgasm without the little death.

I believe it is about connection as well and not something i can attempt on my own without telling my partner.

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ariesdragon
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posted August 05, 2012 12:44 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ariesdragon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm too intense for tantric breathing I think lmao

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frankie2912
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posted August 06, 2012 09:09 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for frankie2912     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
ail221 - do those herbs/scents that you mentioned increase libido? now i'm interested in making my room a sex-cave LMAO..really..my sex drive is back full swing and i can't get enough. i've been struggling with orgasm and libido for 4 years but now that i'm no longer on birth control, i think things are getting better...

time to look up some more aphrodisiacs, i suppose

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Padre35
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posted August 06, 2012 09:16 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Padre35     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

Well, the "best" sex is when ones partner is in the same rhythm as one is, breathing and moving and shared feeling.

Two hearts that beat as one for a moment so to speak.

This is one of the reasons (IMO) that women usually love to dance, the rhythm of dancing is not that far off from the rhythm of love so to speak. BUT there is more to good sex then merely dancing.

Smell, touch etc.

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ail221
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posted August 06, 2012 09:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ail221     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by frankie2912:
ail221 - do those herbs/scents that you mentioned increase libido? now i'm interested in making my room a sex-cave LMAO..really..my sex drive is back full swing and i can't get enough. i've been struggling with orgasm and libido for 4 years but now that i'm no longer on birth control, i think things are getting better...

time to look up some more aphrodisiacs, i suppose


Yup also cucumber and pumpkin it sounds odd but it works. But since you were on birth control for so long it will take a few weeks for your libido to come back in full force.

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Ami Anne
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posted August 06, 2012 09:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
You know what is more intimate than sex, it seems to me, anyway. Playing music with someone. It is such a profound sense of touching someone.

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sand
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posted August 06, 2012 10:26 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for sand     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Ami Anne:
You know what is more intimate than sex, it seems to me, anyway. Playing music with someone. It is such a profound sense of touching someone.


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Stawr
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posted August 07, 2012 12:38 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Stawr     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
yeah my sister was on a birth control that lowered her sex drive.

elderberries make the sex drive sky rocket. I donno about the smell, but eating/drinking/taking a tablet will

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Padre35
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posted August 07, 2012 12:54 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Padre35     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Ami Anne:
You know what is more intimate than sex, it seems to me, anyway. Playing music with someone. It is such a profound sense of touching someone.


I suspect playing music that a couple is into attunes internal rhythms to each other.

A glance, or a smile, can literally be "felt" by the partner in such a situation without ever touching at all so to speak.

When a partner is really in tune their feeling can literally "feel" what one is feeling at any given moment.

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